I need advice and help really bad.?

Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a year and four months or should i say were. i screwed up really bad but she wont seem to forgive me. i have said sorry so many times i have tryed just about everything. the thing is that i said somthing i didnt really mean, i said it out of frustration. because there were rumors going around that really didnt help the cause. so i said to her in gym class one day '; i dont know anymore i might be done with this.'; ever since i said that it was the worst mistake of my life i regret every word i said. ive said sorry so many times but it doesnt seem to work. and she keeps telling me that we need a brake but we have been on a break for about a week now. she said that we will be going back out before christmas ends. what i need is advice really bad on if theres anything i can do to speed up the process or anything that would make my chances better. also everytime she does somthing wrong she has a hard time saying that she didnt do anything but i always admit to the things i do wrong. and this has happend ever since she has spent the night at her friends house who she said she hated at the begining of the school year please help thank you.I need advice and help really bad.?
The best thing you can do is back off.





But before you do, show her you care. Since she isn't willing to take your words, write her a letter. It'll make you feel better and will get her thinking about you. Put a little flower or something. I know how hard this may be, but you have to give her some time. Give her a bit of space and just let her be to herself for a while. She's already said you guys would be back together by Christmas break, just say ';ok'; before she gets agitated and just calls it off. If she's calling for a break, she needs some time to breath. just trust that she'll be back and trust that she's yours. And we girls don't usually like being wrong. Just admit when you are wrong and let her be the way she is. After all, she's your girl, applaud the things you fell in love with her for and accept the flaws...Just give her some room, she'll be back.





I hope I helped


Good Luck





P.S. Trust her when she says she'll be back with you








';If you love something, let it go. If it comes back it was meant to be, if it doesn't then it wasn't meant to be';I need advice and help really bad.?
give her time to recover from the hurt. email/write her and explain your feelings without being over dramatic. and tell her that you will work on your issues, whether or not shes in the picture. you will become a better person though this process... promise!