Okay. So Me and a friend have been talking on the net for almost 3 years. we've never met and he tells me he is coming down next week on an all week business trip and he wants to see me. Problem is, i told a white lie at the beginning of our friendship that I was 5'11 and slender model, and never set the record stra8 over the years. Everything else we talked about I have been truthful on, like relationships family, preceptions etc... However the truth is I'm 5'7 and have curves (not fat tho), am a beautiful woman, just not a model. I feel as tho i need to set the record str8 with him ahead of time b4 he gets here but not sure how he will take my white lie:(. I am thinking about emailing him ahead of time. Advice? P.S. He has seen real pics of me however, just never full body shots. Adult answers please.Need advice Bad!?
My friend had a similar situatuion. Just be honest that when you first started corresponding you were a little self-conscience and wasn't completely truthful then tell him the truth.If he's been a friend for 3 years I don't think he will care.And in my honest opinion 5';7 with curves sounds more appealing then 5';11 stick then. Good Luck
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
I'm a 17 & I've Been BAD! Please Give Me Some Advice On How to Tell My MOM all the BAD News- I have a LIST?
I'm a 17 %26amp; I've Been BAD! Please Give Me Some Advice On How to Tell My MOM all the BAD News- I have a LIST?
list( i have hidden these facts for about a month)
1. Owe 120 for Fundraising to school
2. Got a no Seat Belt Ticket %26amp; have2 go2 court Jan 20,of this year
3. Failing Graduation Requirement class- A.P Gov
4. Have Been absent so many times can't count, but i really was in school, but wrong classes
5. Got a upper lip Piercing MONROE yesterday (she hates piercings)
IVE NEVER GOTTEN IN THIS MUCH TROUBLE EXCEPT FOR A COUPLE MONTHs ago When i Came HOME AT FOUR IN THE MORNING, SHE DIDNT GROUND ME OR ANY THING SHE JUST SEEM DISSAPOINTED!
HOW SHOULD I TELL HER?I'm a 17 %26amp; I've Been BAD! Please Give Me Some Advice On How to Tell My MOM all the BAD News- I have a LIST?
Don't tell her,
+%26amp; don't worry.
You're not in trouble yet,
So have fun while you still can.
Let it all naturally come out.
Don't put yourself in more trouble than needed.
Like if your mom says,
';your grounded till summer';
You just missed out on a week of freedom,
than if you would have waited a week for her to know.
I've learned the hard way.
hope I helped.I'm a 17 %26amp; I've Been BAD! Please Give Me Some Advice On How to Tell My MOM all the BAD News- I have a LIST?
I say sit down with her and tell her you want to be open and honest, and tell her you are confiding in her because you always want to have an honest open relationship, That will let her know you are coming to her first and are being honest. You are going to her and no one else. Even though she wont like what you have done she will like that you came to her with it.
I remember reading this joke where the son writes his father a note and leaves the house. The note says all the bad things he had done like gotten a girl pregnant and moved away to join some hippie movement and doing drugs. Then, at the end it says I was just kidding and these r the real things that happened which was not nearly as bad. You could try that. Best of luck.
Well you already have a list just print it and hand it to her. She seems easy going. Now my kid. I would have nipped that in the but long before it got this far, but I expect him to have discipline and class. You can't do that without an education.
How do you fail government. They can not teach much in an American Government Class anymore if the youth was ignorant enough to elect OBAMA.
i duobt this is real but whatev have fun telling her as you will get into loads of crap if you don't and how can you be in the wrong class for a whole semester?
Tell her you want to enlist in the Army, when she asks why, say you think you need to learn more discipline. When she asks again, then tell her all that...
leave a letter somewhere she will see it, then stay with a friend for a few days.
or just make two lists and give them to her...make the fake one really really bad so she is a little releived....
=]
good luck
Give her the list and accept what ever punishment she gives you. At least you know you've done some bad things.
Start by stop posting the same question multiple times,and be straight up honest. It's not that hard to be honest.
Just tell her.
Print this out, hand it to her, and hope for the best.
just say well at least i'm not married or pregnant lol
wow idk
tell her so sorry u r, and dont do those things again
one at a time!
get the no seat belt ticket done first. tell her what happened. scrape up enough money to pay for it somehow...
then take care of the A.P. Gov by enrolling for summer school regular gov. get a job and pay for the fundraiser. or get a loan from a friend/ a couple friends and pay them back gradually. the piercing... i'm not sure what you can do about that...
hey, chill out. i've got a bit of a list started.
1) didn't give my parents my psat scores.
2) haven't shown my parents my report card. (i'm getting dumber each year)
2) haven't told them i'm retaking calc ab senior year b/c i got a D+ first semester.
These are all not horrible
1.say you owe the money for fundraising, its a good cause, she may make you pay for it though
2. Just tell her, make it seem like the cop caught you at the wrong time and he was being anal. I know people who have been in a parking lot and accidentally forgot and he cop caught them in the parking lot.
3. It happens, you really should bring your grade up or switch to regular so you can graduate
4.My school is skrewed up and at the beginning of the year they gave 75% of the studens false schedules, people were going to the wrong classes, say that but don;t do it anymore.
5. Take it out and wait until you move out, if she really hates it
list( i have hidden these facts for about a month)
1. Owe 120 for Fundraising to school
2. Got a no Seat Belt Ticket %26amp; have2 go2 court Jan 20,of this year
3. Failing Graduation Requirement class- A.P Gov
4. Have Been absent so many times can't count, but i really was in school, but wrong classes
5. Got a upper lip Piercing MONROE yesterday (she hates piercings)
IVE NEVER GOTTEN IN THIS MUCH TROUBLE EXCEPT FOR A COUPLE MONTHs ago When i Came HOME AT FOUR IN THE MORNING, SHE DIDNT GROUND ME OR ANY THING SHE JUST SEEM DISSAPOINTED!
HOW SHOULD I TELL HER?I'm a 17 %26amp; I've Been BAD! Please Give Me Some Advice On How to Tell My MOM all the BAD News- I have a LIST?
Don't tell her,
+%26amp; don't worry.
You're not in trouble yet,
So have fun while you still can.
Let it all naturally come out.
Don't put yourself in more trouble than needed.
Like if your mom says,
';your grounded till summer';
You just missed out on a week of freedom,
than if you would have waited a week for her to know.
I've learned the hard way.
hope I helped.I'm a 17 %26amp; I've Been BAD! Please Give Me Some Advice On How to Tell My MOM all the BAD News- I have a LIST?
I say sit down with her and tell her you want to be open and honest, and tell her you are confiding in her because you always want to have an honest open relationship, That will let her know you are coming to her first and are being honest. You are going to her and no one else. Even though she wont like what you have done she will like that you came to her with it.
I remember reading this joke where the son writes his father a note and leaves the house. The note says all the bad things he had done like gotten a girl pregnant and moved away to join some hippie movement and doing drugs. Then, at the end it says I was just kidding and these r the real things that happened which was not nearly as bad. You could try that. Best of luck.
Well you already have a list just print it and hand it to her. She seems easy going. Now my kid. I would have nipped that in the but long before it got this far, but I expect him to have discipline and class. You can't do that without an education.
How do you fail government. They can not teach much in an American Government Class anymore if the youth was ignorant enough to elect OBAMA.
i duobt this is real but whatev have fun telling her as you will get into loads of crap if you don't and how can you be in the wrong class for a whole semester?
Tell her you want to enlist in the Army, when she asks why, say you think you need to learn more discipline. When she asks again, then tell her all that...
leave a letter somewhere she will see it, then stay with a friend for a few days.
or just make two lists and give them to her...make the fake one really really bad so she is a little releived....
=]
good luck
Give her the list and accept what ever punishment she gives you. At least you know you've done some bad things.
Start by stop posting the same question multiple times,and be straight up honest. It's not that hard to be honest.
Just tell her.
Print this out, hand it to her, and hope for the best.
just say well at least i'm not married or pregnant lol
wow idk
tell her so sorry u r, and dont do those things again
one at a time!
get the no seat belt ticket done first. tell her what happened. scrape up enough money to pay for it somehow...
then take care of the A.P. Gov by enrolling for summer school regular gov. get a job and pay for the fundraiser. or get a loan from a friend/ a couple friends and pay them back gradually. the piercing... i'm not sure what you can do about that...
hey, chill out. i've got a bit of a list started.
1) didn't give my parents my psat scores.
2) haven't shown my parents my report card. (i'm getting dumber each year)
2) haven't told them i'm retaking calc ab senior year b/c i got a D+ first semester.
These are all not horrible
1.say you owe the money for fundraising, its a good cause, she may make you pay for it though
2. Just tell her, make it seem like the cop caught you at the wrong time and he was being anal. I know people who have been in a parking lot and accidentally forgot and he cop caught them in the parking lot.
3. It happens, you really should bring your grade up or switch to regular so you can graduate
4.My school is skrewed up and at the beginning of the year they gave 75% of the studens false schedules, people were going to the wrong classes, say that but don;t do it anymore.
5. Take it out and wait until you move out, if she really hates it
Pleases advice..I'm having a veri bad cough..wat cough mixture helps?
I'm tried many different types but didnt seem help at all..Dr said viral infection..took tablet for dissolving phlegm..but still coughing veri badly..please helppp...Pleases advice..I'm having a veri bad cough..wat cough mixture helps?
cough has more than one cause. Regular mixtures and medication treat the symptoms but not the case itself. You have to consult a specialist. Don't underestimate it.Pleases advice..I'm having a veri bad cough..wat cough mixture helps?
If your a christian call on the Great Physician. otherwise, If your 21 or older get a bottle of Jack Daniels and drink a glass of it then take a nap. It,l be burned out of you in no time.
Check back with your doctor. There are many types of meds and disorders. Only if he sees you and can diagnose the exact problem can you get help.
drink plenty and plenty and plenty of water... eat more veggies and fruits specially citruses. Their vitamin C boosts your immune system and will fight the viruses. Get sleep! Cough mixtures only helps cure you but its what you eat that affects it more.
get well soon!
honey i just got over one and what i did is just layed in my bed with a box of tissues a whole lot of movies and a nice cup of jasmine tea and my coughs gone
Forget about medicine.
Write a will.
sounds like you need a better doctor, he should have given you something with codine in it by perscription.
SIMPLE LINCTUS is the best cough medicine i know i swear by it when i have had a chest infection can cant stop coughing i use this and t ALWAYS works.
Try adding it into hot water and drink it is even better that way!
cough has more than one cause. Regular mixtures and medication treat the symptoms but not the case itself. You have to consult a specialist. Don't underestimate it.Pleases advice..I'm having a veri bad cough..wat cough mixture helps?
If your a christian call on the Great Physician. otherwise, If your 21 or older get a bottle of Jack Daniels and drink a glass of it then take a nap. It,l be burned out of you in no time.
Check back with your doctor. There are many types of meds and disorders. Only if he sees you and can diagnose the exact problem can you get help.
drink plenty and plenty and plenty of water... eat more veggies and fruits specially citruses. Their vitamin C boosts your immune system and will fight the viruses. Get sleep! Cough mixtures only helps cure you but its what you eat that affects it more.
get well soon!
honey i just got over one and what i did is just layed in my bed with a box of tissues a whole lot of movies and a nice cup of jasmine tea and my coughs gone
Forget about medicine.
Write a will.
sounds like you need a better doctor, he should have given you something with codine in it by perscription.
SIMPLE LINCTUS is the best cough medicine i know i swear by it when i have had a chest infection can cant stop coughing i use this and t ALWAYS works.
Try adding it into hot water and drink it is even better that way!
CV advice for someone entering the big bad world...?
Hey everyone...
On Wednesday I did the last exam of my Uni life :( I graduate in July and so I guess I need to get me some employment...
Can someone give me some advice on what makes a great CV...?
I'm 20 and have had 1 summer job in my life (not counting the manditory babysitting stont as a teenager!)
Any advice would be greatly appreciated...CV advice for someone entering the big bad world...?
First of all I'd advise you to make an appointment with your university's careers department as they should be able to help you.
The best type of CV is what is known as a targeted or functional CV, one that targets either a specific job or a particular career (rather than a very basic chronological CV that just lists everything you have done).
As Mrs M says it is a good idea to list the relevant info right at the start of the CV. After your basic details you could have a section entitled 'Personal Profile'.
In this section give a basic summary of who you are and what you are looking for. Also, list your interests/strengths in bullet points - ideally (for a targeted CV, amend this for every job you apply for - most job adverts give a list of requirements, so build your personal profile around these). The main thing is to back up each interest/strength with an example from your studies, employment or spare time interests.CV advice for someone entering the big bad world...?
You need to sell yourself in the 1st paragraph and put a great deal of effort in a covering letter. Try to mention phrases like team player, empathy, committed, enthusiastic as your key essential qualities.
Good luck
Less is more! Nobody wants to read pages and pages of stuff. Keep it short and to the point. Since you have no real work history, highlight your personal skills and attributes and your uni degree. Also, try a resume builder - you can find them online.
don't worry about past jobs, as people know that 20yo doesn't have much experience. just hilite good points, academic accomplishments, skills, etcmake up
On Wednesday I did the last exam of my Uni life :( I graduate in July and so I guess I need to get me some employment...
Can someone give me some advice on what makes a great CV...?
I'm 20 and have had 1 summer job in my life (not counting the manditory babysitting stont as a teenager!)
Any advice would be greatly appreciated...CV advice for someone entering the big bad world...?
First of all I'd advise you to make an appointment with your university's careers department as they should be able to help you.
The best type of CV is what is known as a targeted or functional CV, one that targets either a specific job or a particular career (rather than a very basic chronological CV that just lists everything you have done).
As Mrs M says it is a good idea to list the relevant info right at the start of the CV. After your basic details you could have a section entitled 'Personal Profile'.
In this section give a basic summary of who you are and what you are looking for. Also, list your interests/strengths in bullet points - ideally (for a targeted CV, amend this for every job you apply for - most job adverts give a list of requirements, so build your personal profile around these). The main thing is to back up each interest/strength with an example from your studies, employment or spare time interests.CV advice for someone entering the big bad world...?
You need to sell yourself in the 1st paragraph and put a great deal of effort in a covering letter. Try to mention phrases like team player, empathy, committed, enthusiastic as your key essential qualities.
Good luck
Less is more! Nobody wants to read pages and pages of stuff. Keep it short and to the point. Since you have no real work history, highlight your personal skills and attributes and your uni degree. Also, try a resume builder - you can find them online.
don't worry about past jobs, as people know that 20yo doesn't have much experience. just hilite good points, academic accomplishments, skills, etc
I am very bad in how to get in a relationship with any girl i need advice?
after dating a little it should feel natural. say, ';i like you a lot...i'd like to be your boyfriend.';I am very bad in how to get in a relationship with any girl i need advice?
You can try asking the girl if she is busy on a night and then see what she answers and then tell her that you want to go out with her or something. On your date try to ask her questions like how her life is going and be a gentleman.I am very bad in how to get in a relationship with any girl i need advice?
why not try guys
why not try guys?
slap butts and wink
You can try asking the girl if she is busy on a night and then see what she answers and then tell her that you want to go out with her or something. On your date try to ask her questions like how her life is going and be a gentleman.I am very bad in how to get in a relationship with any girl i need advice?
why not try guys
why not try guys?
slap butts and wink
I am having bad anxiety over this and need some advice....?
i am having a lot of trouble over the theory of solipsism. the beleif that nothing exists outside ones own mind. and everything i have ever known and loved is all an illusion and not real.
are there any theories that prove AGAINST solipsism? is solipsism a real possibility or is it just a hypothetical theory that isnt realy accepted?I am having bad anxiety over this and need some advice....?
There's no way to prove any of the philosophies or religions right or wrong. Especially the life after death stuff. But think about it , if nothing really exists outside your mind, you can create an illusion to your liking... You can be a millionaire, a movie star etc. Anything you want! And you can just imagine that you'll be able to pay all your bills and the money will come. It has to, because it's all an illusion and nothing is real... I wouldn't get anxieties over this, I would play and have fun when everything is possible, not limited!I am having bad anxiety over this and need some advice....?
Dear kev k, you seek help, yet I cannot. I can explain and teach you some things, but could I be an imagination just as well?
I suffer from it too, so me writing to you could just be fake, but I do what my heart says, not my head. I have ways of coping with it!
gbarwa88@yahoo.com
if you think about this one using your brain, then you will go round and round in a whirl-wind and just end up with a head ache and no answers!!!
but if you think about life with your heart, then you will soon realise that there are more important things than existential questions that can't be answered by our small and limited minds in this small and limited universe: important things such as the love of our friends and family.
if you decide to really seek the answer to your question, then may i suggest that you take up Buddhism and experience the answer for yourself... but i warn u that it will be a very long journey (but a worthwhile one, i'm sure)
have fun on your journey of discovery!
I don't know how old you are, but as I got older, I gradually realized the limitations of my own imagination, and I gradually realized how strange the world can be. Truth is stranger than fiction, or imagination. So much stranger, that it is not possible that it is all imagined.
If is would be true then your own mind would had developed the idea of solipsism and your own mind would had written you this answer.
But here I sit in front of my computer, sipping on a cup of coffee, in the back hearing the soothing noise of a little water feature, and in a few minutes I wake up my kid and then prepare him breaky.
So then I am your mind, if this would be true.
i think i know you
Don't worry about it very few people really believe it. No significant philosopher has advocated it. Instead some philosophers try to argue that other people's arguments lead to solipsism and must therefore be wrong
I鈥檒l give you a simple answer
If you ignore the train and step in front of it you鈥檒l be crashed .
however their are a lot of levels of understanding and knowledge and some you get them some that you that don't .
don't confuse the the dimensions that is an illusion.
until then learn,study and observe the nature of thinks.
sure the wind you feel. the Pain that you feel. The way others can hurt you is all the proof you need. Its not all in your mind you are not the only mind and this is not a creation of that mind. The thief can shoot your loved ones, the disaster can dash your home. All of this is not a fabrication of ones own mind its all quite real.
Here is a link from wikipedia comparing solipsism to other religions
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Solipsism#S鈥?/a>
I personally do not believe in the philosophy of Solipsism i think a lot of things that are in the unknown have not yet been discovered by the human mind. it is more environmental in how the mind works and how it exists . the mind has to learn to cope in its environment learn to be able to solve problems pragmatically and rationally. the anxiety of it all is to relax and do not take it literally that things don't exist and yet they do. we live in a big wide world and we all have to have an open ones mind to other possibilities and we have to embrace it. life is no illusion all you have to do is pinch yourself if it hurts its real
are there any theories that prove AGAINST solipsism? is solipsism a real possibility or is it just a hypothetical theory that isnt realy accepted?I am having bad anxiety over this and need some advice....?
There's no way to prove any of the philosophies or religions right or wrong. Especially the life after death stuff. But think about it , if nothing really exists outside your mind, you can create an illusion to your liking... You can be a millionaire, a movie star etc. Anything you want! And you can just imagine that you'll be able to pay all your bills and the money will come. It has to, because it's all an illusion and nothing is real... I wouldn't get anxieties over this, I would play and have fun when everything is possible, not limited!I am having bad anxiety over this and need some advice....?
Dear kev k, you seek help, yet I cannot. I can explain and teach you some things, but could I be an imagination just as well?
I suffer from it too, so me writing to you could just be fake, but I do what my heart says, not my head. I have ways of coping with it!
gbarwa88@yahoo.com
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if you think about this one using your brain, then you will go round and round in a whirl-wind and just end up with a head ache and no answers!!!
but if you think about life with your heart, then you will soon realise that there are more important things than existential questions that can't be answered by our small and limited minds in this small and limited universe: important things such as the love of our friends and family.
if you decide to really seek the answer to your question, then may i suggest that you take up Buddhism and experience the answer for yourself... but i warn u that it will be a very long journey (but a worthwhile one, i'm sure)
have fun on your journey of discovery!
I don't know how old you are, but as I got older, I gradually realized the limitations of my own imagination, and I gradually realized how strange the world can be. Truth is stranger than fiction, or imagination. So much stranger, that it is not possible that it is all imagined.
If is would be true then your own mind would had developed the idea of solipsism and your own mind would had written you this answer.
But here I sit in front of my computer, sipping on a cup of coffee, in the back hearing the soothing noise of a little water feature, and in a few minutes I wake up my kid and then prepare him breaky.
So then I am your mind, if this would be true.
i think i know you
Don't worry about it very few people really believe it. No significant philosopher has advocated it. Instead some philosophers try to argue that other people's arguments lead to solipsism and must therefore be wrong
I鈥檒l give you a simple answer
If you ignore the train and step in front of it you鈥檒l be crashed .
however their are a lot of levels of understanding and knowledge and some you get them some that you that don't .
don't confuse the the dimensions that is an illusion.
until then learn,study and observe the nature of thinks.
sure the wind you feel. the Pain that you feel. The way others can hurt you is all the proof you need. Its not all in your mind you are not the only mind and this is not a creation of that mind. The thief can shoot your loved ones, the disaster can dash your home. All of this is not a fabrication of ones own mind its all quite real.
Here is a link from wikipedia comparing solipsism to other religions
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Solipsism#S鈥?/a>
I personally do not believe in the philosophy of Solipsism i think a lot of things that are in the unknown have not yet been discovered by the human mind. it is more environmental in how the mind works and how it exists . the mind has to learn to cope in its environment learn to be able to solve problems pragmatically and rationally. the anxiety of it all is to relax and do not take it literally that things don't exist and yet they do. we live in a big wide world and we all have to have an open ones mind to other possibilities and we have to embrace it. life is no illusion all you have to do is pinch yourself if it hurts its real
I'm a 17 & I've Been BAD! Please Give Me Some Advice On How to Tell My MOM all the BAD News- I have a LIST?
I'm 17- usually have a and b grades....except this Senior year
list( i have hidden these facts for about a month)
1. Owe 120 for Fundraising to school
2. Got a no Seat Belt Ticket %26amp; have2 go2 court Jan 20,of this year
3. Failing Graduation Requirement class- A.P Gov
4. Have Been absent so many times can't count, but i really was in school, but wrong classes
5. Got a upper lip Piercing MONROE yesterday (she hates piercings)
Yes i Know its all my fault
BUT PLEASE JUST GIVE ME ADVICE ON HOW TO TELL HER ALL THIS TOMORROW AND HER NOT TO BE SO MAD!!! I CANT HIDE IT ANYMORE BECAUSE SHE HAS TO GO TO SCHOOL TOMORROW TO TALK TO MY PRINCIPAL!I'm a 17 %26amp; I've Been BAD! Please Give Me Some Advice On How to Tell My MOM all the BAD News- I have a LIST?
All right lets see.
#1. I would suggest getting a job asap so that you can pay for it if you can put paying it off for a week or two if not then when you sit your mom down to tell her about the ticket also tell her about that and you'll be able to pay her back after you get a paycheck from the job you should get. (plus your probably going to need money for your ticket too) You could also maybe talk to an aunt or an uncle to see if they can lend you the money and you can pay them back and see if they can keep it on the downlow so your mom doesnt know.
#2.The most important one to tell her about is your ticket and court hearing becuase if you dont tell and you miss it you'll be in even bigger trouble not only that but she'll eventually find out because if you miss it she'll recieve a call or some kind of notice. So sit her down and say mom i really need to talk to then explain what happened.
#3. You might not have to tell her about that depending upon how long you have left in this class. See if you can raise your grade even just a little even if its to a D so at least you'll pass. Ask for extra credit or try to get a tutor.
#4.You need to talk to you guidence counselor about this not your mom and explain to them the situation. They probably have you go around and get a paper signed by the teachers of the casses you were in to show proof you were there.
#5. You cant hide that and dont try to. Just go about your day as normal she'll eventually see it. But if your worried about it and how shes going to react with everything else you tell her then i suggest you just take it out and leave it out. You can always get it redone when their isnt so much tension between you too. (you can always redo it yourself its not very hard my sister does all her piering herself.)
I dont how well this helps but i hope it helped a littleI'm a 17 %26amp; I've Been BAD! Please Give Me Some Advice On How to Tell My MOM all the BAD News- I have a LIST?
Oh, SHITTT!
Dude, you can't freaking tell her ALL of this all at once! She'll have a heart attack! :/ Good luck, you is gunna need it!
You should've thought about the consequences of this a long time ago kid..sorry.
Your mom is going to kill you
Good luck =)
You are so done. Consider getting a GED??
Go to her right now and look her in the eye and tell her Mom we need to talk. Then tell her that you have done some things that you are ashamed of but you can't keep them hidden from her any longer. Then tell her. There will probably be some yelling, and tears, but keep talking. Once you have finished let her know that you realize you are not as grown up as you thought and that you feel these were bad judgment calls on your part. Tell her that the principal will probably be discussing some of this with her tomorrow. And you'd like her help in getting things cleared up. Tell her you need her advice.
With hat in hand, telling her everything, being honest with your feelings in admitting you screwed up, and asking her for help, is the most mature thing you can do. You've learned a hard lesson here. But more importantly you went to your Mom for help.
list( i have hidden these facts for about a month)
1. Owe 120 for Fundraising to school
2. Got a no Seat Belt Ticket %26amp; have2 go2 court Jan 20,of this year
3. Failing Graduation Requirement class- A.P Gov
4. Have Been absent so many times can't count, but i really was in school, but wrong classes
5. Got a upper lip Piercing MONROE yesterday (she hates piercings)
Yes i Know its all my fault
BUT PLEASE JUST GIVE ME ADVICE ON HOW TO TELL HER ALL THIS TOMORROW AND HER NOT TO BE SO MAD!!! I CANT HIDE IT ANYMORE BECAUSE SHE HAS TO GO TO SCHOOL TOMORROW TO TALK TO MY PRINCIPAL!I'm a 17 %26amp; I've Been BAD! Please Give Me Some Advice On How to Tell My MOM all the BAD News- I have a LIST?
All right lets see.
#1. I would suggest getting a job asap so that you can pay for it if you can put paying it off for a week or two if not then when you sit your mom down to tell her about the ticket also tell her about that and you'll be able to pay her back after you get a paycheck from the job you should get. (plus your probably going to need money for your ticket too) You could also maybe talk to an aunt or an uncle to see if they can lend you the money and you can pay them back and see if they can keep it on the downlow so your mom doesnt know.
#2.The most important one to tell her about is your ticket and court hearing becuase if you dont tell and you miss it you'll be in even bigger trouble not only that but she'll eventually find out because if you miss it she'll recieve a call or some kind of notice. So sit her down and say mom i really need to talk to then explain what happened.
#3. You might not have to tell her about that depending upon how long you have left in this class. See if you can raise your grade even just a little even if its to a D so at least you'll pass. Ask for extra credit or try to get a tutor.
#4.You need to talk to you guidence counselor about this not your mom and explain to them the situation. They probably have you go around and get a paper signed by the teachers of the casses you were in to show proof you were there.
#5. You cant hide that and dont try to. Just go about your day as normal she'll eventually see it. But if your worried about it and how shes going to react with everything else you tell her then i suggest you just take it out and leave it out. You can always get it redone when their isnt so much tension between you too. (you can always redo it yourself its not very hard my sister does all her piering herself.)
I dont how well this helps but i hope it helped a littleI'm a 17 %26amp; I've Been BAD! Please Give Me Some Advice On How to Tell My MOM all the BAD News- I have a LIST?
Oh, SHITTT!
Dude, you can't freaking tell her ALL of this all at once! She'll have a heart attack! :/ Good luck, you is gunna need it!
You should've thought about the consequences of this a long time ago kid..sorry.
Your mom is going to kill you
Good luck =)
You are so done. Consider getting a GED??
Go to her right now and look her in the eye and tell her Mom we need to talk. Then tell her that you have done some things that you are ashamed of but you can't keep them hidden from her any longer. Then tell her. There will probably be some yelling, and tears, but keep talking. Once you have finished let her know that you realize you are not as grown up as you thought and that you feel these were bad judgment calls on your part. Tell her that the principal will probably be discussing some of this with her tomorrow. And you'd like her help in getting things cleared up. Tell her you need her advice.
With hat in hand, telling her everything, being honest with your feelings in admitting you screwed up, and asking her for help, is the most mature thing you can do. You've learned a hard lesson here. But more importantly you went to your Mom for help.
I'm in a bad situation with bills - any advice?
I have a full time job, I'm actively looking for an evening job to help with the bills, I don't have many valuables, but I am selling my washer and dryer.
My roommate skipped town. Left me with the entirety of our rent and utilities (not that she was paying the utilities near the end anyway). The apartment complex let me out of the lease and I've moved to a cheaper place to live. My power has been cut off because of my inability to get fully caught up with the bill since she quit paying.
I've cut out all my excess bills (cell phone plan is cut in half, etc.), I'm making crafts to sell on ETSY, etc.
My main question is: I'm trying really hard to be responsible. I don't know what else may be an option for me. I'm afraid to try to apply for a credit card to pay the bills, but I'm watching things start to crumble.
The overdraft fees and late fees are starting to really compound.
I don't know that I can talk to a charity since I'm not a dramatic case... if I had some help this month I'd be fine. I'm about to get a promotion at work that would put me back into a normal position.
Payday advance loans would just make the situation worse, I think.
Any suggestions on what I can do?I'm in a bad situation with bills - any advice?
';Payday advance loans would just make the situation worse, I think.';
Yes they will.
In this case I would first take an hour or three to come up with a budget, if you can make it threw this month you assume you will be back to a ';normal';, the problem is you are counting on something that has not happened yet. Unless your employer has already told you, you are starting this day on the new a specific day, you may get the carpet pulled out from under your feet.
The credit card actually sounds like a good idea if you only need to deal with it for a month. The thing about credit cards is that they rely totally on the person who holds them. I personally have 2 credit cards and have never paid interest on either one of them ever. The reason is because I always fully pay them off and I know my finances enough that I don't spend more than I have or will have.
But also look into cutting out everything unnecessary in your life.
You can also contact the companies you owe money to and request an extension in most cases. I know my insurance company will let me skip a monthly payment and then disburse it across the remaining months left in my contract. This is a feature I did not know about until I inquired, I only used it once because I had 2 insurance payments coming out the same day.
So explore your options you will find there is a lot out there, but always keep looking for that second job ;)
My roommate skipped town. Left me with the entirety of our rent and utilities (not that she was paying the utilities near the end anyway). The apartment complex let me out of the lease and I've moved to a cheaper place to live. My power has been cut off because of my inability to get fully caught up with the bill since she quit paying.
I've cut out all my excess bills (cell phone plan is cut in half, etc.), I'm making crafts to sell on ETSY, etc.
My main question is: I'm trying really hard to be responsible. I don't know what else may be an option for me. I'm afraid to try to apply for a credit card to pay the bills, but I'm watching things start to crumble.
The overdraft fees and late fees are starting to really compound.
I don't know that I can talk to a charity since I'm not a dramatic case... if I had some help this month I'd be fine. I'm about to get a promotion at work that would put me back into a normal position.
Payday advance loans would just make the situation worse, I think.
Any suggestions on what I can do?I'm in a bad situation with bills - any advice?
';Payday advance loans would just make the situation worse, I think.';
Yes they will.
In this case I would first take an hour or three to come up with a budget, if you can make it threw this month you assume you will be back to a ';normal';, the problem is you are counting on something that has not happened yet. Unless your employer has already told you, you are starting this day on the new a specific day, you may get the carpet pulled out from under your feet.
The credit card actually sounds like a good idea if you only need to deal with it for a month. The thing about credit cards is that they rely totally on the person who holds them. I personally have 2 credit cards and have never paid interest on either one of them ever. The reason is because I always fully pay them off and I know my finances enough that I don't spend more than I have or will have.
But also look into cutting out everything unnecessary in your life.
You can also contact the companies you owe money to and request an extension in most cases. I know my insurance company will let me skip a monthly payment and then disburse it across the remaining months left in my contract. This is a feature I did not know about until I inquired, I only used it once because I had 2 insurance payments coming out the same day.
So explore your options you will find there is a lot out there, but always keep looking for that second job ;)
Im moving and have bad credit...Im looking for advice?
My house went into foreclosure 2 years ago due to me being laid off form my job. I got a notice saying the home was going to auction, but I was able to borrow 7 thousand dollars from my brother (I have already paid him back in full) and get my home back before it went to auction, I have made every payment on my home on time since then, and every other bill I have as well, I have paid off all credit cards. the only debit I have is my car. I am moving in a few weeks for work and am trying to buy a new home, will this foreclosure still be a bad mark on my credit? Will it be hard for me to buy a new home, or even to rent a home?Im moving and have bad credit...Im looking for advice?
Possibly-possibly not because you said you saved it.I'm surprised they only wanted $7,000 to save it.Have you talked to renters and the home sellers already they are in the business and have the answers.You can also try an attorney but make sure you quote him well.So many people get on small claims court and quote a lawyer and what he said and the judge just shacks there head cause it doesn't even sound right.
Possibly-possibly not because you said you saved it.I'm surprised they only wanted $7,000 to save it.Have you talked to renters and the home sellers already they are in the business and have the answers.You can also try an attorney but make sure you quote him well.So many people get on small claims court and quote a lawyer and what he said and the judge just shacks there head cause it doesn't even sound right.
Okay.. i've really screwed up bad, i need some advice?
ok.. well I Really like this girl, and i know that she liked me about 2-3weeks ago, but im not so sure if she still does anymore... im dont know what i've done, but i really wanna be with her. She'll look at me every once in a while at school, but she wont wave and say hi like she used to. And i dont wave or saying hi either. Also, to top it off i havent talked to her in about a week AND i've tried to phone like 3 times and she never answered. But thats not really a problem b/c i overheard one of her friends talking to someone saying ';oh,susan never answers her phone.. u phone her';. I THINK that she may still be interested in me, and i really really wanna be with her (i've just had soooo much going on this week i cant even describe it all in this question) i just dont know what to do, or say and i dont know if i can ask her out again, cause well i dunno its hard.. cause we dated before, in the summer but only for about a month andOkay.. i've really screwed up bad, i need some advice?
When you two look at each other, just wave and say hi like you used to. If she says hi back, go talk to her. Talking to her is the only way you two can get something started. If she's not interested, just try to forget about her and move on, I'm sure you'll find someone who deserves to be with you. You sound like a nice guy. Good Luck.Okay.. i've really screwed up bad, i need some advice?
Wow.
That sounds rough. Here maybe I can help out^^
Why don't you try talking to the girl and figure out whats wrong. If that doesn't work maybe you can ask a friend of hers to ask her why she's been ignoring you. I'm not the type of person who goes into relationships but I sure know a lot about it.
(Don't ask why and how.)
If my advice doesn't work then I'm sorry I wasted your time.
Good Luck^^
If its hard for you to just come right out and talk to her about it you could start off with just waveing in the hallway or saying whats up when you pass her. It might give her a chance to talk to you if there is something bothering her.
you are giving off confusing signals, you need to swallow your pride, walk up to her, and ask if you have done something wrong, if not then i guess she has things on her mind, and too do, and you'll just have to play the waiting game, but go out enjoy yourself, she is, if you get no response then as much as you like this girl, she has moved on sorry, but someone will replace her in time, having and wanting serious relationships while still at school to me girls and boys should have fun, enjoy life before committing to serious relationships, when i was a school boys never interested me at all, i wanted to get my lessons homework, i had tons, exams over first,
What you need to do is approach and tell you that you would like to have a sit down conversation with her sometime soon. Ask her if anything is wrong first..Then tell her how you feel and be honest with her. I hope everything works out....
hey, just ask her, i think your buliding a mountain out of a mole here..Maybe deep inside your afraid she may say no, but thats the only way your ever gonna know, is to run that risk and find out for sure. It's all up to you.
Talk to her. Just walk up to her and say ';Hi!'; She will talk back. Ask her questions then tell her you have been busy. Tell her you tried calling, but you didn't answer. Then ask her out again. She'll let you know whether she's interested or not. You only live once. Don't let this chance pass you by. You'll regret it. At least you tried... Good luck!
Talk to her and explain what you think about her.
talk 2 her, ask her wats ^! it may seem like a childish thing but ...it works! then make her laugh sum how sum way!
that always works on me!
I think you need to give her her space.
well it sounds like you need some game man! Don't be all anxious and don't be a jerk! it sounds like you have been both. But here is the solution go up to her with confidence and say '; Whats been up you just stopped saying hi, I miss that part of the day'; I mean fix it so it sounds like you but remember this is important and you need to be yourself. If she liked you at any time I am sure she still does but sounds like you need to make some changes if you want this girl!!
If you are not afraid of rejection ask her out even with all that has happened, however I will say even if she doesn't answer her phone she would have seen the missed calls and called you back if she really wanted to. If she is not saying hi she may be mad at you for not paying attention to her after a week. I understand you may have been busy, but girls get hurt easy, you should have text her that you have a lot going on, but would like to hang out soon or talk soon. Ask her out, all she can do is say no, but she might say yes...
maybe just talk to her..
or
talk 2 her on the computer
or
just ask her if she wants to hang out afte school sometime
well, maybe she likes u but shes just afraid to show it just like u. Cuz, if ur not smiling, wat makes u think shes gonna?
Maybe she has a personal problem at home. Girls act really different when their life isn't the way it should be. Give her a little more time to get back to normal and I am sure she still likes you. As long as you don't see her with another guy she likes you and you like her!make up
When you two look at each other, just wave and say hi like you used to. If she says hi back, go talk to her. Talking to her is the only way you two can get something started. If she's not interested, just try to forget about her and move on, I'm sure you'll find someone who deserves to be with you. You sound like a nice guy. Good Luck.Okay.. i've really screwed up bad, i need some advice?
Wow.
That sounds rough. Here maybe I can help out^^
Why don't you try talking to the girl and figure out whats wrong. If that doesn't work maybe you can ask a friend of hers to ask her why she's been ignoring you. I'm not the type of person who goes into relationships but I sure know a lot about it.
(Don't ask why and how.)
If my advice doesn't work then I'm sorry I wasted your time.
Good Luck^^
If its hard for you to just come right out and talk to her about it you could start off with just waveing in the hallway or saying whats up when you pass her. It might give her a chance to talk to you if there is something bothering her.
you are giving off confusing signals, you need to swallow your pride, walk up to her, and ask if you have done something wrong, if not then i guess she has things on her mind, and too do, and you'll just have to play the waiting game, but go out enjoy yourself, she is, if you get no response then as much as you like this girl, she has moved on sorry, but someone will replace her in time, having and wanting serious relationships while still at school to me girls and boys should have fun, enjoy life before committing to serious relationships, when i was a school boys never interested me at all, i wanted to get my lessons homework, i had tons, exams over first,
What you need to do is approach and tell you that you would like to have a sit down conversation with her sometime soon. Ask her if anything is wrong first..Then tell her how you feel and be honest with her. I hope everything works out....
hey, just ask her, i think your buliding a mountain out of a mole here..Maybe deep inside your afraid she may say no, but thats the only way your ever gonna know, is to run that risk and find out for sure. It's all up to you.
Talk to her. Just walk up to her and say ';Hi!'; She will talk back. Ask her questions then tell her you have been busy. Tell her you tried calling, but you didn't answer. Then ask her out again. She'll let you know whether she's interested or not. You only live once. Don't let this chance pass you by. You'll regret it. At least you tried... Good luck!
Talk to her and explain what you think about her.
talk 2 her, ask her wats ^! it may seem like a childish thing but ...it works! then make her laugh sum how sum way!
that always works on me!
I think you need to give her her space.
well it sounds like you need some game man! Don't be all anxious and don't be a jerk! it sounds like you have been both. But here is the solution go up to her with confidence and say '; Whats been up you just stopped saying hi, I miss that part of the day'; I mean fix it so it sounds like you but remember this is important and you need to be yourself. If she liked you at any time I am sure she still does but sounds like you need to make some changes if you want this girl!!
If you are not afraid of rejection ask her out even with all that has happened, however I will say even if she doesn't answer her phone she would have seen the missed calls and called you back if she really wanted to. If she is not saying hi she may be mad at you for not paying attention to her after a week. I understand you may have been busy, but girls get hurt easy, you should have text her that you have a lot going on, but would like to hang out soon or talk soon. Ask her out, all she can do is say no, but she might say yes...
maybe just talk to her..
or
talk 2 her on the computer
or
just ask her if she wants to hang out afte school sometime
well, maybe she likes u but shes just afraid to show it just like u. Cuz, if ur not smiling, wat makes u think shes gonna?
Maybe she has a personal problem at home. Girls act really different when their life isn't the way it should be. Give her a little more time to get back to normal and I am sure she still likes you. As long as you don't see her with another guy she likes you and you like her!
I need advice really bad!?
there is this guy that is 21 at this time and I am 18 I had a crush on when i was 11 but he was dating some one who is basically my cousin but not blood wise and they broke up when I was 14 and me and him continued talking because we have both always liked to hang out together but then when I was 15 some stuff ended up happening between us and we it was like we were together with out the actual label behind every ones back from when I was 15 up until like a little over a year ago and we stopped talking at all because my basic cousin found out some how and she was threatening to call the cops on him for me only being 17 at the time. But like 3 months ago we got in contact again over the Internet and now it is like a replay again... I thought I had finally moved on from him but now I realize I am still completely in love with this guy we have never had a real big fight and we get along grate... And I don't know what to do, I want to be with him but I know that means that my Basic cousin her mom and sister will hate me and not talk to me any more. But at the same time that could be a good thing because they are nothing but drama... What would you guys do? Should I continue seeing him or Just cut all contact off? OPINIONS???I need advice really bad!?
Forget about everyone else. It's not like youre taking anything from them. If he's single, and you like each other, then you guys should be together. Seriously wtf, please just do what you wantI need advice really bad!?
I would take it slow and see if he's worth it. Date him for a while and just don't put it out there for your cousin to see if you don't want her to.
Forget about everyone else. It's not like youre taking anything from them. If he's single, and you like each other, then you guys should be together. Seriously wtf, please just do what you wantI need advice really bad!?
I would take it slow and see if he's worth it. Date him for a while and just don't put it out there for your cousin to see if you don't want her to.
What is the Worst Advice Someone can Give You?
If someone said ';The only thing you can do is pray';What is the Worst Advice Someone can Give You?
Just give up.What is the Worst Advice Someone can Give You?
Jump off a cliff with sharp rocks at the bottom, while holding lit dynamite on the way down, after jumping out of a rocket on its way out of the atmosphere.
Pull the trigger !!
Any.
You are screwed.Kill yourself immediately.
when ur down or depressed
ppl will say don't be down, don't be depressed
that really doesn't help me at all
To hurt yourself in some way.
That your career is more important than your family
One time when I was little, I couldn't open a screw off bottle of soda, so this little girl said I should get a knife and use it like a crowbar to get the top off, so I did it and it slipped and went into my hand... that sucked
Eh, who cares? Don't think about it, and I'm sure everything will just work out.
Just live in the moment.
We only have one life to live.
There is no God.
To kill someone or yourself!
Not to question things.
cheer up...
how bout you shut up!
lol.
or... SMILE!
Worst pieces of advice... ever:
- Drink and drive
- Don't bother using birth control
- Have random sex
- Blow all your money
- Drink and do drugs.. a lot
- Have the baby
- Should I continue...?
Your welcome! : )
xoxox
: )
give up, do drugs, basiclly any negative advice
Go jump off a bridge.
To go against every thing you believe in and follow them.....
To give up hope when all is not lost,
To be a Liberal!
Just go have sex with whoever--you'll feel better. (I have friends that do this, and they swear by it when feeling down--and then they get their feeling hurt when the guy never calls them, or they find he's married)
Unsolicited
Don't finish highschool, just go ahead and get pregnant and married.
always eat poop
Always eat yellow snow
turn right.. *but its nothing but trees* trust me..
Just do what seems right%26gt; God gave us brains to weigh the pro's and con's of our actions.
I overheard from a group of young lads that one lad had told another that if you hold your breath you won't get stung by stinging nettles if you put your face in them.
Apparently he tried it.
I nearly bust a gut. :D
kill anyone who stands in your way...
or
get pregnant by the age of 16
anything that has to do with changing your personality... you are who you are and that's beautiful!
take two of them ';Man'; it's cool!!!
I didn't even feel the first one, you'll be alright!
yep, try the green superman's.............two of em'
Just give up.What is the Worst Advice Someone can Give You?
Jump off a cliff with sharp rocks at the bottom, while holding lit dynamite on the way down, after jumping out of a rocket on its way out of the atmosphere.
Pull the trigger !!
Any.
You are screwed.Kill yourself immediately.
when ur down or depressed
ppl will say don't be down, don't be depressed
that really doesn't help me at all
To hurt yourself in some way.
That your career is more important than your family
One time when I was little, I couldn't open a screw off bottle of soda, so this little girl said I should get a knife and use it like a crowbar to get the top off, so I did it and it slipped and went into my hand... that sucked
Eh, who cares? Don't think about it, and I'm sure everything will just work out.
Just live in the moment.
We only have one life to live.
There is no God.
To kill someone or yourself!
Not to question things.
cheer up...
how bout you shut up!
lol.
or... SMILE!
Worst pieces of advice... ever:
- Drink and drive
- Don't bother using birth control
- Have random sex
- Blow all your money
- Drink and do drugs.. a lot
- Have the baby
- Should I continue...?
Your welcome! : )
xoxox
: )
give up, do drugs, basiclly any negative advice
Go jump off a bridge.
To go against every thing you believe in and follow them.....
To give up hope when all is not lost,
To be a Liberal!
Just go have sex with whoever--you'll feel better. (I have friends that do this, and they swear by it when feeling down--and then they get their feeling hurt when the guy never calls them, or they find he's married)
Unsolicited
Don't finish highschool, just go ahead and get pregnant and married.
always eat poop
Always eat yellow snow
turn right.. *but its nothing but trees* trust me..
Just do what seems right%26gt; God gave us brains to weigh the pro's and con's of our actions.
I overheard from a group of young lads that one lad had told another that if you hold your breath you won't get stung by stinging nettles if you put your face in them.
Apparently he tried it.
I nearly bust a gut. :D
kill anyone who stands in your way...
or
get pregnant by the age of 16
anything that has to do with changing your personality... you are who you are and that's beautiful!
take two of them ';Man'; it's cool!!!
I didn't even feel the first one, you'll be alright!
yep, try the green superman's.............two of em'
About 8 months ago I had a powerful voodoo spell cast to make someone love me, I feel bad for doing it. Advice
Months back, I decided I wanted to make this female who is the cashier/receptionist at my local YMCA fall in love with me. I had my eye on her for wel over 10 weeks after starting going there. In my area where I live there are several black magic spiritual witches or whathave. I decided to give it a shot. So we talked and talked, and I gave them personal information. The price was $ 275.00. Within a months time she starts paying mre attention to me, and eventually asks me out on a date. We went on about 20 different outings together. Had sex about 30 times since I cast the spell, or they cast it for me rather. Now she calls me like 10 times a day. want me to spend nights with, and even brought me a rolex watch. I was skeptical at first, but black magic is out there and real. Be careful with what you ask because it will happen. I feel bad for forcing someone to love me in that way. What should do? Only serious answers please as this is a true matter. Thanks,About 8 months ago I had a powerful voodoo spell cast to make someone love me, I feel bad for doing it. Advice
What is the spell!!!!!! I have to know!!About 8 months ago I had a powerful voodoo spell cast to make someone love me, I feel bad for doing it. Advice
Omg yeah what is the spell and who did you get it from? we all want to know.
Whats the matter? u got what u wanted right? or too much to handle?
if u feel bad,
CANCEL THE FRIGGIN SPELL!
or spend dough on a spell that counters the 1st one. E.g. spell of hating.
It will hurt u less than how ur guilt consumes u now.
u said it be careful what u wish for but do u still like her? u paid good money for that love now take advantage of it!!
What is the spell!!!!!! I have to know!!About 8 months ago I had a powerful voodoo spell cast to make someone love me, I feel bad for doing it. Advice
Omg yeah what is the spell and who did you get it from? we all want to know.
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Whats the matter? u got what u wanted right? or too much to handle?
if u feel bad,
CANCEL THE FRIGGIN SPELL!
or spend dough on a spell that counters the 1st one. E.g. spell of hating.
It will hurt u less than how ur guilt consumes u now.
u said it be careful what u wish for but do u still like her? u paid good money for that love now take advantage of it!!
What's the worse advice you've ever been given and actually followed?
I normally don't take advice from other people, especially if it's bad advice.
However, the worst advice I've ever been given is ';If everything were easy, we'd all do the easy things'; from my high school economics teacher. It's so blatantly obvious it's useless. If everything were hard, we'd all do the hard things. If everything were a fish, we'd all be fish.
Sorry, I know that's not the answer you wanted, but I don't really take bad advice from other people.
However, the worst advice I've ever been given is ';If everything were easy, we'd all do the easy things'; from my high school economics teacher. It's so blatantly obvious it's useless. If everything were hard, we'd all do the hard things. If everything were a fish, we'd all be fish.
Sorry, I know that's not the answer you wanted, but I don't really take bad advice from other people.
I feel really bad, need some damn good advice PLEASE?
OK here goes. Met girl on GUMTREE talked for a week on the net, I told her I was 20 when I am 18 and she is 22. Met up yesterday and I really, really, really, like her and don't want to **** things up before we actually develope something. I need this girl, or else I'll revert back to a selfconcious reck. What should I do.I feel really bad, need some damn good advice PLEASE?
You should be honest with her sweetie - you seem much older than 18, and hopefully she will understand why you lied.
It is much better to come clean sooner rather than later, as if it does end because of it, you will be less hurt.
And no need to self concious, you are a lovely bloke, and I'm sure lots of girls are beating down your door!
We've got to try and stay positive about these things, who knows - maybe it'll work this time round! If not, there are always other women (me lol) :)I feel really bad, need some damn good advice PLEASE?
I agree, you sound charming. Tell her the truth and she will see the good person that you are. Good luck and next time, just be honest.
You need to tell her the truth immediately! The longer you wait, the worse she'll take it when she finds out your real age. Plus, if you like her and want to be with her that much, and want the relationship to have any hope of succeeding, the worst thing you can do is build that relationship on a lie.
If she leaves you because you lied to her, you'll just have to deal with it because you shouldn't have done that in the first place. At the same time though, she may not take it that hard and be willing to overlook it.
Uh... First off. BE HONEST. You cant build a relatioship on lies. It doesnt work.
tell her soon the truth
your self conscious wreck seems to have returned anyway looking at your question :) 1) Age is no barrier if you like each other 2) don't tell her yet... she possibly wasn't totally honest with her details 3) be cool and calm down 4) arrange another date
5) need or want... it's different 6) don't go overboard or you will **** it up
for starters..try being honest...I know it is a concept that is foriegn to most men, but if you really feel like you ';need'; this girl then you better fix things now....no matter what the cost.....if you start your realationship on a lie....it won't last.
You need to tell her straight away your real age. It doesnt really matter how you tell her - it may be easier to do it on the net as thats the way you communicate the most. I dont think it will make her go off you as you were only 2 years out, not 10! I think you'll be fine as you probably dont know a great deal about eachother yet so she's not going to be gutted. The longer you leave it the more she'll wonder what else you've lied about when she does find out!
Do it tonight - it'll be fine cos it's the right thing to do! Good luck!
You have a chance if you can get enough courage to tell her the truth. If she can accept you for that, then you've gotten off to a good start, and can continue from there without too much unecessary stress.
Tell her the truth now!!! Or it will be too late!
Tell her NOW that you're 18 and it will make things so much easier. She might still like you for who you are, if not then it is better that things are out in the open now than when you have become even closer and she will feel even more hurt that you lied to her.
relax and stop thinking that things will go bad. she met you right? so she must think you're OK. just act how you did on the net, she liked you there.
first of all you don't need a woman to be confident. When your happy with yourself it shows on the outside and thats very attactive whether your male or female.
secondly if you continue your lie the longer it goes on the more it will eat at you, and the bigger the issue will be when it all comes out!
if she likes you, age wont matter and if it does matter it was not ment to be.
you have to learn to love yourself before others can love you.
hope it all goes well !
good luck XxX
Be open and honest with her. If she really likes you she won't mind. If she doesn't like you then what does it matter?
The sooner you admit the lie, the better. If youlet it go on, she will look at it like you basically lied to her every day. Be aware, she may be instantly turned off- honastly.. I would be. If she likes you that much, maybe she'll overlook it- just tell her asap. I hate to be deceived, and sure she would appreciate you going on with the fib.
I know this must be hard for you, but you have to tell her the truth. If you wait too long to do so, she'll be so much more likely to reject you because she'll think that the entire relationship has been a lie. Hopefully, she'll understand and stilll be interested in you, but if she doesn't then move on and keep looking for someone who will love the REAL you. There's somebody out there, just have faith - and no more lies.
be honest with her and hope for the best!
the best advice, truthfuly is lying
if its love then disclose or enclose !!!
FIrst things first: don't expect her to save you from selfconsciousness or anything else for that matter. Glad you like the internet girl, however, as you are proof positive, not everyone tells the truth on the net. Take it slow and don't put all your eggs in one basket. Try meeting someone for real, please. Oh, and for once, be honest on the net and in person. It's easy to make up a persona, but for a real relationship, you need the truth. Good luck to you.
be honest after the next time u c her. if she likes u it wont matter. 18 isnt too young
just be nice and understanding and be calm. if u dont stay calm u will F it up!
You don't need her, you just want her. You can't put that on a person, you need to not be a self-conscious reck by yourself its not her job to do that for you.
Tell her the truth as soon as possible, she will probably mind that you lied more than she will mind your age. A four year gap is not that big.
Do things that boost your confidence, and you will kill two birds with one stone. You will be more attractive to women, and you will feel less self conscious. It is you that has to do this, not her.
the fact you say you need someone seems rather concerning - i wld suggest you look at why you need her so much and i woul also deal with this first.
Well think it through, she'll be mad when she finds out you lied to her, but she'll be madder if she finds out from someone else. So tell her the truth, it's only a two year difference and that shouldn't matter. Good luck, you shouldn't need it though : )
be straightforward and truthful this time,if she is genuine she will understand
Unfortunately you may have already ';f';d things up by lying in the first place. A guy did that to me and when he told me the truth I dusted him on the spot.
Sorry.
you've got to tell her now. Imagine things do go further and she wants to take you somewhere that's over 21s only?!
Its not your choice to keep this lie. you were deceptive from the start. If you lose her its your own fault. Lies get you nowhere! If you really do get on she'll probably appreciate you being man enough to hold your hands up.
Expect a little anger from her though and give her space if she needs it. If its meant to be, she'll be back! Its you, not your age that got you the lady xxxx Good luck!
Well, from a 23 year old woman's stand point, the best thing for you to do RIGHT NOW, is be honest with her about your age.. If she's comfortable with you being two years younger than she is, it's probable that she'll be just as comfortable with the extra two. If you don not tell her now and proceed with seeing her, when the truth comes out (And it will), she will feel a little betrayed, as by not telling her the whole time, you were lying to her the whole time. It's not favorable to build a relationship on a lie, even if it is a small one... If she likes you the way you like her, the extra two years won't matter.. Even if it doesn't work out.. You need to stop being so self concious.. If you don't believe in yourself, it's gonna be just as hard for someone else to.. GOOD LUCK
you already started off on the wrong foot by lying. i would rectify that by telling the truth asap and don't lie anymore. trust is very important if you want this to work out.
keep to your stuck age and only tell her once you are married
You should be honest with her sweetie - you seem much older than 18, and hopefully she will understand why you lied.
It is much better to come clean sooner rather than later, as if it does end because of it, you will be less hurt.
And no need to self concious, you are a lovely bloke, and I'm sure lots of girls are beating down your door!
We've got to try and stay positive about these things, who knows - maybe it'll work this time round! If not, there are always other women (me lol) :)I feel really bad, need some damn good advice PLEASE?
I agree, you sound charming. Tell her the truth and she will see the good person that you are. Good luck and next time, just be honest.
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You need to tell her the truth immediately! The longer you wait, the worse she'll take it when she finds out your real age. Plus, if you like her and want to be with her that much, and want the relationship to have any hope of succeeding, the worst thing you can do is build that relationship on a lie.
If she leaves you because you lied to her, you'll just have to deal with it because you shouldn't have done that in the first place. At the same time though, she may not take it that hard and be willing to overlook it.
Uh... First off. BE HONEST. You cant build a relatioship on lies. It doesnt work.
tell her soon the truth
your self conscious wreck seems to have returned anyway looking at your question :) 1) Age is no barrier if you like each other 2) don't tell her yet... she possibly wasn't totally honest with her details 3) be cool and calm down 4) arrange another date
5) need or want... it's different 6) don't go overboard or you will **** it up
for starters..try being honest...I know it is a concept that is foriegn to most men, but if you really feel like you ';need'; this girl then you better fix things now....no matter what the cost.....if you start your realationship on a lie....it won't last.
You need to tell her straight away your real age. It doesnt really matter how you tell her - it may be easier to do it on the net as thats the way you communicate the most. I dont think it will make her go off you as you were only 2 years out, not 10! I think you'll be fine as you probably dont know a great deal about eachother yet so she's not going to be gutted. The longer you leave it the more she'll wonder what else you've lied about when she does find out!
Do it tonight - it'll be fine cos it's the right thing to do! Good luck!
You have a chance if you can get enough courage to tell her the truth. If she can accept you for that, then you've gotten off to a good start, and can continue from there without too much unecessary stress.
Tell her the truth now!!! Or it will be too late!
Tell her NOW that you're 18 and it will make things so much easier. She might still like you for who you are, if not then it is better that things are out in the open now than when you have become even closer and she will feel even more hurt that you lied to her.
relax and stop thinking that things will go bad. she met you right? so she must think you're OK. just act how you did on the net, she liked you there.
first of all you don't need a woman to be confident. When your happy with yourself it shows on the outside and thats very attactive whether your male or female.
secondly if you continue your lie the longer it goes on the more it will eat at you, and the bigger the issue will be when it all comes out!
if she likes you, age wont matter and if it does matter it was not ment to be.
you have to learn to love yourself before others can love you.
hope it all goes well !
good luck XxX
Be open and honest with her. If she really likes you she won't mind. If she doesn't like you then what does it matter?
The sooner you admit the lie, the better. If youlet it go on, she will look at it like you basically lied to her every day. Be aware, she may be instantly turned off- honastly.. I would be. If she likes you that much, maybe she'll overlook it- just tell her asap. I hate to be deceived, and sure she would appreciate you going on with the fib.
I know this must be hard for you, but you have to tell her the truth. If you wait too long to do so, she'll be so much more likely to reject you because she'll think that the entire relationship has been a lie. Hopefully, she'll understand and stilll be interested in you, but if she doesn't then move on and keep looking for someone who will love the REAL you. There's somebody out there, just have faith - and no more lies.
be honest with her and hope for the best!
the best advice, truthfuly is lying
if its love then disclose or enclose !!!
FIrst things first: don't expect her to save you from selfconsciousness or anything else for that matter. Glad you like the internet girl, however, as you are proof positive, not everyone tells the truth on the net. Take it slow and don't put all your eggs in one basket. Try meeting someone for real, please. Oh, and for once, be honest on the net and in person. It's easy to make up a persona, but for a real relationship, you need the truth. Good luck to you.
be honest after the next time u c her. if she likes u it wont matter. 18 isnt too young
just be nice and understanding and be calm. if u dont stay calm u will F it up!
You don't need her, you just want her. You can't put that on a person, you need to not be a self-conscious reck by yourself its not her job to do that for you.
Tell her the truth as soon as possible, she will probably mind that you lied more than she will mind your age. A four year gap is not that big.
Do things that boost your confidence, and you will kill two birds with one stone. You will be more attractive to women, and you will feel less self conscious. It is you that has to do this, not her.
the fact you say you need someone seems rather concerning - i wld suggest you look at why you need her so much and i woul also deal with this first.
Well think it through, she'll be mad when she finds out you lied to her, but she'll be madder if she finds out from someone else. So tell her the truth, it's only a two year difference and that shouldn't matter. Good luck, you shouldn't need it though : )
be straightforward and truthful this time,if she is genuine she will understand
Unfortunately you may have already ';f';d things up by lying in the first place. A guy did that to me and when he told me the truth I dusted him on the spot.
Sorry.
you've got to tell her now. Imagine things do go further and she wants to take you somewhere that's over 21s only?!
Its not your choice to keep this lie. you were deceptive from the start. If you lose her its your own fault. Lies get you nowhere! If you really do get on she'll probably appreciate you being man enough to hold your hands up.
Expect a little anger from her though and give her space if she needs it. If its meant to be, she'll be back! Its you, not your age that got you the lady xxxx Good luck!
Well, from a 23 year old woman's stand point, the best thing for you to do RIGHT NOW, is be honest with her about your age.. If she's comfortable with you being two years younger than she is, it's probable that she'll be just as comfortable with the extra two. If you don not tell her now and proceed with seeing her, when the truth comes out (And it will), she will feel a little betrayed, as by not telling her the whole time, you were lying to her the whole time. It's not favorable to build a relationship on a lie, even if it is a small one... If she likes you the way you like her, the extra two years won't matter.. Even if it doesn't work out.. You need to stop being so self concious.. If you don't believe in yourself, it's gonna be just as hard for someone else to.. GOOD LUCK
you already started off on the wrong foot by lying. i would rectify that by telling the truth asap and don't lie anymore. trust is very important if you want this to work out.
keep to your stuck age and only tell her once you are married
I have a 12yr old daughter with a very bad attitude i need some kind of punishment advice?
I hate to tell you this, but she's 12 and it's just the beginning. Teens have a LOT of hormonal problems that even THEY can't pinpoint. They also have MAJOR self-esteem issues and friends %26amp; guys are the most important things in her life. She will be very sensitive and not care for her parent(s) as much as she used to, but it is just a phase.
I think that it's important that you talk with her and let her know you realize she's going through a lot and that you are there whenever she needs you.I have a 12yr old daughter with a very bad attitude i need some kind of punishment advice?
If she has a bad attitude at the age of 12, unless it's brand new, you've probably lost the battle. She should have learned behavior long before she got to be 12.I have a 12yr old daughter with a very bad attitude i need some kind of punishment advice?
oh, man. i am only 14 myself, but i know teenagers and preteens. don't make her life a living hell, but establish your authority without appearing to be a tyrant. slowly take away the things that she uses most often, such as tv, cell phone, computer, and other things.you can ground her, too.
another way, is to guilt her. do nice things for her, and she will feel bad about being mean and rude to you. it might cause her to stop, you never know.
yet another thing is, work her. work work work. chores until homework is done.
Well, I would start with taking away a cell phone, TV, computer access, not letting her go out on the weekends, or what always works for my parents, CHORES!
its hard to say without knowing what kind of mother you are. do you drink, do drugs- do you have different men over all the time? I would first try to be kind and talk to her with respect. If you and she is unable to be respectful to each other i'd would get counceling for both of you. You have to build some trust between you and her. If reason won't work set her in a corner like a two year old until she acts her age.
im a 12 year old boy and my mom takes my music away. if she has a cell phone, take that away. Ground her, if she want's to go to a friends house or somthin, say no. tell her she better be good or it will stay that way.
okey, here are some punishments my mom gives to me.
A bad spanking, I mean bad bare butt, another one is no t.v. for about 1-2-3 weeks. If she has been really bad: ground her for about 3weeks. no nothingmakeup school
I think that it's important that you talk with her and let her know you realize she's going through a lot and that you are there whenever she needs you.I have a 12yr old daughter with a very bad attitude i need some kind of punishment advice?
If she has a bad attitude at the age of 12, unless it's brand new, you've probably lost the battle. She should have learned behavior long before she got to be 12.I have a 12yr old daughter with a very bad attitude i need some kind of punishment advice?
oh, man. i am only 14 myself, but i know teenagers and preteens. don't make her life a living hell, but establish your authority without appearing to be a tyrant. slowly take away the things that she uses most often, such as tv, cell phone, computer, and other things.you can ground her, too.
another way, is to guilt her. do nice things for her, and she will feel bad about being mean and rude to you. it might cause her to stop, you never know.
yet another thing is, work her. work work work. chores until homework is done.
Well, I would start with taking away a cell phone, TV, computer access, not letting her go out on the weekends, or what always works for my parents, CHORES!
its hard to say without knowing what kind of mother you are. do you drink, do drugs- do you have different men over all the time? I would first try to be kind and talk to her with respect. If you and she is unable to be respectful to each other i'd would get counceling for both of you. You have to build some trust between you and her. If reason won't work set her in a corner like a two year old until she acts her age.
im a 12 year old boy and my mom takes my music away. if she has a cell phone, take that away. Ground her, if she want's to go to a friends house or somthin, say no. tell her she better be good or it will stay that way.
okey, here are some punishments my mom gives to me.
A bad spanking, I mean bad bare butt, another one is no t.v. for about 1-2-3 weeks. If she has been really bad: ground her for about 3weeks. no nothing
Am I bad for doing this? Need advice?
So I'm taking a financial accounting summer class for summer school %26amp; I have found the answers for the HW, I am not a cheater but the homework is only 20% of our grade, anyway...I am copying it down because I honestly have to study (I bombed the 1st exam) for the exam. I am a junior in university %26amp; this will count as a transfer credit, is it wrong? I understand the material but I am also taking an economics class which is just as demanding...thanks for the advice...there are worse things right?Am I bad for doing this? Need advice?
oh ffs. :P If it hurts your pride that much, then don't do it....I thought you were referring to something sexual...with me....^_~
oh ffs. :P If it hurts your pride that much, then don't do it....I thought you were referring to something sexual...with me....^_~
Ok.. need some advice...is this email bad?? how should i react to it?..?
wow. that is amazing. that made me like respect u a hell of alot more than what i already did %26lt;which was a lot%26gt;. and u kno what? ur right. thank u so much for telling me that. it really helped me so much. im sorry that that happened to u. but thank u for ur advice. ya kno? im glad u listened to kristen and sent me and e-mail. ur a really good guy, im glad im getting the chance to get to kno u. hey u wanna hear sumthing really embarassing abt me? ok dont laugh but when i was in the 5th n 6th grade, i had this huge crush on u! lol i kno i kno retarted rite? but i thought u wer the hottest thing alive, lol ok jus thought id tell u that lol. k wright bak!
I'm 15Ok.. need some advice...is this email bad?? how should i react to it?..?
I would say that it's a good thing. (Hey im 15 too! I'm in class right now tho hehehe)Ok.. need some advice...is this email bad?? how should i react to it?..?
if you like her, ask her out...pretty sure thats what she wants!
she likes you.....
Her feelings about you when she was in 5Th 6Th grade seem to be different from what they are now (she is now 15). She holds you in respect and values your advice. It is not that respect does not end up in love; there would be cases where a persons drawing reverence and acclaim from a female finally becomes her life partner. Rest can also send sparks of love. And the beginnings were already there when in 5th 6th std. You can explore and uncover what is prompting from the inner heart. One more email but this time a different message and you may score, who knows!
she likes you
she still loves ya..lol
I'm 15Ok.. need some advice...is this email bad?? how should i react to it?..?
I would say that it's a good thing. (Hey im 15 too! I'm in class right now tho hehehe)Ok.. need some advice...is this email bad?? how should i react to it?..?
if you like her, ask her out...pretty sure thats what she wants!
she likes you.....
Her feelings about you when she was in 5Th 6Th grade seem to be different from what they are now (she is now 15). She holds you in respect and values your advice. It is not that respect does not end up in love; there would be cases where a persons drawing reverence and acclaim from a female finally becomes her life partner. Rest can also send sparks of love. And the beginnings were already there when in 5th 6th std. You can explore and uncover what is prompting from the inner heart. One more email but this time a different message and you may score, who knows!
she likes you
she still loves ya..lol
I need advice from the girls really bad....I think im ready for sex am I too young?
Im 15..is that too young??
Is it gonna hurt really bad??I need advice from the girls really bad....I think im ready for sex am I too young?
Listen, I am 15 years old and I am not a virgin. I was going out for this guy for a really long time but he would always pressure me into sex. Finally I just gave into it. I didn't really like it. It seemed like every time we would hang out, we would mess around. Then he dumped me. I felt betrayed. Now I am going out with another guy for some months now and we just started having sex. But I told him that he needs to respect me. and listen to me. Nobody can answer this question. Only you. We can only guild you to make the best decision. Just do one thing. Get Birth Control, wear a condom. Also, talk to your parents.I need advice from the girls really bad....I think im ready for sex am I too young?
First, yes, it will hurt extremely bad. Not only will you be extremely scared, but is just plain hurts!
Second, you are waaaaaay too young. Don't be another statistic-wait. Believe me, there is no rush to become sexually active. Becoming sexually active at 15 will only cause problems. You'll get STDs, you'll have to start getting pap smears (which hurt!) and there is a high chance that you will become pregnant. Why risk your whole life for that?
Honestly, I think you should wait.....the guy you are with now will not be the guy you are with in a few years, and you'll feel like you just wasted your virginity on him-trust me....save your virginity for the most important person....the person you marry. It will feel much more special that way.
If you do choose to have sex though, you need to use condoms (to help prevent STDs) and be on birth control pills. Since you are 15, you are too young to get them on your own-your parents will need to go with you to buy them. If you wait til your 16, you can get them by yourself.
All in all-wait
15 is OK.
Not too much. Less as time goes by.
Make sure you use BC.
Get on the pill, don't trust a condom.
save it until marrige what an amazing gift to give to you husband..yoour virginity
You think your ready? Do you think you could raise a child if you were to get pregnant? Do you think you could even handle telling your parents your pregnant? Do you really think your ready?
Only you will know when you're ready. I was ready at 16, so it's not too far off from when I was ready. As for how much it will hurt, it depends on how much you've had ';done'; to your vagina. If you have been fingered and used tampons, it won't hurt as bad as if you never used tampons or been fingered. Just expect a lot of blood. My first time, he didn't even go the whole way inside, and I was bleeding like crazy (exactly like I did on my heaviest period day). Just remember that it has to hurt before it feels good (that was the saying my best friend used to always tell me when I told her I was scared). If you aren't sure if you're ready or not, it's better to wait than regret it. Honestly, though, no one can tell you what is too young or too old to begin having sex. It's all internal.
OMG at 15 what makes you think you are ready for it? Are you ready for the emotional and physical consequences? What if you get pregnant? Are you ready to birth a child or tell your parents? I think you should wait. My gosh, 15 what next, 6 year olds thinking about driving? LOL. No it doesn't hurt but it might you because you're so young and still growing.
Being ready for sex isn't just the physical; its emotional and spiritual. Think about this; is 15 to young to get married? If you think that 15 is to young for marriage, than 15 is also to young for you to have sex. If you are concerned about it hurting, then you are focused on things which the intimate act of sex isn't really about anyway. You do want sex to be something you don't just give away or become something you will regret? I know I sound cliche, but wait until you are married.
first off please wait until you are married.
And no it doesn't hurt badly.
yes you are to young
Dont do it!!! If you have sex you'll get chlamidia and DIE!! lol...too much watching Mean Girls! But no you shouldn't...I was 16 and it's sooooo over rated! It will hurt your 1st time and once it's gone that's it, you can never get it back! I to this day wish I would've waited and I'm 19 now and where is the guy I lost my virginity to??? I have no idea! It's a moment to remember but when you think about it was just ';A moment';. Wait till your ready to be married and that way you know for sure he's the one and he won't just leave you or you guys wont last long because it will be more than just casual sex. GOOD LUCK! AND DON'T DO IT!! lol
Sex is a big responsibility, you need to do research before you are ready. There is STD's, pregnancy and so much more you need to look into. Don't get yourself into something you can't handle. Think about it read up on it and take your time.
Not necessarily. I wasn't much older and I didnt grow up to be a jobless crackwhore. I have a masters, thanks. Ok, self- gloating aside, think about why you think you're ready. Are you mature enough to get your own birth control? Are you and the guy in a committed relationship, and if something (i.e. a baby)comes of it, do you have a plan? Can you count on him to help you? And please dont just assume you can have an abortion.
As fasr as pain, it may or may not. It really depends on your body. BUT keep in my mind that a lot of physical things are psychosomatic, meaning your body's response to stimuli is directly related to brain activity. If its the right time, your body will be much more willing to accept that new activity, for lack of a better word.
Hope this helps, and trust your gut.
I'm sorry but if you have to ask if you are too young then the answer is yes. This is the same advice I have given to my friends when I was in middle school and high school and to my children.
So yes, you are too young. You are too young because if you don't know you are ready without asking the question then you are simply not yet ready.
uhm if ur going to have sex use protection every time yes 15 is young but we have 11-12 year olds pregnant the first time it kinda hurts not really bad though
Way to young although we have all made our mistakes but honestly if your smart wait until you get married or you will regret it and if you sleep around you will look like a skank and have a bad rep.
15 is really young. I lost my virginity at 18, and if I had it to do over I would've waited even longer. I would say wait until you're married. I didn't, but now that i've found the person I want to be with, I can't even begin to describe how bad I wish I had saved it for him. If nothing else, tell the guy you're waiting for marriage, if he leaves you because of it, you'll know he wasn't worth it in the first place. If he stays with you...still make him wait a year or two or five =)
I'd say 15 is too young. There's just a maturity level that is lacking and a realism of consequences that people your age just don't get. A lof of young women I see who are pregnant (and even those who aren't) often wish they waited until they were older to have sex for the first time (at least 16 or 17) and often regret it.
Is it gonna hurt really bad??I need advice from the girls really bad....I think im ready for sex am I too young?
Listen, I am 15 years old and I am not a virgin. I was going out for this guy for a really long time but he would always pressure me into sex. Finally I just gave into it. I didn't really like it. It seemed like every time we would hang out, we would mess around. Then he dumped me. I felt betrayed. Now I am going out with another guy for some months now and we just started having sex. But I told him that he needs to respect me. and listen to me. Nobody can answer this question. Only you. We can only guild you to make the best decision. Just do one thing. Get Birth Control, wear a condom. Also, talk to your parents.I need advice from the girls really bad....I think im ready for sex am I too young?
First, yes, it will hurt extremely bad. Not only will you be extremely scared, but is just plain hurts!
Second, you are waaaaaay too young. Don't be another statistic-wait. Believe me, there is no rush to become sexually active. Becoming sexually active at 15 will only cause problems. You'll get STDs, you'll have to start getting pap smears (which hurt!) and there is a high chance that you will become pregnant. Why risk your whole life for that?
Honestly, I think you should wait.....the guy you are with now will not be the guy you are with in a few years, and you'll feel like you just wasted your virginity on him-trust me....save your virginity for the most important person....the person you marry. It will feel much more special that way.
If you do choose to have sex though, you need to use condoms (to help prevent STDs) and be on birth control pills. Since you are 15, you are too young to get them on your own-your parents will need to go with you to buy them. If you wait til your 16, you can get them by yourself.
All in all-wait
15 is OK.
Not too much. Less as time goes by.
Make sure you use BC.
Get on the pill, don't trust a condom.
save it until marrige what an amazing gift to give to you husband..yoour virginity
You think your ready? Do you think you could raise a child if you were to get pregnant? Do you think you could even handle telling your parents your pregnant? Do you really think your ready?
Only you will know when you're ready. I was ready at 16, so it's not too far off from when I was ready. As for how much it will hurt, it depends on how much you've had ';done'; to your vagina. If you have been fingered and used tampons, it won't hurt as bad as if you never used tampons or been fingered. Just expect a lot of blood. My first time, he didn't even go the whole way inside, and I was bleeding like crazy (exactly like I did on my heaviest period day). Just remember that it has to hurt before it feels good (that was the saying my best friend used to always tell me when I told her I was scared). If you aren't sure if you're ready or not, it's better to wait than regret it. Honestly, though, no one can tell you what is too young or too old to begin having sex. It's all internal.
OMG at 15 what makes you think you are ready for it? Are you ready for the emotional and physical consequences? What if you get pregnant? Are you ready to birth a child or tell your parents? I think you should wait. My gosh, 15 what next, 6 year olds thinking about driving? LOL. No it doesn't hurt but it might you because you're so young and still growing.
Being ready for sex isn't just the physical; its emotional and spiritual. Think about this; is 15 to young to get married? If you think that 15 is to young for marriage, than 15 is also to young for you to have sex. If you are concerned about it hurting, then you are focused on things which the intimate act of sex isn't really about anyway. You do want sex to be something you don't just give away or become something you will regret? I know I sound cliche, but wait until you are married.
first off please wait until you are married.
And no it doesn't hurt badly.
yes you are to young
Dont do it!!! If you have sex you'll get chlamidia and DIE!! lol...too much watching Mean Girls! But no you shouldn't...I was 16 and it's sooooo over rated! It will hurt your 1st time and once it's gone that's it, you can never get it back! I to this day wish I would've waited and I'm 19 now and where is the guy I lost my virginity to??? I have no idea! It's a moment to remember but when you think about it was just ';A moment';. Wait till your ready to be married and that way you know for sure he's the one and he won't just leave you or you guys wont last long because it will be more than just casual sex. GOOD LUCK! AND DON'T DO IT!! lol
Sex is a big responsibility, you need to do research before you are ready. There is STD's, pregnancy and so much more you need to look into. Don't get yourself into something you can't handle. Think about it read up on it and take your time.
Not necessarily. I wasn't much older and I didnt grow up to be a jobless crackwhore. I have a masters, thanks. Ok, self- gloating aside, think about why you think you're ready. Are you mature enough to get your own birth control? Are you and the guy in a committed relationship, and if something (i.e. a baby)comes of it, do you have a plan? Can you count on him to help you? And please dont just assume you can have an abortion.
As fasr as pain, it may or may not. It really depends on your body. BUT keep in my mind that a lot of physical things are psychosomatic, meaning your body's response to stimuli is directly related to brain activity. If its the right time, your body will be much more willing to accept that new activity, for lack of a better word.
Hope this helps, and trust your gut.
I'm sorry but if you have to ask if you are too young then the answer is yes. This is the same advice I have given to my friends when I was in middle school and high school and to my children.
So yes, you are too young. You are too young because if you don't know you are ready without asking the question then you are simply not yet ready.
uhm if ur going to have sex use protection every time yes 15 is young but we have 11-12 year olds pregnant the first time it kinda hurts not really bad though
Way to young although we have all made our mistakes but honestly if your smart wait until you get married or you will regret it and if you sleep around you will look like a skank and have a bad rep.
15 is really young. I lost my virginity at 18, and if I had it to do over I would've waited even longer. I would say wait until you're married. I didn't, but now that i've found the person I want to be with, I can't even begin to describe how bad I wish I had saved it for him. If nothing else, tell the guy you're waiting for marriage, if he leaves you because of it, you'll know he wasn't worth it in the first place. If he stays with you...still make him wait a year or two or five =)
I'd say 15 is too young. There's just a maturity level that is lacking and a realism of consequences that people your age just don't get. A lof of young women I see who are pregnant (and even those who aren't) often wish they waited until they were older to have sex for the first time (at least 16 or 17) and often regret it.
My 15 year old daughter wants to get involved with a boy who is a bad influence. I need advice, please.?
My 15 year old daughter was involved with a 17 year old boy, soon to be 18. What started out as a typical teenage ';romance'; turned much more serious. The problem is that he is not a good influence, poor grades, can't hold a simple job, has been kicked out of his home twice by his mother, for reasons I don't know. He drinks, drives too fast in his piece of crap redneck truck, and ';modulates'; on his c.b. radio. He has cheated on her twice that she knows, but I'm sure there have been more times. The last time he ';dumped'; her was the greatest news of my life. We thought she was finally rid of him. We had ';gently'; coaxed her to move on, she is worth SO much better, etc.She met a great boy, her age, great family, VERY pleasant to be around. I just found out today that she broke up with him, and has been ';talking'; to the creep again. Her dad and I are SO dissapointed, We have forbidden her to become involved with him. Is this the right thing to do, I mean she's still a kid. I'm nauseous!HelpMy 15 year old daughter wants to get involved with a boy who is a bad influence. I need advice, please.?
Maybe instead of forbidding her or trashing him, maybe you could ask her gently that you would like to understand what her attraction to him is. Tell her you are concerned about her choices and that they indicate she has low self-esteem and self-worth and you wonder why she would accept such bad, disrespectful treatment and is willing to accept less than she is worth. Does she not think he is worth more or can get better. Instead of making it about him. Make it about her. Tell her you aren't worried about him. He will get what is coming to him. Tell him you are worried about her.
Don't forget that she is your child and living in her house and you set the rules. But you know how kids are. The more you protest. The more they love it. You are right to try to find another option.My 15 year old daughter wants to get involved with a boy who is a bad influence. I need advice, please.?
You let her choose. Between the family and him! But before you get too worked up, find out what is happening first. I think you are lacking in communcation with her.
Sometimes you have to let kids learn the hard way. That kids for you nowadays.
she is not a kid, but i agree with u. teeneagers do make bad decisions sometimes. keep trying i hope she dumps that loser. good luck!
Oh mY DEAR AUNTY,
Don''t worry your daughter not a kid she knows very well than you,
how genaration,
leave your daughter free,
tell her to do not broke up with him until marrige
WOW! When I was 13 I was dating someone that was 16, he was always fighting in school (which he dropped out of), did drugs, he was verbally abusive (which turned into minor physical abuse), etc. I have been in your daughters shoes when it comes to parents not approving. I stayed with him for over 2 years thinking I was ';in love';. As much as my parents hated him, they stayed out of my relationship. They had to learn to trust my decisions, which was hard for my mother. I am grateful that they let me make my own mistakes back then with the boys because now I am married and I have a fantastic husband and my family loves him. I work with teenagers and let me tell you, there is no way for you to tell them what is right or wrong because they will not listen. You have to let them make their own mistakes and be there for them when their heart breaks in two. She will open her eyes and realize she is too good for him, just give her time.
Maybe instead of forbidding her or trashing him, maybe you could ask her gently that you would like to understand what her attraction to him is. Tell her you are concerned about her choices and that they indicate she has low self-esteem and self-worth and you wonder why she would accept such bad, disrespectful treatment and is willing to accept less than she is worth. Does she not think he is worth more or can get better. Instead of making it about him. Make it about her. Tell her you aren't worried about him. He will get what is coming to him. Tell him you are worried about her.
Don't forget that she is your child and living in her house and you set the rules. But you know how kids are. The more you protest. The more they love it. You are right to try to find another option.My 15 year old daughter wants to get involved with a boy who is a bad influence. I need advice, please.?
You let her choose. Between the family and him! But before you get too worked up, find out what is happening first. I think you are lacking in communcation with her.
Sometimes you have to let kids learn the hard way. That kids for you nowadays.
she is not a kid, but i agree with u. teeneagers do make bad decisions sometimes. keep trying i hope she dumps that loser. good luck!
Oh mY DEAR AUNTY,
Don''t worry your daughter not a kid she knows very well than you,
how genaration,
leave your daughter free,
tell her to do not broke up with him until marrige
WOW! When I was 13 I was dating someone that was 16, he was always fighting in school (which he dropped out of), did drugs, he was verbally abusive (which turned into minor physical abuse), etc. I have been in your daughters shoes when it comes to parents not approving. I stayed with him for over 2 years thinking I was ';in love';. As much as my parents hated him, they stayed out of my relationship. They had to learn to trust my decisions, which was hard for my mother. I am grateful that they let me make my own mistakes back then with the boys because now I am married and I have a fantastic husband and my family loves him. I work with teenagers and let me tell you, there is no way for you to tell them what is right or wrong because they will not listen. You have to let them make their own mistakes and be there for them when their heart breaks in two. She will open her eyes and realize she is too good for him, just give her time.
I'm getting my belly pierced how bad will it hurt?! I need advice!?
I've had my nose pierced that didn't hurt. So how much more will this hurt? Can someone describe the pain to me? I'm excited but nervous! Thanks for your advice if you leave some...I'm getting my belly pierced how bad will it hurt?! I need advice!?
I laughed when I got mine done. My mom was being really funny and I was laughing as he put the needle through.
Now, the healing process was a different story.
That hurt and took FOREVER! But well worth the pain.
Now I am just worried about what it will look like if I get pregnant...
Take care and good luck! :-)I'm getting my belly pierced how bad will it hurt?! I need advice!?
its easy.. at least for me.. the guy who pierced mine told me to count down from 10, when i got to 5 he pushed the needle through than the ring. it took no more than 10-15 seconds. i would say on a scale 1-10.. maybe a 3? its so quick and the needle is very sharp, so its not painful.afterward it gets pretty sore, especially when you need to clean it. but it is worth it!!!
It does hurt quite alot~mine got infected and doc wanted to take it out for good~i said NO WAY i wasn't taking it out for anything or anyone~then someone suggested tea tree oil and wellah all good ever since~hope that helps.
I laughed when I got mine done. My mom was being really funny and I was laughing as he put the needle through.
Now, the healing process was a different story.
That hurt and took FOREVER! But well worth the pain.
Now I am just worried about what it will look like if I get pregnant...
Take care and good luck! :-)I'm getting my belly pierced how bad will it hurt?! I need advice!?
its easy.. at least for me.. the guy who pierced mine told me to count down from 10, when i got to 5 he pushed the needle through than the ring. it took no more than 10-15 seconds. i would say on a scale 1-10.. maybe a 3? its so quick and the needle is very sharp, so its not painful.afterward it gets pretty sore, especially when you need to clean it. but it is worth it!!!
It does hurt quite alot~mine got infected and doc wanted to take it out for good~i said NO WAY i wasn't taking it out for anything or anyone~then someone suggested tea tree oil and wellah all good ever since~hope that helps.
This is good but bad at the same time what do I do now any advice?
So I basically told my guy that I would be ok with what time he could give me in his busy life. And that we could still be friends with benifits since he doesnt wasnt a realtionship at this time....I do want a relationship but then I kind of dont (if that makes sense). Well is it a good thing to still have fun with him until something else comes along? And or if something does eventually become more solid between us? Is it good/ok that we are just doing what we are doing? Or am I just wasting my time with him ? I like the time we do have and the fun we have too.. I just dont want to be setting myself up. Your input is appreciated, mature response only please.This is good but bad at the same time what do I do now any advice?
first thing girl what do you really want? by spending more time with this man you are wasting opportunities you could have with other men. Honestly this man doesn't seem serious about you, if he really was he would jump at the thought of being in a relationship with you. why sell yourself short? don't you want a man who would die to be able to have sex with you and know no one else could have his amazing girlfriend? believe me a time will come when a woman he is really into will come round and he will abandon everything for her for he is that sooo into her, but this guy isn't cutting it. you deserve better and this guy is just missing out. cut him off for a while let him miss you. if he really wants you he will contact you and fight for your attention.This is good but bad at the same time what do I do now any advice?
Ur welcome
If you're comfortable with the arrangement, and he is comfortable with the arrangement, then it's fine. But I wouldn't stay in the arrangement on the premise that it will progress into more. Such arrangements rarely do, because if that was what both parties wanted, they would _make_ the time to be together.
Also, I would suggest that you look after yourself (use protection, birth control, etc), because as a 'friend with benefits', he might be seeking attentions elsewhere as well as with you. You have to keep yourself safe, always.
Good luck!
I think its ok to continue on with him as long as it doesn't turn into more for one of you and not the other. if it turns out to be something better for you both, then AWESOME! As long as your not saving yourself FOR him all the time and you are still leaving yourself open to finding something with someone else than i would say your situation is perfectly fine.
Girl... Just do what you wanna do. You want friends with benifits then be that. Although i don't really agree with that because your just fooling yourself. If thats what he wants then he just probably wants to sleep with you without any strings attached. Good luck!
do what makes you happy and follow your'e heart no one can ever gaurantee a happy ending. good luck
Good luck with that. I guess you have to imagine how you would feel if this continued on for awhile and then he came up to you and told you that he had found somebody else and didn't want to be FWB anymore.....just friends. This hardly ever works and somebody will probably get hurt. Good Luck with whatever decision you make and please be careful.
Hey Cherry26 it sounds to me like you two are already in an emotional relationship whether you want to call it that or not. Friends with benefits relationships usually end up with the same feelings as partners that are devoted to one and other. Jealousy, trust issues etc. often come into play as in any relationship. Myself I see no comfort in these sexual relationships and sometimes people (of either sex) end up feeling used and like a piece of meat. Be careful is my best advice and talk things over honestly and openly with this guy before making any rash decisions. Good luck.
The two of you should spend as much time together as you did trying to compose this question. But, make sure you spend ';quality'; time together. Look at each other schedules a week or two in advance and make time for the two of you.
gurl your wasting your time and he's not worth that, thing will never get soild no matter what you do and you can do better than that move on, he's just use you that all soory to say this but he think of you as a who*** sorry don;t mean to be mean but wake up before it to late
just live....enjoy the moment! have a good time and do not stress over it...if u meet someone you like bbetter you can simply stop with ';benefits boy';...if more develops between you can advance in that relationship...sounds like a great deal to me..
Just have fun! You're fine!
You are just like me. I had a sex buddy and i always want to have a relationship with him but he warned me that he is not interested in me, just have fun with me. It is hard to have like this, i want have fun but at the same time, i want to have relationship. It just that I can't do anything about it. I was hoping that i would meet someone that can dating me then i will dump my sex buddy but nothing had happened. So finally i made over with sex buddy because it is not worth it. So now, do you think you can deal with it, just let have fun with him but no serious relationship with him. I know its fun to do but there are nothing can do. If you want to do something about it, have a relationship with him, tell him the truth, he might stop do it with you or he could change his mind and will go for it to have relationship with you. I hope this is helpin you. Good luck.
If you want it to be something more and he clearly doesn't then you are heading for heart ache. If you think he might and you are happy waiting then that's cool but bear in mind that it may all be for nothing except the fun times you have had and nothing more.
well if its going well then keep being a friend with him and if everything goes well then maybe you would be able to go out with him. good luckmakeup school
first thing girl what do you really want? by spending more time with this man you are wasting opportunities you could have with other men. Honestly this man doesn't seem serious about you, if he really was he would jump at the thought of being in a relationship with you. why sell yourself short? don't you want a man who would die to be able to have sex with you and know no one else could have his amazing girlfriend? believe me a time will come when a woman he is really into will come round and he will abandon everything for her for he is that sooo into her, but this guy isn't cutting it. you deserve better and this guy is just missing out. cut him off for a while let him miss you. if he really wants you he will contact you and fight for your attention.This is good but bad at the same time what do I do now any advice?
Ur welcome
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If you're comfortable with the arrangement, and he is comfortable with the arrangement, then it's fine. But I wouldn't stay in the arrangement on the premise that it will progress into more. Such arrangements rarely do, because if that was what both parties wanted, they would _make_ the time to be together.
Also, I would suggest that you look after yourself (use protection, birth control, etc), because as a 'friend with benefits', he might be seeking attentions elsewhere as well as with you. You have to keep yourself safe, always.
Good luck!
I think its ok to continue on with him as long as it doesn't turn into more for one of you and not the other. if it turns out to be something better for you both, then AWESOME! As long as your not saving yourself FOR him all the time and you are still leaving yourself open to finding something with someone else than i would say your situation is perfectly fine.
Girl... Just do what you wanna do. You want friends with benifits then be that. Although i don't really agree with that because your just fooling yourself. If thats what he wants then he just probably wants to sleep with you without any strings attached. Good luck!
do what makes you happy and follow your'e heart no one can ever gaurantee a happy ending. good luck
Good luck with that. I guess you have to imagine how you would feel if this continued on for awhile and then he came up to you and told you that he had found somebody else and didn't want to be FWB anymore.....just friends. This hardly ever works and somebody will probably get hurt. Good Luck with whatever decision you make and please be careful.
Hey Cherry26 it sounds to me like you two are already in an emotional relationship whether you want to call it that or not. Friends with benefits relationships usually end up with the same feelings as partners that are devoted to one and other. Jealousy, trust issues etc. often come into play as in any relationship. Myself I see no comfort in these sexual relationships and sometimes people (of either sex) end up feeling used and like a piece of meat. Be careful is my best advice and talk things over honestly and openly with this guy before making any rash decisions. Good luck.
The two of you should spend as much time together as you did trying to compose this question. But, make sure you spend ';quality'; time together. Look at each other schedules a week or two in advance and make time for the two of you.
gurl your wasting your time and he's not worth that, thing will never get soild no matter what you do and you can do better than that move on, he's just use you that all soory to say this but he think of you as a who*** sorry don;t mean to be mean but wake up before it to late
just live....enjoy the moment! have a good time and do not stress over it...if u meet someone you like bbetter you can simply stop with ';benefits boy';...if more develops between you can advance in that relationship...sounds like a great deal to me..
Just have fun! You're fine!
You are just like me. I had a sex buddy and i always want to have a relationship with him but he warned me that he is not interested in me, just have fun with me. It is hard to have like this, i want have fun but at the same time, i want to have relationship. It just that I can't do anything about it. I was hoping that i would meet someone that can dating me then i will dump my sex buddy but nothing had happened. So finally i made over with sex buddy because it is not worth it. So now, do you think you can deal with it, just let have fun with him but no serious relationship with him. I know its fun to do but there are nothing can do. If you want to do something about it, have a relationship with him, tell him the truth, he might stop do it with you or he could change his mind and will go for it to have relationship with you. I hope this is helpin you. Good luck.
If you want it to be something more and he clearly doesn't then you are heading for heart ache. If you think he might and you are happy waiting then that's cool but bear in mind that it may all be for nothing except the fun times you have had and nothing more.
well if its going well then keep being a friend with him and if everything goes well then maybe you would be able to go out with him. good luck
I have pretty bad chest-ne, I need a bit of advice. (:?
I have acne on my chest, and its not very attractive.
Do any of you know of maybe a home remedy that would help it go away? Or some kind of cream I can put on it to make it clear up?
Thanks in advance! (:I have pretty bad chest-ne, I need a bit of advice. (:?
Any acne cream for your face will also be effective on your chest. :)I have pretty bad chest-ne, I need a bit of advice. (:?
Doctors have so many cures fo that. My friend took some pills for it and used some creams; it went away. It's very curable. Go out there and look around.
The same reason some people also get Acne on the face: clogged and irritated pores. Often, body acne is the result of Cosmetic Comedogens, Drugs you may be taking, or a condition called pityrosporum folliculitis or ';Sweat Acne
Many products, even those not normally associated with the skin, can cause Acne on the body. Some shampoos, conditioners, and other hair care products contain heavy greases or other pore-clogging ingredients. Others do not wash off completely, leaving a residue after rinsing. When you sweat, these pore-clogging ingredients and residue can trickle down the skin. When this happens, they clog pores and cause acne. Acne caused by comedogenic hair care products often exhibits where hair regularly touches skin: the forehead (especially if you have bangs), the cheeks (near the hairline), the nape of the neck, and the upper back.Soaps, body washes, and body scrubs may also contain comedogens. Some also do not rinse off completely, and left-over residue can clog pores. Some massage oils and exfoliating scrubs used in some spas also contain pore-cloggin ingredients. This can be especially problematic because massage oils are rubbed into the skin well through constant friction and heat, and stay on the skin long after the massage (particularly if you don't shower right after). This can cause a break-out if the oil is comedogenic. Exfoliating scrubs may also contain abrasive scrubbing agents. If they are too abrasive, they can irritate pores and cause infections鈥hich can clog pores and cause acne. Lotions, creams, self-tanners, sunscreens, glittering body gels and similar products can also cause body Acne if they contain comedogenic ingredients. Similar to massage oils, these products stay on the skin for a long time, allowing any comedogenic ingredients ample time to settle into pores. Unlike massage oils, these products are usually used every day, which increases your skin鈥檚 exposure to pore-clogging ingredients. Acne caused by soaps, body washes, scrubs, massage oils and lotions often exhibits where the skin has been most exposed to the product, and where the skin perspires more: the chest, back, arms, and bottom. Deodorants or Antiperspirants with Aluminum Zirconium can cause Granulomas, or skin bumps. Shaving, plucking or waxing the area can also cause bumps and ingrown-hair. Alternatives: Essence Skin-Saving Superwash Hair and Body Care and Elation Natural Skin Spa Hair and Body Care. Some prescription drugs can cause Acne. Ask your physician about potential Acne side-effects when being prescribed a new drug. The condition of ';Sweat Acne'; or Pityrosporum Folliculitis (PF) is caused by a the pityrosporum fungus. It is a naturally-occurring fungus that feeds on human sweat but that tends to proliferate in some people, especially if you tend to perspire heavily. PF therefore appears in areas that perspire most: the back, chest, upper thighs, buttocks, and upper arms.
Switching to non-comedogenic Essence and Elation products will help. So will active therapy with Id Beta-Hydroxy Clarifying System for Men and Women , particularly Id Sweat Acne and Overall Antibacterial Monolaurin Gel This special gel is clinically proven to be as effective as popular anti-fungal treatments for PF (in studies, it showed 100% efficacy in clearing PF), but because it is so gentle to skin, it can be used for longer periods of time, for sustained therapy (which is important; PF is notorious for recurring when therapy is stopped). As well, Id Gel keeps skin cool and matte to help prevent sweating and, cosequentially, the proliferation of the pityrosporum fungus. As with all skin conditions, we recommend that you see a Dermatologist for proper diagnoses and treatment options (you may need internally-taken, prescription medication. Consult a dermatologist if you think you may have ';Sweat Acne
Do any of you know of maybe a home remedy that would help it go away? Or some kind of cream I can put on it to make it clear up?
Thanks in advance! (:I have pretty bad chest-ne, I need a bit of advice. (:?
Any acne cream for your face will also be effective on your chest. :)I have pretty bad chest-ne, I need a bit of advice. (:?
Doctors have so many cures fo that. My friend took some pills for it and used some creams; it went away. It's very curable. Go out there and look around.
The same reason some people also get Acne on the face: clogged and irritated pores. Often, body acne is the result of Cosmetic Comedogens, Drugs you may be taking, or a condition called pityrosporum folliculitis or ';Sweat Acne
Many products, even those not normally associated with the skin, can cause Acne on the body. Some shampoos, conditioners, and other hair care products contain heavy greases or other pore-clogging ingredients. Others do not wash off completely, leaving a residue after rinsing. When you sweat, these pore-clogging ingredients and residue can trickle down the skin. When this happens, they clog pores and cause acne. Acne caused by comedogenic hair care products often exhibits where hair regularly touches skin: the forehead (especially if you have bangs), the cheeks (near the hairline), the nape of the neck, and the upper back.Soaps, body washes, and body scrubs may also contain comedogens. Some also do not rinse off completely, and left-over residue can clog pores. Some massage oils and exfoliating scrubs used in some spas also contain pore-cloggin ingredients. This can be especially problematic because massage oils are rubbed into the skin well through constant friction and heat, and stay on the skin long after the massage (particularly if you don't shower right after). This can cause a break-out if the oil is comedogenic. Exfoliating scrubs may also contain abrasive scrubbing agents. If they are too abrasive, they can irritate pores and cause infections鈥hich can clog pores and cause acne. Lotions, creams, self-tanners, sunscreens, glittering body gels and similar products can also cause body Acne if they contain comedogenic ingredients. Similar to massage oils, these products stay on the skin for a long time, allowing any comedogenic ingredients ample time to settle into pores. Unlike massage oils, these products are usually used every day, which increases your skin鈥檚 exposure to pore-clogging ingredients. Acne caused by soaps, body washes, scrubs, massage oils and lotions often exhibits where the skin has been most exposed to the product, and where the skin perspires more: the chest, back, arms, and bottom. Deodorants or Antiperspirants with Aluminum Zirconium can cause Granulomas, or skin bumps. Shaving, plucking or waxing the area can also cause bumps and ingrown-hair. Alternatives: Essence Skin-Saving Superwash Hair and Body Care and Elation Natural Skin Spa Hair and Body Care. Some prescription drugs can cause Acne. Ask your physician about potential Acne side-effects when being prescribed a new drug. The condition of ';Sweat Acne'; or Pityrosporum Folliculitis (PF) is caused by a the pityrosporum fungus. It is a naturally-occurring fungus that feeds on human sweat but that tends to proliferate in some people, especially if you tend to perspire heavily. PF therefore appears in areas that perspire most: the back, chest, upper thighs, buttocks, and upper arms.
Switching to non-comedogenic Essence and Elation products will help. So will active therapy with Id Beta-Hydroxy Clarifying System for Men and Women , particularly Id Sweat Acne and Overall Antibacterial Monolaurin Gel This special gel is clinically proven to be as effective as popular anti-fungal treatments for PF (in studies, it showed 100% efficacy in clearing PF), but because it is so gentle to skin, it can be used for longer periods of time, for sustained therapy (which is important; PF is notorious for recurring when therapy is stopped). As well, Id Gel keeps skin cool and matte to help prevent sweating and, cosequentially, the proliferation of the pityrosporum fungus. As with all skin conditions, we recommend that you see a Dermatologist for proper diagnoses and treatment options (you may need internally-taken, prescription medication. Consult a dermatologist if you think you may have ';Sweat Acne
Cut my bangs myself they look horrible.do u have any advice for me so they dont look bad.?
Go to the hair salon and have them fix them. They're pretty good at fixing our mistakes! :o)Cut my bangs myself they look horrible.do u have any advice for me so they dont look bad.?
I've done that in the past
well if they're too short just let them grow out. yes you will fell weird for a while but eventually before you know it they will be the length you want it. also if you cut them too long just wet ur bangs ad try again! just be careful lol if you just don't like them in general that you can side sweep them and that looks good on everyone :]Cut my bangs myself they look horrible.do u have any advice for me so they dont look bad.?
i use to cut my bangs all the time... and my mom would always make fun of me for it..
she's a hair stylist.. and she is usually too busy for me. so i would just do it myself.. and whenever they turn out really bad. i jsut clip it up or wear a headband or something
if they look super bad. try getting it fix by a professional.
it really depends how they are messed upp, but bestt thingg to do is either go to the salon so theyy can basically fix anythingg or you can try agaain to fix them if they are just uneven orr you can just put them back with a clip or head band until they grow out.
put a picture up. what are they like? are they too short? uneven? just sweep them to the side or clip them back until they grow out a bit.
or you could go to the hairdressers and have them fixed. depends what the damage is
either put them in a clip, put them in a head band, or put a hat on to cover until they grow long enough to get fixed by a professional.
just clip ur hair than when it get longer u just let it go and beside ur bangs just clip a cute ribbon clip well tht was big trend in asia...
if they to bad just put it up and clip it if it not to short make a lil bumb so it wouldnt look so bad.
if they are uneven...try again...who knows you might be able to rock the ';baby'; bangs look
try the betty paige hairstyle ,,,shorter bang
I've done that in the past
well if they're too short just let them grow out. yes you will fell weird for a while but eventually before you know it they will be the length you want it. also if you cut them too long just wet ur bangs ad try again! just be careful lol if you just don't like them in general that you can side sweep them and that looks good on everyone :]Cut my bangs myself they look horrible.do u have any advice for me so they dont look bad.?
i use to cut my bangs all the time... and my mom would always make fun of me for it..
she's a hair stylist.. and she is usually too busy for me. so i would just do it myself.. and whenever they turn out really bad. i jsut clip it up or wear a headband or something
if they look super bad. try getting it fix by a professional.
it really depends how they are messed upp, but bestt thingg to do is either go to the salon so theyy can basically fix anythingg or you can try agaain to fix them if they are just uneven orr you can just put them back with a clip or head band until they grow out.
put a picture up. what are they like? are they too short? uneven? just sweep them to the side or clip them back until they grow out a bit.
or you could go to the hairdressers and have them fixed. depends what the damage is
either put them in a clip, put them in a head band, or put a hat on to cover until they grow long enough to get fixed by a professional.
just clip ur hair than when it get longer u just let it go and beside ur bangs just clip a cute ribbon clip well tht was big trend in asia...
if they to bad just put it up and clip it if it not to short make a lil bumb so it wouldnt look so bad.
if they are uneven...try again...who knows you might be able to rock the ';baby'; bangs look
try the betty paige hairstyle ,,,shorter bang
Well I have an issue and im not sure if i should feel bad or not? any advice?
well my b-day is tomorrow and i told 2 of my friends that they can go to six flags with me, 1 of my friends is paying for themselves and the other one of my friends has no money, but i said i would pay, but then i realized i wouldnt have that much money left cause i was gonna buy myself a season pass and stuff and so i called him up and said if it was alright if i took him on the 21st instead so i can bring him free, he said yea sure but he sounded really bummed out (i would be too) and now i feel kinda bad, i usually always pay for him on outings like when we go to the movies, sometimes i even pay for food and get drained out of cash, so any advice on the situation? jus let him deal with it and wait a lil bit, or lose some money and bring him on the same day?Well I have an issue and im not sure if i should feel bad or not? any advice?
You're not responsible for always paying for him...
Tell him if he can come up with the money he's welcome to join you...
You're not responsible for always paying for him...
Tell him if he can come up with the money he's welcome to join you...
I feel really bad. I need some good advice?
Tonight my boyfriend, my son and I went to our friends house to watch the game. Well our friends brother happened to be there which is no big deal because he always goes over there with his wife on game nights, but his wife didnt go this night because she just had a baby, anyway so were there watching the game and it wasnt going the way we hoped ,so my boyfriend started to dose off. I looked over to him and saw him falling asleep and realized everyone else had left the room. The brother was staring at me which was weird because he barely even talks to me. So I looked away really quickly , and then looked back, and he was still starring at me. So I looked at him and he gave me that look. And if youre a girl you know what kind of look I talking about. I couldnt believe him. His wife just had a baby a week ago. What I feel bad about though is that I didnt tell my boyfriend. To me its not a big enough deal to tell him but Im not sure. I need some advice.I feel really bad. I need some good advice?
It is not something to be too alarmed over, but I think that you should at least mention it o your B.F in a manner that doesn't sound like you are making a big deal over it, so it doesn't cause a fued, %26amp; tell him that you may even have mistaken the look, but let him know that it made you feel uncomfortable. This way you hide nothing from him, %26amp; he now knows to be on a look out.I feel really bad. I need some good advice?
tell him be honest from the beginning because if something else happenes he's gonna think your responsible and wont trust because you didnt tell him the truth from the beginning... trust me this is a big mistake that people make and I've seen it end relationships left and right... honesty and trust are crucial to any relationship...
If it bothers you so much talking to your boyfriend might be a good idea, not to say you definately should but it might make you feel a little bit better. Whenever someone has made me feel uncomfortable by giving me that look i tell my boyfriend and he usually makes me feel better. So maybe telling him would be the best choice if you feel that uncomfortable but if you do tell him dontlet him confront the brother because he will only deny it.
Tell your boyfriend please, and make sure his wife know that too, it is better for everubody to know how he is. he is disgasting.
I wouldn't mention ';the look'; to him right now. Now, if his brother actually tried to make a move on you, you need to let him know that it is never going to happen. If you go to your boyfriend about it, then you are putting brothers against each other, and it is never a good idea to be the one in the middle of a family squabble. In the end, family will always choose each other.
It is not something to be too alarmed over, but I think that you should at least mention it o your B.F in a manner that doesn't sound like you are making a big deal over it, so it doesn't cause a fued, %26amp; tell him that you may even have mistaken the look, but let him know that it made you feel uncomfortable. This way you hide nothing from him, %26amp; he now knows to be on a look out.I feel really bad. I need some good advice?
tell him be honest from the beginning because if something else happenes he's gonna think your responsible and wont trust because you didnt tell him the truth from the beginning... trust me this is a big mistake that people make and I've seen it end relationships left and right... honesty and trust are crucial to any relationship...
If it bothers you so much talking to your boyfriend might be a good idea, not to say you definately should but it might make you feel a little bit better. Whenever someone has made me feel uncomfortable by giving me that look i tell my boyfriend and he usually makes me feel better. So maybe telling him would be the best choice if you feel that uncomfortable but if you do tell him dontlet him confront the brother because he will only deny it.
Tell your boyfriend please, and make sure his wife know that too, it is better for everubody to know how he is. he is disgasting.
I wouldn't mention ';the look'; to him right now. Now, if his brother actually tried to make a move on you, you need to let him know that it is never going to happen. If you go to your boyfriend about it, then you are putting brothers against each other, and it is never a good idea to be the one in the middle of a family squabble. In the end, family will always choose each other.
Am I a bad person???I need some advice?
a couple of months ago i broke up
w/ this girl because she cheated on me
while she was on vacation.She told
me three days after she came back.
She has tried to apologize to me
a couple of times and I just ignored
her not wanting to hear from her.its
been five months and we haven't
talked at all and my friends say im
a bad person because I didn't even
hear her out.Lately I've been feeling
terrible....Am I a bad person??What should I do??Am I a bad person???I need some advice?
No, she's the guilty cheater, not you.
You have a right to be upset.Am I a bad person???I need some advice?
Don't let your friends make you feel bad. What more is there to hear out? She told you that she cheated. That's more than enough for most people to hear. There is no excuse for cheating and you chose not to hear her excuses. There is nothing wrong with that and you don't owe her or anyone else an apology for your decision. No you are not a bad person!
It was months ago, why are you harping on it? If she cheated on you once she will probably do it again, why put yourself through the doubt and pain of it all over again? Sometimes it is worth it, usually it is not. Let it go.
Your friends are ****. Why does she deserve to be heard? Move on here and make sure you pick a better one next time. Short term loss for long term gain my friend.
there are at lest 2 billion women ( on this planet ) you potentially will love to.. forget about it..!
Can you find enother girl ?!..do it !
friendly me
No! Without trust there is no point. She broke it, you did the right thing.
well.....hear her out
w/ this girl because she cheated on me
while she was on vacation.She told
me three days after she came back.
She has tried to apologize to me
a couple of times and I just ignored
her not wanting to hear from her.its
been five months and we haven't
talked at all and my friends say im
a bad person because I didn't even
hear her out.Lately I've been feeling
terrible....Am I a bad person??What should I do??Am I a bad person???I need some advice?
No, she's the guilty cheater, not you.
You have a right to be upset.Am I a bad person???I need some advice?
Don't let your friends make you feel bad. What more is there to hear out? She told you that she cheated. That's more than enough for most people to hear. There is no excuse for cheating and you chose not to hear her excuses. There is nothing wrong with that and you don't owe her or anyone else an apology for your decision. No you are not a bad person!
It was months ago, why are you harping on it? If she cheated on you once she will probably do it again, why put yourself through the doubt and pain of it all over again? Sometimes it is worth it, usually it is not. Let it go.
Your friends are ****. Why does she deserve to be heard? Move on here and make sure you pick a better one next time. Short term loss for long term gain my friend.
there are at lest 2 billion women ( on this planet ) you potentially will love to.. forget about it..!
Can you find enother girl ?!..do it !
friendly me
No! Without trust there is no point. She broke it, you did the right thing.
well.....hear her out
What is the worst advice you have seen in a magazine?
In a list of allegedly sexy things to say to your husband or boyfriend, in Cosmopolitan: ';My bikini waxer went a little too far today!'; My boyfriend at the time winced when he saw this article. (I wasn't dumb enough to actually use the line, TTG.) Without exception, the straight and bi men I asked about this immediately thought this would mean they'd have to take their girlfriend/wife to the emergency room and expect her to be out of commission for a few weeks!
Actually, you should pretty much disregard all the advice in Cosmopolitan.What is the worst advice you have seen in a magazine?
The worst advice in a magazine,
was purchasing of an Engine Oil Pump Primer for a SBC-BBC.
The theory is to pump oil through the engine before the initial start up on a newly rebuilt engine.
This accomplished by using this priming tool in place of the distributer and using a 1/2'; drill motor to turn this oil pump primer to pump the oil.
Now as soon as the tool is removed to put the distributer in, all the oil has drained back to the pan.
The PROPER WAY, is to assemble the engine using an assembly lube on all the moving parts, bearings gears etc.
Assemble the engine totally. Without powering up the ignition (pull coil wire) crank the engine over with the starter until some oil pressure shows on the gauge.
add the coil wire and fire it up.What is the worst advice you have seen in a magazine?
When my child was born, someone gave us a subscription to Parenting magazine and they were realy heavy into not vaccinating children. That is nuts.
There was an article by someone who refused to vaccinate and her kid got whooping cough. She described sitting up wiht the child for several nights as she suffered to try to breath and nearly died. In the end the mother said she had the satisfaction of knowing that her child now had ';natural immunity';.
Flippin lunatic.
Any of the ';women's'; magazines that train women to fix their exterior to match ludicrous media ideals in order to attract men.
';Invest in Enron stock';
vote for bush in 2000
Become a Jehovah's Witness.makeup school
Actually, you should pretty much disregard all the advice in Cosmopolitan.What is the worst advice you have seen in a magazine?
The worst advice in a magazine,
was purchasing of an Engine Oil Pump Primer for a SBC-BBC.
The theory is to pump oil through the engine before the initial start up on a newly rebuilt engine.
This accomplished by using this priming tool in place of the distributer and using a 1/2'; drill motor to turn this oil pump primer to pump the oil.
Now as soon as the tool is removed to put the distributer in, all the oil has drained back to the pan.
The PROPER WAY, is to assemble the engine using an assembly lube on all the moving parts, bearings gears etc.
Assemble the engine totally. Without powering up the ignition (pull coil wire) crank the engine over with the starter until some oil pressure shows on the gauge.
add the coil wire and fire it up.What is the worst advice you have seen in a magazine?
When my child was born, someone gave us a subscription to Parenting magazine and they were realy heavy into not vaccinating children. That is nuts.
There was an article by someone who refused to vaccinate and her kid got whooping cough. She described sitting up wiht the child for several nights as she suffered to try to breath and nearly died. In the end the mother said she had the satisfaction of knowing that her child now had ';natural immunity';.
Flippin lunatic.
Any of the ';women's'; magazines that train women to fix their exterior to match ludicrous media ideals in order to attract men.
';Invest in Enron stock';
vote for bush in 2000
Become a Jehovah's Witness.
Boyfriend advice? It's not bad...I think.?
Well I'm totally in love with my boyfriend and I know he love s me to but lately we have nothing to talk about. Occasionally something will come up, but not usually. Any ideas on what to talk about with him?%26gt; Lol, I pretty much know everything about him. Well, not exactly everything,but you get my point.Boyfriend advice? It's not bad...I think.?
Now you have to find things in common. Do you both like football (Superbowl is coming)? What are you both interested in?Boyfriend advice? It's not bad...I think.?
hmmmm.
i dont know.. just talk about things that happened recently.
Talk about something you have in common. If you know everything about him, then you must know something that you both like. Or talk about something funny that happened, on TV, at work or school or whatever.
Now you have to find things in common. Do you both like football (Superbowl is coming)? What are you both interested in?Boyfriend advice? It's not bad...I think.?
hmmmm.
i dont know.. just talk about things that happened recently.
Talk about something you have in common. If you know everything about him, then you must know something that you both like. Or talk about something funny that happened, on TV, at work or school or whatever.
What is the worst advice you've ever given?
Orrrrrrr......The best advice? Which ever floats ur boat I guess. ;)What is the worst advice you've ever given?
Worst advice: Try it and see what happens :DWhat is the worst advice you've ever given?
For a dude to quit life...kidding! Even if I give a person some advice, they never take it...so screw it!
Help my idiotic friend?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
The worst advice - Go ahead and eat all your Halloween candy.
Seriously. It was THE worst advice I had EVER given. Turns out they were mildly allergic to some of the candy, too XD
My teacher always told me ';Don't wear pantyhose on Tuesday'; I was like Okay...Wait what?
go **** yourself
i didnt think theyd actually go threw with it
and i didnt think id walk in on it
mine was sure go ahead get married
it cant hurt to try
I don't give much advice.
Worst advice: Try it and see what happens :DWhat is the worst advice you've ever given?
For a dude to quit life...kidding! Even if I give a person some advice, they never take it...so screw it!
Help my idiotic friend?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
The worst advice - Go ahead and eat all your Halloween candy.
Seriously. It was THE worst advice I had EVER given. Turns out they were mildly allergic to some of the candy, too XD
My teacher always told me ';Don't wear pantyhose on Tuesday'; I was like Okay...Wait what?
go **** yourself
i didnt think theyd actually go threw with it
and i didnt think id walk in on it
mine was sure go ahead get married
it cant hurt to try
I don't give much advice.
I want a kitten so bad but how can i get one?i need advice.?
i need a kitten!!!!!!!!!!!!I want a kitten so bad but how can i get one?i need advice.?
First of all visit your local animal shelter, there are so many kittens that need a good home.... Also look in your newspaper, there are always alot of ads in there. Hope this helps you and Good Luck in your search...I want a kitten so bad but how can i get one?i need advice.?
Look in paper.Ask friends and co workers.Go to vets office and put up request.Kittens are not hard to find.Walk through a few neighbourhoods,you may find a few starving ones there.Check out shelters....
I know you need a kitten check your local Humane Society,
they usually have some great cats or look in your local news paper for animals some times they will give a kitten free to a good home, last check the supermarket customer information board like where they want to advertise garage sales etc.
go to a pet store.....usually, there will be an animal farm near your city or something, if you can't find an animal farm or pet store, try the website WWW.Petfinder.Com.
Well one of the best ways to get a kitten is to visit your local animal shelter. Even better than a kitten is to adopt an adult cat since everyone wants the kittens you will be giving a good home to a cat that needs it.
wait patiently by a pregnant cat and...
VIOLA!!!
new baby cat!!
enjoy.
First of all visit your local animal shelter, there are so many kittens that need a good home.... Also look in your newspaper, there are always alot of ads in there. Hope this helps you and Good Luck in your search...I want a kitten so bad but how can i get one?i need advice.?
Look in paper.Ask friends and co workers.Go to vets office and put up request.Kittens are not hard to find.Walk through a few neighbourhoods,you may find a few starving ones there.Check out shelters....
I know you need a kitten check your local Humane Society,
they usually have some great cats or look in your local news paper for animals some times they will give a kitten free to a good home, last check the supermarket customer information board like where they want to advertise garage sales etc.
go to a pet store.....usually, there will be an animal farm near your city or something, if you can't find an animal farm or pet store, try the website WWW.Petfinder.Com.
Well one of the best ways to get a kitten is to visit your local animal shelter. Even better than a kitten is to adopt an adult cat since everyone wants the kittens you will be giving a good home to a cat that needs it.
wait patiently by a pregnant cat and...
VIOLA!!!
new baby cat!!
enjoy.
Boyfriend advice? It's not bad...I think.?
Well I'm totally in love with my boyfriend and I know he love s me to but lately we have nothing to talk about. Occasionally something will come up, but not usually. Any ideas on what to talk about with him?%26gt; Lol, I pretty much know everything about him. Well, not exactly everything,but you get my point.Boyfriend advice? It's not bad...I think.?
Now you have to find things in common. Do you both like football (Superbowl is coming)? What are you both interested in?Boyfriend advice? It's not bad...I think.?
hmmmm.
i dont know.. just talk about things that happened recently.
Talk about something you have in common. If you know everything about him, then you must know something that you both like. Or talk about something funny that happened, on TV, at work or school or whatever.
Now you have to find things in common. Do you both like football (Superbowl is coming)? What are you both interested in?Boyfriend advice? It's not bad...I think.?
hmmmm.
i dont know.. just talk about things that happened recently.
Talk about something you have in common. If you know everything about him, then you must know something that you both like. Or talk about something funny that happened, on TV, at work or school or whatever.
What is the worst advice you've ever given?
Orrrrrrr......The best advice? Which ever floats ur boat I guess. ;)What is the worst advice you've ever given?
Worst advice: Try it and see what happens :DWhat is the worst advice you've ever given?
For a dude to quit life...kidding! Even if I give a person some advice, they never take it...so screw it!
Help my idiotic friend?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
The worst advice - Go ahead and eat all your Halloween candy.
Seriously. It was THE worst advice I had EVER given. Turns out they were mildly allergic to some of the candy, too XD
My teacher always told me ';Don't wear pantyhose on Tuesday'; I was like Okay...Wait what?
go **** yourself
i didnt think theyd actually go threw with it
and i didnt think id walk in on it
mine was sure go ahead get married
it cant hurt to try
I don't give much advice.
Worst advice: Try it and see what happens :DWhat is the worst advice you've ever given?
For a dude to quit life...kidding! Even if I give a person some advice, they never take it...so screw it!
Help my idiotic friend?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
The worst advice - Go ahead and eat all your Halloween candy.
Seriously. It was THE worst advice I had EVER given. Turns out they were mildly allergic to some of the candy, too XD
My teacher always told me ';Don't wear pantyhose on Tuesday'; I was like Okay...Wait what?
go **** yourself
i didnt think theyd actually go threw with it
and i didnt think id walk in on it
mine was sure go ahead get married
it cant hurt to try
I don't give much advice.
I want a kitten so bad but how can i get one?i need advice.?
i need a kitten!!!!!!!!!!!!I want a kitten so bad but how can i get one?i need advice.?
First of all visit your local animal shelter, there are so many kittens that need a good home.... Also look in your newspaper, there are always alot of ads in there. Hope this helps you and Good Luck in your search...I want a kitten so bad but how can i get one?i need advice.?
Look in paper.Ask friends and co workers.Go to vets office and put up request.Kittens are not hard to find.Walk through a few neighbourhoods,you may find a few starving ones there.Check out shelters....
I know you need a kitten check your local Humane Society,
they usually have some great cats or look in your local news paper for animals some times they will give a kitten free to a good home, last check the supermarket customer information board like where they want to advertise garage sales etc.
go to a pet store.....usually, there will be an animal farm near your city or something, if you can't find an animal farm or pet store, try the website WWW.Petfinder.Com.
Well one of the best ways to get a kitten is to visit your local animal shelter. Even better than a kitten is to adopt an adult cat since everyone wants the kittens you will be giving a good home to a cat that needs it.
wait patiently by a pregnant cat and...
VIOLA!!!
new baby cat!!
enjoy.makeup school
First of all visit your local animal shelter, there are so many kittens that need a good home.... Also look in your newspaper, there are always alot of ads in there. Hope this helps you and Good Luck in your search...I want a kitten so bad but how can i get one?i need advice.?
Look in paper.Ask friends and co workers.Go to vets office and put up request.Kittens are not hard to find.Walk through a few neighbourhoods,you may find a few starving ones there.Check out shelters....
I know you need a kitten check your local Humane Society,
they usually have some great cats or look in your local news paper for animals some times they will give a kitten free to a good home, last check the supermarket customer information board like where they want to advertise garage sales etc.
go to a pet store.....usually, there will be an animal farm near your city or something, if you can't find an animal farm or pet store, try the website WWW.Petfinder.Com.
Well one of the best ways to get a kitten is to visit your local animal shelter. Even better than a kitten is to adopt an adult cat since everyone wants the kittens you will be giving a good home to a cat that needs it.
wait patiently by a pregnant cat and...
VIOLA!!!
new baby cat!!
enjoy.
I gave advice that hurt somebodies feelings real bad because they didn't understand what I said?
How many swats of the paddle do I deserve. I think a lot to make me feel better.I gave advice that hurt somebodies feelings real bad because they didn't understand what I said?
None - Either they will come to appreciate what you said or appreciate why you said it. It takes a strong person to voice an opinion when you know it will hurt. Give it time; one way or the other, it will work out.I gave advice that hurt somebodies feelings real bad because they didn't understand what I said?
I'll swat you 7 times. But not because of what you said to that touchy person. It's just because I enjoy it.
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None - Either they will come to appreciate what you said or appreciate why you said it. It takes a strong person to voice an opinion when you know it will hurt. Give it time; one way or the other, it will work out.I gave advice that hurt somebodies feelings real bad because they didn't understand what I said?
I'll swat you 7 times. But not because of what you said to that touchy person. It's just because I enjoy it.
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WHAT DOES HE MEAN?!?! please help me you have no idea how bad i need ur advice!!?
Hey everyone! Thanks for helping me!=] Mmmk. So this senior guy is my friend and hes awesome! I'm a junior and at lunch today he was flirty with me but asked me to help him find a girlfriend and i was all ok ill b ur matchmaker. I told him some options and he turned them down and gave me his number and told me 2 keep him updated. IDK like i kinda have a crush on him and ya..what should i do? does it mean he likes me cuz seriously he was hugging me and talking to me FOREVER! haha. thanks =]]
-he isnt naturally flirty and idk i had sex and dated his best friend.WHAT DOES HE MEAN?!?! please help me you have no idea how bad i need ur advice!!?
Call him and say I was thinking about you looking for a girlfriend and name a girl and see where he goes from there. I am thinking he is just wanting you to call and then he will either plant another hint are just out right tell you he wants you to be his girlfriend.
Good luck to you.....WHAT DOES HE MEAN?!?! please help me you have no idea how bad i need ur advice!!?
You need to stay away from this guy. All he wants is sex. You also need to stop having sex with these guys. Your reputation is going to be messed up, if you keep this up!
He likes you and you aren't getting the hint. But don't bring up the fact that you had sex with his best friend... it could make things really uncomfortable.
i think he likes you because he brought up the subject of a girlfriend, and he is giving you proofs of his affection
girl, i think he likes u 0_o
Maybe u can say ';I'll be ur girlfriend then'; in plan of a joke to see how he reacts %26gt;_%26gt;
-he isnt naturally flirty and idk i had sex and dated his best friend.WHAT DOES HE MEAN?!?! please help me you have no idea how bad i need ur advice!!?
Call him and say I was thinking about you looking for a girlfriend and name a girl and see where he goes from there. I am thinking he is just wanting you to call and then he will either plant another hint are just out right tell you he wants you to be his girlfriend.
Good luck to you.....WHAT DOES HE MEAN?!?! please help me you have no idea how bad i need ur advice!!?
You need to stay away from this guy. All he wants is sex. You also need to stop having sex with these guys. Your reputation is going to be messed up, if you keep this up!
He likes you and you aren't getting the hint. But don't bring up the fact that you had sex with his best friend... it could make things really uncomfortable.
i think he likes you because he brought up the subject of a girlfriend, and he is giving you proofs of his affection
girl, i think he likes u 0_o
Maybe u can say ';I'll be ur girlfriend then'; in plan of a joke to see how he reacts %26gt;_%26gt;
Is this good or bad...?? Please help, I need some advice..?
Okay so I told my friend to ask this guy if he likes me... She asked him that afternoon, after school in the court yard and he just smiled and walked away and laughed(in a good way, she said) and then he walked away from her and went up to his best friend and told him something and his best friend looked at her with a big grin on his face....
What do you think my crush told his best friend?Is this good or bad...?? Please help, I need some advice..?
of course he told his best friend
idk if its good or bad what he did
it more than likely means he likes you
since he didnt just say NO
and he smiled thats good
What do you think my crush told his best friend?Is this good or bad...?? Please help, I need some advice..?
of course he told his best friend
idk if its good or bad what he did
it more than likely means he likes you
since he didnt just say NO
and he smiled thats good
Need help with a bad poison ivy rash. Got any advice?
i was out in the yard, and ONE damn little ivy leaf touched my hand, my finger. later on i scratched and thats where it spread to my arms. Heres the worst part, i forgot i had the poison on my finger.........and i had to go.........piss. Now i have a bad, BAD rash. All over my chest, my arms, thighs, and my......how should i say it........my package. Its extremely painful, extremely itchy, im miserable because of it and i hope no other man has to go through what im goin through. Does anybody know ANYTHING that i can do to get rid of this poison ivy rash fast and relieve the itch and pain. ANYTHING??? please help me, im miserable and im suffering. (Imagine a mosquito bite, 10 times stronger and everytime you scratch you get a second of relief then extreme pain, on your wang, all day everyday. I cant even get any sleep) Thanks for any advice.Need help with a bad poison ivy rash. Got any advice?
Take some benadryl and then use some regular like anti-itch cream. If it gets really bad go to the doctor and they will give you a shot for it. Especially cause it is down there, and another thing DON'T SCRATCH.
If you would have washed the poison ivy oil off right away you wouldn't have gotten it. Any time you think that you have come in contact with it go wash your self with hot water and dish soap.
Also they have oatmeal bath packets that Aveno makes especially for poison ivy and stuff like that. I would go and get some it really helps that away that itch.Need help with a bad poison ivy rash. Got any advice?
do to the ER, they will give you a shot of decodron, within about 10-15 minutes the itching and pain will stop and in about 2 days the rash will clear up. That is my best advice. The decodron works wonders.
I've had a extreme case of poision ivy.....in fact it was so bad I cant even be around poison lvy when it's merely pollenating. Because it got into my blood stream.
I used Sunlight dish soap. Wash with it constantly. What happens is.....a oil from the plant gets on your skin, you sratch and this oil spreads everywhere!!!!!!!
Sunlight will help a lot but unfortunaly you'll have to go through so discomfort and time will heal it.
Take some benadryl and then use some regular like anti-itch cream. If it gets really bad go to the doctor and they will give you a shot for it. Especially cause it is down there, and another thing DON'T SCRATCH.
If you would have washed the poison ivy oil off right away you wouldn't have gotten it. Any time you think that you have come in contact with it go wash your self with hot water and dish soap.
Also they have oatmeal bath packets that Aveno makes especially for poison ivy and stuff like that. I would go and get some it really helps that away that itch.Need help with a bad poison ivy rash. Got any advice?
do to the ER, they will give you a shot of decodron, within about 10-15 minutes the itching and pain will stop and in about 2 days the rash will clear up. That is my best advice. The decodron works wonders.
I've had a extreme case of poision ivy.....in fact it was so bad I cant even be around poison lvy when it's merely pollenating. Because it got into my blood stream.
I used Sunlight dish soap. Wash with it constantly. What happens is.....a oil from the plant gets on your skin, you sratch and this oil spreads everywhere!!!!!!!
Sunlight will help a lot but unfortunaly you'll have to go through so discomfort and time will heal it.
I lost my dad& a bad brake up and bad Health news about my mom!(Please give me advice)
i was getting married in sept, well 2weks ago my fiance and i got into it over nothing big! and he broke up with me and said he needed time to think well the reason he is needing time to think is cause i messed up big last year i cheated on him which was so stupid(u Dont have to tel me) and i regret it so bad i lovethisboy with all my heart, well i gave him his space i didnt call him he would still call me up in till 3 days ago and he wouldn't call! but when he did call intill 3 days ago he would say he loved me everytime we hung up and i ask him if he was still in love and he said yes he just couldnt gfet me cheatin on him out of his mind(which i understand) well i found ut my mom had 5 years to live i called him to tell him yesteday (remember thats the first time for me to talk to him in 2 days) well i called him and told him on his vpice mail i needed to tell him my mom was real sick!HE NEVER Called so i called him the next day at work nd i told him about her and he kinda acted funny but i ask huim why he has not called me and he said he was still thinking about me and the other guy! well he got all mad cause he started talking about it and he told me to leave him the F'word alone!!? which he's told me before! and i really think he has bi polar it runs in his family! but im just wondering if yall think it will work? and if it does not work between me and him how can i deal with it im heart brokin? i lost my dad last year and now i loose my fiance which was my best friend and now i have bad new about my mom%26gt;%26gt;%26gt; I just want my baby back?! oh and he is the type of person that acts like he does not have the first feeling s he's pretty cold hearted! please just give me advice!%26gt; ? THANKS SO MUCH!I lost my dad%26amp; a bad brake up and bad Health news about my mom!(Please give me advice)
all i can say is pray. i dont mean to get religious on you or anybody but praying is probably the best thing you can do. Things will get better, maybe not right away but things WILL get betterI lost my dad%26amp; a bad brake up and bad Health news about my mom!(Please give me advice)
Well i think hes over reacting if you cheated on him A YEAR ago and just now hes getting pissed. I dont think hes rite 4 u if he is bein that mean and cold hearted. just ignore him, and see if he comes crawling back or just gets outta ur lyf.
well, sounds like he has anger problems. He is hurt and it doesnt take just a year to get over something like that for alot of people. Very rarely does a relationship that has gone through that work out. you have to forgive and forget. That was aweful what happened and you cant blame him for going crazy. Just give him time and let the dust settle. Your Mom was told 5 years, but she may live longer. take the time to spend with yuor mom. make a ritual with her. go get your nails done every saturday and go out for lunch. rent movies and pop some pop corn. Then in the mean time, your baby will be healing. Your killing two birds with one stone:) Love your mom and make memories with her. You will be so glad you did. Do you see whats happening? This is all happening for a reason....dont waste precious time sweety. the answer is right infront of you.
You need to be with someone who is there for you, not just when it is conveinent for him. If you both are committed to one another, you need to get couples counseling to cope with what you did last year. He clearly has been harbouring resentment, and it is now exploding out.
For now, I would stay away from this relationship, (unless he WANTS to work on it) focus on your mother's health and your relationship with her. He clearly does not want to be a part of your family right now, and you cannot force him to want to. He will be nothing but a distraction for you, and his presence does not sound like a positive one to have around right now.
Can it work out in the long run? Only you two can decide your fate together. But it will take a lot of hard work on both of your parts to do so. Continue to give him space, and focus on what is most important right now. Good Luck!
From my point of view, it seems like your chasing someone who probably isn't going to get over the cheating. Some people are just like that. You are NOT going to be able to be with everyone one you love. If he IS bi-polar, it would probably be best to let him go if he doesn't seek treatment.
I know that its hard to give up on someone you love and part of you will always love him but the most important thing is that you find someone who will love you for who you are, forgive you if you really ARE sorry and try to work on staying together.
all i can say is pray. i dont mean to get religious on you or anybody but praying is probably the best thing you can do. Things will get better, maybe not right away but things WILL get betterI lost my dad%26amp; a bad brake up and bad Health news about my mom!(Please give me advice)
Well i think hes over reacting if you cheated on him A YEAR ago and just now hes getting pissed. I dont think hes rite 4 u if he is bein that mean and cold hearted. just ignore him, and see if he comes crawling back or just gets outta ur lyf.
well, sounds like he has anger problems. He is hurt and it doesnt take just a year to get over something like that for alot of people. Very rarely does a relationship that has gone through that work out. you have to forgive and forget. That was aweful what happened and you cant blame him for going crazy. Just give him time and let the dust settle. Your Mom was told 5 years, but she may live longer. take the time to spend with yuor mom. make a ritual with her. go get your nails done every saturday and go out for lunch. rent movies and pop some pop corn. Then in the mean time, your baby will be healing. Your killing two birds with one stone:) Love your mom and make memories with her. You will be so glad you did. Do you see whats happening? This is all happening for a reason....dont waste precious time sweety. the answer is right infront of you.
You need to be with someone who is there for you, not just when it is conveinent for him. If you both are committed to one another, you need to get couples counseling to cope with what you did last year. He clearly has been harbouring resentment, and it is now exploding out.
For now, I would stay away from this relationship, (unless he WANTS to work on it) focus on your mother's health and your relationship with her. He clearly does not want to be a part of your family right now, and you cannot force him to want to. He will be nothing but a distraction for you, and his presence does not sound like a positive one to have around right now.
Can it work out in the long run? Only you two can decide your fate together. But it will take a lot of hard work on both of your parts to do so. Continue to give him space, and focus on what is most important right now. Good Luck!
From my point of view, it seems like your chasing someone who probably isn't going to get over the cheating. Some people are just like that. You are NOT going to be able to be with everyone one you love. If he IS bi-polar, it would probably be best to let him go if he doesn't seek treatment.
I know that its hard to give up on someone you love and part of you will always love him but the most important thing is that you find someone who will love you for who you are, forgive you if you really ARE sorry and try to work on staying together.
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