I lost my dad& a bad brake up and bad Health news about my mom!(Please give me advice)

i was getting married in sept, well 2weks ago my fiance and i got into it over nothing big! and he broke up with me and said he needed time to think well the reason he is needing time to think is cause i messed up big last year i cheated on him which was so stupid(u Dont have to tel me) and i regret it so bad i lovethisboy with all my heart, well i gave him his space i didnt call him he would still call me up in till 3 days ago and he wouldn't call! but when he did call intill 3 days ago he would say he loved me everytime we hung up and i ask him if he was still in love and he said yes he just couldnt gfet me cheatin on him out of his mind(which i understand) well i found ut my mom had 5 years to live i called him to tell him yesteday (remember thats the first time for me to talk to him in 2 days) well i called him and told him on his vpice mail i needed to tell him my mom was real sick!HE NEVER Called so i called him the next day at work nd i told him about her and he kinda acted funny but i ask huim why he has not called me and he said he was still thinking about me and the other guy! well he got all mad cause he started talking about it and he told me to leave him the F'word alone!!? which he's told me before! and i really think he has bi polar it runs in his family! but im just wondering if yall think it will work? and if it does not work between me and him how can i deal with it im heart brokin? i lost my dad last year and now i loose my fiance which was my best friend and now i have bad new about my mom%26gt;%26gt;%26gt; I just want my baby back?! oh and he is the type of person that acts like he does not have the first feeling s he's pretty cold hearted! please just give me advice!%26gt; ? THANKS SO MUCH!I lost my dad%26amp; a bad brake up and bad Health news about my mom!(Please give me advice)
all i can say is pray. i dont mean to get religious on you or anybody but praying is probably the best thing you can do. Things will get better, maybe not right away but things WILL get betterI lost my dad%26amp; a bad brake up and bad Health news about my mom!(Please give me advice)
Well i think hes over reacting if you cheated on him A YEAR ago and just now hes getting pissed. I dont think hes rite 4 u if he is bein that mean and cold hearted. just ignore him, and see if he comes crawling back or just gets outta ur lyf.
well, sounds like he has anger problems. He is hurt and it doesnt take just a year to get over something like that for alot of people. Very rarely does a relationship that has gone through that work out. you have to forgive and forget. That was aweful what happened and you cant blame him for going crazy. Just give him time and let the dust settle. Your Mom was told 5 years, but she may live longer. take the time to spend with yuor mom. make a ritual with her. go get your nails done every saturday and go out for lunch. rent movies and pop some pop corn. Then in the mean time, your baby will be healing. Your killing two birds with one stone:) Love your mom and make memories with her. You will be so glad you did. Do you see whats happening? This is all happening for a reason....dont waste precious time sweety. the answer is right infront of you.
You need to be with someone who is there for you, not just when it is conveinent for him. If you both are committed to one another, you need to get couples counseling to cope with what you did last year. He clearly has been harbouring resentment, and it is now exploding out.





For now, I would stay away from this relationship, (unless he WANTS to work on it) focus on your mother's health and your relationship with her. He clearly does not want to be a part of your family right now, and you cannot force him to want to. He will be nothing but a distraction for you, and his presence does not sound like a positive one to have around right now.





Can it work out in the long run? Only you two can decide your fate together. But it will take a lot of hard work on both of your parts to do so. Continue to give him space, and focus on what is most important right now. Good Luck!
From my point of view, it seems like your chasing someone who probably isn't going to get over the cheating. Some people are just like that. You are NOT going to be able to be with everyone one you love. If he IS bi-polar, it would probably be best to let him go if he doesn't seek treatment.





I know that its hard to give up on someone you love and part of you will always love him but the most important thing is that you find someone who will love you for who you are, forgive you if you really ARE sorry and try to work on staying together.