I thought my life was going ok until today. I was being harrased by some of my best friends because of my weight. Even the one girl that a truely loved was laughing. I'm just sick of all the harrasment and ive even had a thought or two about suicide. I'm just so damn miserable right now. I need advice..please...I need advice im at a bad part of life.?
look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself there is nothing wrong with you. now do this every morning until it starts to sink in and drop the friends because friends like you for you. whether your fat, skinny, tall, short it shouldn't matter you need a new set of friends.I need advice im at a bad part of life.?
I wouldn't call those best friends Mitch.
Don't think negative about it Mitch. I'm a believer that everything happens for a reason. Committing suicide is the last of your options.
My weight is always up and down, usually down to what I eat. If I feel a little on the large side, then I attempt to lose a few pounds. It is easy to lose weight once you get into the routine of eating the good stuff, without starving yourself. It makes you feel much better and confident too. I used to have problems tieing my shoe laces because my belly was in the way. Now I don't have that problem. You have so much to gain for losing a little weight, go for it.
Here are the booklets I read when I wanted to lose weight. Look at the booklet links to the bottom of this page, they contain good, honest advice, without wanting to take money off you like so many diet schemes do.
http://www.bhf.org.uk/keeping_your_heart鈥?/a>
Best of luck! You'll be the envy of these so called friends in no time.
first of all dont ever let anyone bing you down. I know friend of mine and he killed himself. it hurts so many people. if these people are lauhging nd harrsing you then they are not friends and i wouldnt hang around them. just gotta keep telling yourself that you are better than this and try your best not to believe what others are saying.
So how do YOU feel about the way you look? Isn't that what really matters. It is rough when the people that you thought really cared about you make fun of you. And in a way, maybe it is their own stupid way of telling you to take care of yourself and drop some pounds. So tell them, instead of making fun of me, help me. That will show who your true friends are. There is never a good reason to end your life. Your soul is too precious for that. Those people are your friends because you bring some sort of happiness to their lives, I am sure they would miss you if you were gone.
Best friends would not harass you about your weight, they would accept you as you are no matter what. People can be very mean sometimes not realizing the impact that it has. I know it is hard and you are wishing that you didn't exist, but no matter what someone may call you or tease you about, you are better than that. If you are comfortable with your weight then forget what the others think. You are living your life for you not these so called friends. Your life is so much more valuable than being teased about your weight. It is not worth it. Your feelings were hurt, what you need to do is find another group of friends who do not judge on outer appearance so harshly. If you still find yourself having those thoughts you may need to seek professional help. I hope I helped.
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