i dont spoil my boyfriend, but i do write songs and sketch him things once in a while. hes so sweet, he buys me little gifts. nothing flashy, just something i would be comfortable wearing or having. like a cool necklace or aves. i made him a scrap book for his birthday, full of sketches, drawings, lyrics. the book was based on music and musicians.
somehow i feel like he deserves more.. im on a tight budget (im 15)
so i cant buy him anything really.
i always feel jelous when hes with other girls or i feel leftout when hes with his guy friends. i dont want to be that kind of girlfriend!! what can i do.. i dont show my jelousy much, and i deffinitely dont tell him i feel left out cause thats just needy. but i hate having this feeling inside of me.. helpI feel like a bad girlfriend..i need advice please?
You sound like a very good girlfriend. But if your so insecure about it ask him.I feel like a bad girlfriend..i need advice please?
The little personalized gifts you give him are not lame - they are perfect for any relationship, at any age, and on any budget.
And the jealous feelings and the feelings of being left out when he's with other people are normal, typical behaviors of a teenage female.
The part thats not normal, but really good? That you realize these feelings are unfounded.
You seem very mature, appreciative and giving. I hope your boyfriend realizes how lucky he is!
Good luck!
Tell him he is wonderful and then tell him why. Making someone feel really good and important is worth far more than money and gifts. In case being 15 this sounds lame to you think in these terms he can give you a necklace or in front of all the females he knows say this is my girl she's the greatest now would the first or second make you more happy.
hey im 14 my girlfriends 15 and u remind me so much of her shes amazing and although we've been fighting ik she still feels strongly for me as i feel for her u are nothing short of a perfect girlfriend just like my gf u care alot and thats somethng u dont find very offen dont worry he must love you and hes very lucky so am i
first off ur not a bad girlfriend and any guy would be happy to have a girlfriend like you and homemade gifts are better than store bought i would love to get sketch's or music for my b-day you sound really cool.
All you have to do is recognize that he has a life outside of you too.
Might not be easy at first, but you both need to have space outside of your relationship.
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YOU'RE 15???? dear god .
You need to get close friends, where you wont be to worried about your boyfriend all the time. have girls night out wear your girl- friends go out to the movies, mall, or someones house. if your having fun you won't be jealous. You should buy your boyfriend something nice once in while, not everything has to come from the heart and your boyfriend should make you something once in a while, because he is probably feeling the same way '; Ah, she always gives me something so meaningful'; you know ? Even if your on a fixed- income you should buy something that looks exspensive but isnt as a gift.
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