This guy is really is making me feel bad and i need advice...?

My boyfriend or whatever he is asked me out at the beginning of summer and this monday was our 5 month. When school started a few weeks ago he wouldnt talk me at all for a week then i got this girl to ask him if he had a girlfriend and he told her it was me and that he was in love with me. So finally i called him and asked him for a answer if he wanted to be with me or not and that was 2 weeks ago but he still flirts with me in the halls and stuff. He dont have a cell phone so i cant call him alot so i never know his deal. Anyways today i called him and asked him whether we were going out or we were and he justs keeps saying ill tell you friday or im too tired to do this and he will change the subject He ******* confuzes me cause he flirts with alot of other girls but he still tells people he is in love? does it sound like he is going to break up with me or what?


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and i cant break up with him i really do love him too much and i couldnt handle that. and people say that if he does break up with you dont act like its bothering you that would just make him feel better so dont suggest that.This guy is really is making me feel bad and i need advice...?
I'm sorry hon, but this guy is being a complete douche. It doesn't matter if you love him right now, but it sounds like you two need a little break, to say the least. He's taking advantage of you- can't you tell? He knows you love him and is using your weakness (the fact that you love him too!) against you. He's holding you buy a string.





If I were you, I would write him a letter or just confront him one day, depending on your nature, to tell him exactly your problem and say something like, ';Listen up. I'm not going to deal with this attitude you're giving me. It's really bothering me and it isn't ok. Either tell me what's going on right this second or it's over [or ';we need to take a break';]';.


If he loves you and truly cares about you, he will impress you with his answer, and it won't simply be ';Oh, I'm so sorry babe, I didn't mean to hurt your feelings';- it will be sincere, from the heart, and will make you want to die for him. But more than this, he will need to prove his words- he should talk to you every day, stop flirting with other girls, make you feel amazing, and be a great boyfriend.


If not, he will not try to make a big influence on your choice and you'll need to just let him go. There are other fish in the sea (to use an overused but accurate cliche).





Trust your instincts, girl. He isn't right for you if he doesn't make you feel good.





Good luck.This guy is really is making me feel bad and i need advice...?
If he's making you feel bad already, then it's already not a healthy relationship. If he doesn't have time for you then why would u want to stick around. Just chilll guys like to know they have u in the palm of their hand. It makes them feel in control.
People are telling you the truth. Break up with him already. Relationships are based on trust and communication and your relationship clearly lacks that. Just move on and stay calm. This is life and it happens all the time.
You both sound 13 and immature. Oh and this would be a lot more readable if you used more punctuation than just periods.
He is a child. Dump him and find someone who appreciates you.
how old are you guys.. he must be young because hes not making much since..... i kinda dnt get it. hes like scared of you or the subject, but then tells people that hes in love with you....huh?????? i dnt get it.. ive never ever heard of something like that...


u need to talk to him and ask NOT about if you guys are together, BUT why is he acting the way he is...acting all weird n ****.....tell him your confused by his actions!
This person is playing with your feelings and that should never be OK. A boy or man will only treat you as well as you make him.





You CAN break up with him. Love comes and goes, but you should love yourself more than you love someone who treats you so disrespectfully. You deserve to be treated decently. A person who is in love with you won't openly flirt with other people and will talk to you about your feelings when you need to.





Don't be a doormat, girlfriend. I have spent most of my life doing that and it only leads to pain and disappointment. You don't need this guy, trust me. The minute you stop pursuing him and walk away he's going to wonder what the heck happened. And you will be open to something better that could come along.





Life's too short to waste pining away for people that treat you this way. If you let it happen now, it will happen over and over again, each time a little worse than the last.





Why would you want to be with a guy that won't tell you if you're committed to each other or not, won't discuss your feelings, and continues to flirt with other women? Are you happy? If you're not happy, why would you want him?





Something it's taken me over forty years to learn is that REAL LOVE DOES NOT HURT YOU. If your relationship with this guy, whatever it is, is not making you happy and is hurting you, then no matter what you might think now, it's not love. You may love him, or think you do, but he does not love you.





Move on. There are better, handsomer, nicer, more considerate, interesting fish in the sea.
The next time you guys hang out. Ask him about it, tell him everything you wrote here, but don't sound as if you're blaming him for anything, cuz then he'll become defensive. Maybe he's just the flirting type of guy, but he doesn't sound like a bad guy cuz he tell everyone that he loves you. But then again, you gotta talk to him, cuz if a guy really liked a girl, he would want to spend more time with her.


And yes ur right about not acting like it doesn't bother u cuz then he'll think that u didn't like him as much as he thought u did.