I am really hurt I mean BAD and need some advice please help....?

Well I am 23 and have been in a relationship with this girl for three months and we are honestly in love. She is the first girl I have ever been able to trust untill today I dont know what to think. I stayed the night at her house lastnight and she left to go to work this morning I got on her computer and opened it up. I went to check my email and she was allready signed in. I know I should not have looked but I opened the trash bin and there was two emails of very x rated pics she sent to this guy like vibrator insertion pics and many more like that and they were all of her. She sent these three days ago. I was crushed and started dry heaving. How o I bring this up to her or should I even do it? I dont want her to know that I snooped but then again I am glad I saw that and do I trust her again? My guard is now up. Thanks for the help.I am really hurt I mean BAD and need some advice please help....?
dude your fine, it doesnt mean anything.........i got carried away online once when i had a gf and it didnt mean anything at all.I am really hurt I mean BAD and need some advice please help....?
im sorry that your heart is hurt ! i dont think you will trust her again and i feel that their is more to this , and that you will find out later ! for some reason you were meant to find those pictures of her, she is not being honest and it sounds like your a nice guy and she doesnt want to hurt you by telling you that it is over. you must be strong confront her with the pictures and leave.. trust me more is going on.
This is not good, I'd definitely speak to her about it and see what she says, i guess only you can decide what you really want to do, you need to work out if your love is strong enough to work this out. You've only been together for 3 months and she is sending pics like that to other guys?? That's not right. Speak to her and see if she's sorry or not, she can't say you shouldn't have looked at her emails because she shouldn't have sent those pics, I think she did worse. Maybe she doesn't feel the same as you and wanted you to find them to end the relationship? If she really didn't want them found she would not have left herself logged into her email
im sorry for your heartbreak. i know, firsthand, how much that hurts. ive went through a similar situation a few yrs ago. personally, i would bring it up to her and clear the air. most ppl would disagree but the insanity that runs through your mind is much worse than the confrontation you will have with your gf. trust is hard to rebuild after is broken, but it can be done. the question is, is it worth it to you? 3 months isnt a long time. you can cut your loses now and find someone better, or you can stay and pray she doesnt do it again. but it seems to me that she has issues. good luck on whatever you decide.
I'm sorry man that must really hurt. First I think you should confront her with the dilemma and not let her pass by without consequence. You should tell her that how dare she sent these pictures to someone else and ask her if there if there is someone else. Obviously there is someone, but I think from now on you will look her differently. You won't trust her the same as you did before, and I think that you should take some time off with her in order for you to think clearly about what you want to do. Now you know she isn't all that perfect, but its either you stay with her by forgiving her and having in your mind that she could do this again, or you can let her go and find someone new. You're still young man and you have a lot of time ahead of you. I would recommend you to leave her because if she really loved you she wouldn't of done what she did.
I think this is unacceptable! is youre relationship official??? if it is this is not right! were these pics to jst one guy? i cant really answer this question unless i know if they were to jst some guy she knows through the Internet or some who she actually knows and sees. Sometimes people chat to ppl on the net because they crave attention and do these thing because they dnt have to be embarrassed cos they this person doesn't know any1 they do and they dnt have to see them! even if it is this it is still not acceptable but maybe there is more of e reason other than she is a selfish slut!





this is something you should talk to her about though I know it looks bad that u looked at her mail but do not let her turn it around on you that u were snooping the point is that you found something very hurtful and you need an explanation! It will b hard for you to regain your trust if you do stay together! you have to decide what kind of person you you are if you carryin on this relationship and she apologizes and explains everything you HAVE to be able to forgive and forget otherwise the relationship will never work because you will constantly be paranoid!