im female and i have a girlfriend, and i love to please her sexually day and night, i love to hear her sexually. icant get enough of her in that matter so its all good, it turns me on for her to be a little controlling towards me, anyway she had a business trip and i went with her, i dont work , she doesnt want me too. anyway we had a fight one morning of the trip. and when she went to work , i went to the bar and just started drinking and this woman started flirting with me and one thing led to another but i did not go down on her, and i feel so bad because my woman is out making us money and look what i did,, i cant loose my woman, i am infatuated with her, i mean in love. and i cant tell her, that other woman did not mean a thing to me, i just had to much to drink and look what happened,, my girlfriend would never find out. but i dont want to take the chance of another big fight and loosing her, but i feel guilt, i love her so much, it was just the alcohol.. but would she understand that, i dont think so. what would you do iff you were her or me,, man i messed upI need some advice, i messed up bad?
You did wrong. You need to confess and take the consequences.I need some advice, i messed up bad?
Well, I would stop going to bars and getting so drunk that you cheat on your gf. Buy her something nice that she would like and tell her how much you love her. That will help to clear your conscience. Resolve to never let it happen again. I would not tell your gf about it if I were you. I would be mad if I found out my gf cuddled with someone else.
own up to it. Tell her that after the fight you felt bad and went to a bar and met someone. Tell her what you did. Things will be rough for awhile, but it could still turn around.
Don't tell her.
No matter how many other people here are telling you to face the consequences, don't.
If you tell her, she will leave you and that'll be the end of that. So how will that help you?
I DONT GET WHEN PPL SAY ALCOHOL CAN ';MAKE'; PPL DO SOMETHING,
you need to tell her and assure her that no amount of alcohol could make you do that again
Friday, November 25, 2011
I need advice bad?
I was drinking the other night and um... my boyfriend left for a while and i was with his best friend and we were talking about how hot each other were and he says i told him i think about him when me and my boyfriend fight (i dont remember that tho) so i told my bf and hes acting all weird.I really love him alot though and i dont want us to break up. what else can i do to show him that i love him and im sorry? PLEASE HELP!!!!!I need advice bad?
Make him feel secure
Make him feel secure
OK so I screwed up an ancient artifact due to bad advice I paid for how do I stop this company?
they are selling kits with ancient artifacts on how to clean them but the fact is it turns out your NEVER suppost to clean artifactsOK so I screwed up an ancient artifact due to bad advice I paid for how do I stop this company?
Just get your knowledge out there. Post and talk about to whoever is willing to listen. You can't sue them, it's your own fault for doing it, you should look into things before you do them.OK so I screwed up an ancient artifact due to bad advice I paid for how do I stop this company?
all you can do is spread bad press, and alert the better business bureau
sue them
Complain to the company owner, and i guess start awarness and spread the word?
Just get your knowledge out there. Post and talk about to whoever is willing to listen. You can't sue them, it's your own fault for doing it, you should look into things before you do them.OK so I screwed up an ancient artifact due to bad advice I paid for how do I stop this company?
all you can do is spread bad press, and alert the better business bureau
sue them
Complain to the company owner, and i guess start awarness and spread the word?
Please give me advice...My friend has bad hygeine?
My friend has bad hygeine.....?
She always seems to have stinky breath and i dont think she showers much becasuse her hair is greasy.
I love her cause she one of my closest friends and would never dream of huting her feelings so i dont know what to do about it. We were at a sleepover and she didnt wash her face or anything so all our friends think she has really bad hygeine. Im not making a big deal of it , its gone on for ages now and its just little things like at school she doesnt wash her hands sometimes.
Its embarasin for me becasue sometimes she smells and people could think its me. Also some of our friends invite me somewhere and leave her out and i dont know what to say to her about it . AND my best friend doesnt like her becasue of it so im in the middle all the time.
Does anyone know what i can do , its a big problem now and i dont want to just come out and tell her , because it would make her feel bad.Please give me advice...My friend has bad hygeine?
I had the same exact problem, and didn't know what to do either.
I told my mom about it and she took me to the dollar store, we got a cute basket and filled it with all kinds of soaps, shampoos, and girly things like brushes, hair scrunchies, and lotions. This is a nice inexpensive way of dealing with the problem. If you put other items in the basket, like lotions etc, you're not being rude and flat out saying HEY GIRL YOU STINK.
I guarantee she'll love it, just tell her its a gift for being such a great friend :)
My friend loved her little goody basket, and she actually used everything.
I hope this helps, don't listen to what everyone else is saying, I don't think you should tell her she needs to take a shower. She might get offended. Take the nicer route.
Good Luck! :)Please give me advice...My friend has bad hygeine?
give her some new soaps like from bath and body that smell really good. and maybe some hand sanitizer and say its a gift for being an awesome friend. Also next time you have a sleepover say ';lets go brush out teeth';, right b4 bed and stuff like that so she has to clean herself too. Also say stuff like ';should i take a shower FIRST or should u';, that implies she also will be taking a shower :D
hope i helped
Maybe you could give her a gum or mint and tell her it taste good. Then tell her if she wants to have pool party with only you. ( add a bit of good smelling soap in in) and see if it is just because she doesn't clean up or it's just the way she would regularly smell. Talk to her and tell her. That is anther way to solve this. Be truthful and she will understand. Good LUCk
it is a tough subject but in a way u do need to take her aside in priv so u wont embarrase her and say i relly love u but can u try to clean a bit more cos ppl are noticing and i dont want u embarrased because of it.
im sure u can think a better way of saying it. she will thank u for it. i would b glad som1 telling me outstraight. its like coming out of loo with tolilet paper stuck to u, wouldnt u want to b told? lol
gl
offer her a piece of gum or a mint and say its really good she has to try it.
then for the shower say like i wanna do your hair sometime and then maybe she will like it and want to actually do it herself because she looked pretty
a good friend is one that tells the truth however bad-say that to her and see how she reacts- if she agrees then tell her the truth
Go and have a talk with her. By not letting her to know about her flaws, you are indirectly harming her....
So its better that you tell her about this........
A good friend should sit her down and tell her what u observe in her, maybe she would be happy when u tell her ur problem about her body.
Say something like ';im gonna take a shower before we leave... you want in before me or after?'; it kinda puts some pressure on her so that she feels like she really shouldn't refuse but it also makes it seem like your not commenting on her icky hair. You could also tell her that's shes gotta take a shower to check out this totally amazing shampoo that you just got and that it works great and makes your hair so soft. Try the same thing with face wash and soap and maybe hand sanitizer.
I think you should invite her over for some ';pampering'; and then give her some soaps and stuff to wash her face with and give her a facial and teach her how to use it and explain why it's good to use it. She probably doesn't know what to use as far as her skin care goes, or how to use it. She probably just needs help.
And then try to encourage her by giving her tips on other products she should try, like a body wash that makes your skin smooth, and a good shampoo, etc.
Then afterward, follow up with asking her how she liked them, etc.
I think if you call it ';pampering'; instead of ';me teaching you how to not stink'; it will go over well. haha
Good luck!!!
You say you are her friend? Friends help each other. There is no ';easy way'; to tell someone they need to use better hygiene, so just tell her she needs to wash her body and clean her mouth. Most people cannot smell their own bad breath so it is possible she does not know she is offending others. As she matures into adulthood her body will start to produce various odors that can offend other people. She needs to understand that she needs to attend to such things as she matures. A friend will help a friend.
Bad breath is caused by bacteria in the mouth, especially on the tongue and especially on the back one-third of the tongue. This material must be removed to cure bad breath. Mints and gum will cover up bad breath for a short time but they will not cure bad breath because they do nothing about the bacteria on the tongue. I use OraBrush tongue cleaner because it is the best tongue cleaner. My wife tells me I have kissing sweet breath.
Sit her down and talk to her. Tell her you are not trying to be mean but you don't like what other people are saying about her and tell her. Maybe she wasn't taught how to keep her body clean as you have. show her some of the things you use to smell good and maybe she'll want to clean herself up better. Or you can buy her a gift set of good smelling stuff and give it to her when you tell her. I think she rather hear it from you, her friend, than someone else teasing her about it.make up
She always seems to have stinky breath and i dont think she showers much becasuse her hair is greasy.
I love her cause she one of my closest friends and would never dream of huting her feelings so i dont know what to do about it. We were at a sleepover and she didnt wash her face or anything so all our friends think she has really bad hygeine. Im not making a big deal of it , its gone on for ages now and its just little things like at school she doesnt wash her hands sometimes.
Its embarasin for me becasue sometimes she smells and people could think its me. Also some of our friends invite me somewhere and leave her out and i dont know what to say to her about it . AND my best friend doesnt like her becasue of it so im in the middle all the time.
Does anyone know what i can do , its a big problem now and i dont want to just come out and tell her , because it would make her feel bad.Please give me advice...My friend has bad hygeine?
I had the same exact problem, and didn't know what to do either.
I told my mom about it and she took me to the dollar store, we got a cute basket and filled it with all kinds of soaps, shampoos, and girly things like brushes, hair scrunchies, and lotions. This is a nice inexpensive way of dealing with the problem. If you put other items in the basket, like lotions etc, you're not being rude and flat out saying HEY GIRL YOU STINK.
I guarantee she'll love it, just tell her its a gift for being such a great friend :)
My friend loved her little goody basket, and she actually used everything.
I hope this helps, don't listen to what everyone else is saying, I don't think you should tell her she needs to take a shower. She might get offended. Take the nicer route.
Good Luck! :)Please give me advice...My friend has bad hygeine?
give her some new soaps like from bath and body that smell really good. and maybe some hand sanitizer and say its a gift for being an awesome friend. Also next time you have a sleepover say ';lets go brush out teeth';, right b4 bed and stuff like that so she has to clean herself too. Also say stuff like ';should i take a shower FIRST or should u';, that implies she also will be taking a shower :D
hope i helped
Maybe you could give her a gum or mint and tell her it taste good. Then tell her if she wants to have pool party with only you. ( add a bit of good smelling soap in in) and see if it is just because she doesn't clean up or it's just the way she would regularly smell. Talk to her and tell her. That is anther way to solve this. Be truthful and she will understand. Good LUCk
it is a tough subject but in a way u do need to take her aside in priv so u wont embarrase her and say i relly love u but can u try to clean a bit more cos ppl are noticing and i dont want u embarrased because of it.
im sure u can think a better way of saying it. she will thank u for it. i would b glad som1 telling me outstraight. its like coming out of loo with tolilet paper stuck to u, wouldnt u want to b told? lol
gl
offer her a piece of gum or a mint and say its really good she has to try it.
then for the shower say like i wanna do your hair sometime and then maybe she will like it and want to actually do it herself because she looked pretty
a good friend is one that tells the truth however bad-say that to her and see how she reacts- if she agrees then tell her the truth
Go and have a talk with her. By not letting her to know about her flaws, you are indirectly harming her....
So its better that you tell her about this........
A good friend should sit her down and tell her what u observe in her, maybe she would be happy when u tell her ur problem about her body.
Say something like ';im gonna take a shower before we leave... you want in before me or after?'; it kinda puts some pressure on her so that she feels like she really shouldn't refuse but it also makes it seem like your not commenting on her icky hair. You could also tell her that's shes gotta take a shower to check out this totally amazing shampoo that you just got and that it works great and makes your hair so soft. Try the same thing with face wash and soap and maybe hand sanitizer.
I think you should invite her over for some ';pampering'; and then give her some soaps and stuff to wash her face with and give her a facial and teach her how to use it and explain why it's good to use it. She probably doesn't know what to use as far as her skin care goes, or how to use it. She probably just needs help.
And then try to encourage her by giving her tips on other products she should try, like a body wash that makes your skin smooth, and a good shampoo, etc.
Then afterward, follow up with asking her how she liked them, etc.
I think if you call it ';pampering'; instead of ';me teaching you how to not stink'; it will go over well. haha
Good luck!!!
You say you are her friend? Friends help each other. There is no ';easy way'; to tell someone they need to use better hygiene, so just tell her she needs to wash her body and clean her mouth. Most people cannot smell their own bad breath so it is possible she does not know she is offending others. As she matures into adulthood her body will start to produce various odors that can offend other people. She needs to understand that she needs to attend to such things as she matures. A friend will help a friend.
Bad breath is caused by bacteria in the mouth, especially on the tongue and especially on the back one-third of the tongue. This material must be removed to cure bad breath. Mints and gum will cover up bad breath for a short time but they will not cure bad breath because they do nothing about the bacteria on the tongue. I use OraBrush tongue cleaner because it is the best tongue cleaner. My wife tells me I have kissing sweet breath.
Sit her down and talk to her. Tell her you are not trying to be mean but you don't like what other people are saying about her and tell her. Maybe she wasn't taught how to keep her body clean as you have. show her some of the things you use to smell good and maybe she'll want to clean herself up better. Or you can buy her a gift set of good smelling stuff and give it to her when you tell her. I think she rather hear it from you, her friend, than someone else teasing her about it.
I need some advice or help really bad?
ok im gona say everything all at once
i want love, i want someone to love, i want to be loved by someone,but i cant find love. also have you ever wanted to cry realy bad but you just cant?? thats how i have been feeling for quite a while now. i felt like all of this about say a year ago, but also thats when i had a big crush and they didnt love me back like that... anyways i got over it later on. now all these feelings have come back to me and there is noone i have a crush on or love like that, im just looking for it, and i want to cry but i cant. and also im having trouble knowing if im bi or a lesbian (i already posted a question about that but i dont think i even want to kiss a guy now). anyways ive just been realy confused lately and i dont know what to do, or who to turn to for help and advice. please someone help me this is all driving me crazy!!I need some advice or help really bad?
Love can find you my friend, please never give up the search in looking for your partner.
Keep looking and keep believing there is a time when i used to feel exactly as you feel now, but stay strong and hold on ....
You're going to find your future, it just takes a little time.
Have faith in destiny, i wish you all the very best for the future.I need some advice or help really bad?
I think your Bi. Second stop looking for love and let love happen. If you look for it, it might not come out. I find that when you stop looking for love, it finds you. You will find love all in due time. But for now look for better work or do better in school for your self and let love find you. It might be there and you are not even seeing it. Good luck and I'm sure love will come your way.
INTERNET DATING! or just settle for anyone
i'm well up for some love ;)
i want love, i want someone to love, i want to be loved by someone,but i cant find love. also have you ever wanted to cry realy bad but you just cant?? thats how i have been feeling for quite a while now. i felt like all of this about say a year ago, but also thats when i had a big crush and they didnt love me back like that... anyways i got over it later on. now all these feelings have come back to me and there is noone i have a crush on or love like that, im just looking for it, and i want to cry but i cant. and also im having trouble knowing if im bi or a lesbian (i already posted a question about that but i dont think i even want to kiss a guy now). anyways ive just been realy confused lately and i dont know what to do, or who to turn to for help and advice. please someone help me this is all driving me crazy!!I need some advice or help really bad?
Love can find you my friend, please never give up the search in looking for your partner.
Keep looking and keep believing there is a time when i used to feel exactly as you feel now, but stay strong and hold on ....
You're going to find your future, it just takes a little time.
Have faith in destiny, i wish you all the very best for the future.I need some advice or help really bad?
I think your Bi. Second stop looking for love and let love happen. If you look for it, it might not come out. I find that when you stop looking for love, it finds you. You will find love all in due time. But for now look for better work or do better in school for your self and let love find you. It might be there and you are not even seeing it. Good luck and I'm sure love will come your way.
INTERNET DATING! or just settle for anyone
i'm well up for some love ;)
Need some friend advice...am I a bad person because I feel like this? (read details!)?
So I lived with three of my friends last year. We all shared an apartment on-campus. Before then I was really looking forward to it and thinking how much fun it was going to be.
First few months were great...just like the old times.
I would say by Winter break...things got different:
One friend became more of a *****bag as time went on. Not particularly towards me but in general. He was the guy who made those jokes that seemed dangerously close to crossing the line. I never knew he was THAT bad before I started living with him.
Another friend hung out with previously-mentioned friend a lot more and slowly also changed. This one was more of one day of being a jerk to next day being a great friend. With this one if I said something...stupid (who doesn't), he would literally put me down for saying it. I never felt anymore dumber. Then the next day it would be like if we were best friends again.
Finally, this friend was one friend who helped me get through some tough times. Same thing applies like the other two, but I could not classify him as an ***hole, he wasn't as big of a jerk as the other two. But the thing is... he was all about ';talk to me if you have any problems';. Which is fine...but he made it really awkward to talk to him. I mean he was dead silent in the room (but would go out and be his normal self) and would give me a weird look if I asked him how his day was or anything. I could never tell if he was mad at me, or something was wrong...nothing!
So as I hope you can see, the saying ';You don't know someone until you live with them'; certainly applies here. I use to enjoy just hanging out with them. It was fun, we all had good times. Living with them only brought out their bad sides.
Quite frankly I wouldn't want to live with them again, but I don't feel it necessary to break the friendship. I feel more as if I just need a break from them...which is what I am doing. I have big plans for July and I feel stuff like that will in essence...rejuvinate me lol.
This year I will be living in a house off-campus with 4 strangers. In a way I am looking forward to it, since it's a change.
Am I a bad person for feeling this way?
(Yes I know no one is perfect, hence the hesitation to break the friendships for good)Need some friend advice...am I a bad person because I feel like this? (read details!)?
You have made very mature decisions. Don't feel bad just make the relationship with ';the boys'; how you want it. You're doing just that so GOOD JOB!
First few months were great...just like the old times.
I would say by Winter break...things got different:
One friend became more of a *****bag as time went on. Not particularly towards me but in general. He was the guy who made those jokes that seemed dangerously close to crossing the line. I never knew he was THAT bad before I started living with him.
Another friend hung out with previously-mentioned friend a lot more and slowly also changed. This one was more of one day of being a jerk to next day being a great friend. With this one if I said something...stupid (who doesn't), he would literally put me down for saying it. I never felt anymore dumber. Then the next day it would be like if we were best friends again.
Finally, this friend was one friend who helped me get through some tough times. Same thing applies like the other two, but I could not classify him as an ***hole, he wasn't as big of a jerk as the other two. But the thing is... he was all about ';talk to me if you have any problems';. Which is fine...but he made it really awkward to talk to him. I mean he was dead silent in the room (but would go out and be his normal self) and would give me a weird look if I asked him how his day was or anything. I could never tell if he was mad at me, or something was wrong...nothing!
So as I hope you can see, the saying ';You don't know someone until you live with them'; certainly applies here. I use to enjoy just hanging out with them. It was fun, we all had good times. Living with them only brought out their bad sides.
Quite frankly I wouldn't want to live with them again, but I don't feel it necessary to break the friendship. I feel more as if I just need a break from them...which is what I am doing. I have big plans for July and I feel stuff like that will in essence...rejuvinate me lol.
This year I will be living in a house off-campus with 4 strangers. In a way I am looking forward to it, since it's a change.
Am I a bad person for feeling this way?
(Yes I know no one is perfect, hence the hesitation to break the friendships for good)Need some friend advice...am I a bad person because I feel like this? (read details!)?
You have made very mature decisions. Don't feel bad just make the relationship with ';the boys'; how you want it. You're doing just that so GOOD JOB!
I need some advice on a very bad behaved & disturbed child?
My housemate has a 7 yo boy who has the worst behaviour I have ever seen in a child. Everybody does notice that he behaves very well with me and shows a lot of respect towards me as he doesn't swear at me like he does his father %26amp; fathers friends and he also chucks terrible tantrums when he doesn't get his own way. This is very distressing to me as his father does not deal with it very well, his swearing is his fathers fault as he swears directly at him which I've asked him to stop %26amp; he has improved unlike his son. So when the boy throws his tantrum he screams %26amp; yells %26amp; kicks %26amp; swears %26amp; throws things and gets so angry %26amp; worked up he almost busts. A couple times I've calmed him down, by being calm myself %26amp; asking him what he wants me to do and eventually he calms down unlike when his father yells at him to shut up %26amp; stop being stupid, this does nothing but make him angrier. Recently I could not stop his tantrum, he knocked his knee which made it bleed and he screamed %26amp; screamed %26amp; hit his dad %26amp; told him to get out. I went into his room to ask if he was ok %26amp; he threw lollies at me %26amp; told me to get out, he was yelling so hard he looked like he was going to pop his eyeball out, its very distressing to see a young boy do this to himself, i just want to help him. Also I've noticed he does not deal with pain very well %26amp; freaks out if somebody hurts themselves and when you tell him to come here you want to show him something he always asks ';is it gonna hurt';. What is the best way to handle this I feel walking away when he throws a tantrum is not achieving anything but I know this behaviour needs to be ignored. Please keep in mind his father has him every weekend Friday after school until Sunday late afternoon where he then goes back to his mothers. He sleeps in the same bed with his father (queen bed), he is allowed to watch war movies like platoon and scary movies like blade, his toys all consist of weapons like guns %26amp; swords (plastic) %26amp; his games consist of being in the war %26amp; I wont even get into the terrible racist talk that comes out of his mouth. I have grown close to this boy %26amp; I know he trusts me, I feel so sorry for him because his father can only show his love through buying him toys all the time %26amp; not good toys he lives in front of his playstation all weekend playing war games %26amp; yes i know it just keeps getting worst. Any advise on how to deal with this %26amp; what you think I should do would be much appreciated. one last thing i forgot to mention, one night when i asked his father to just leave me with him (he was throwing a tantrum %26amp; his father tends to make the situation worst) when he calmed down out of the blue very unexpected he asked me ';why do I do that, why do I get so angry, i dont want to be like that';, it broke my heart but made me realise it is definitely a serious problem %26amp; i'm worried he may need professional help if it's something he cant control. Last this I want to also point out, he is also afraid of the dark %26amp; his father always leaves the light on outside the bedroom for him because if he assumes he is asleep %26amp; he turns the light out, he will scream %26amp; scream until there is light. I need some advice on a very bad behaved %26amp; disturbed child?
DAMN...
WELL I THINK U SHOULD SET UP SUM FUN RULES MY MOM CALLS THEM EX: EVERYTIME HE DOES SUMTHIN GOOD HE GETS A STAR AND IF HE DOES SUMTHIN BAD TAKE ONE AWAY... ITS BEST TO TRY AND KEEP HIM BUSY LIKE COLORING WATCHIN MOVIES OR JUS PLAYIN FUN GAMES..
THE DAD SHOULD TRY TO STOP THE SWEARIN AROUND HIM... IT MIGHT BE HARD AT FIRST BUT IF U EXPLAIN TO HIM THAT HE REPECTS WHAT HE HEAR THEN IT MIGHT HELP... ALSO IF HE DOES SUMTHIN BAD TRY TIMEOUT FOR 7-10MINS..
MAKE FUN SNACKS WITH HIM HE MIGHT LIKE THAT... AND AS FAR AS THE DARK THING GOES IT BEST TO GET LIKE 2 OR 3 NITE LIGHTS FOR HE'S ROOM...
TRY TALKING TO HIS FATHER ABOUT BUYIN SO MANY THINGS IF HIS DAD SPEND MORE TIME DOIN THINGS WITH HIM HE WILL SAVE MONEY..
IT GOOD THAT HE TRUST YOU BECAUSE IT SHOULD BE MUCH EASIER TO TRY THESE THINGS...
HOPED I HELPI need some advice on a very bad behaved %26amp; disturbed child?
Take him to a psychiatrist. He may be suffering from a mood disorder(Bipolar). Have him evaluated.
this kid needs to see a therapist, thats all i have to say. your doing a great job but honestly i think only a professional can solve this problem
There is nothing you can do unless you can get new parents for the kid. Where is the mother? What is she doing to help?
The kid needs STRONG discipline (which can't come from you because you're not authorized to make rules and enforce them) and he also needs STRUCTURE where he knows what will happen at what time. He needs CONSISTENCY and parents who work together to make RULES and ENFORCE them as a united front.
This kid sounds like he is going to grow up with very little self discipline, very little coping skills, and once puberty hits and hormones come, he will be ill equiped to delay gratification and do the things he should, like focus on studies and say no to temptations, etc. Drugs may be a problem too. This kid needs to be consistently disciplined NOW before it gets so bad that he is taken to a psychiatrist, gets put on meds, and gets used to external chemicals in order to function. Sad start, I see a lot of kids like this, and 95% of the time it's the parents being selfish and focusing on themselves instead of the best interest of the child. Bringing up children is HARD and it takes sacrifice from the parents and consistent discipline... kids will be wild otherwise if there is no strong force that is more powerful.
The problem is his daddy. This boy needs more attention and love from him. Tantrums are the ultimate attention seeker and if they only happened occasionally, telling him to be quiet and go to his room is fine, but if it is every weekend, then dad needs to start spending time with his son. Special events, reading to him, and playing with all those toys together. I think that will get to the root of his problem. I do not think that the movies and toys are affecting him nearly as much as being ignored by his father.
Being afraid of the dark is somewhat common. A nightlight in the room on the kids side of the bed should solve the screaming issue.
this all happens because the father allows it. As the non parent there is not a whole lot you can do. As he is well behaved with you it shows he can control himself. He knows he can get away with his bad behaviour , so does. Ignore the tantrums, walk away and pay no attention.
The child probably does NOT need a therapist because he CAN and DOES control himself when he is with you.
What the boy needs is consistent discipline and two parents who are setting good examples for him. He needs the violence taken out of his world: We do what we see done. We say what we hear spoken. (There's no big mystery about that. Think of how a baby learns to do things.)
As far as his being afraid of the dark, it's quite understandable, considering what he is seeing on TV, videos, etc. And it is not unusual for a child that age to be afraid of the dark anyway. Leaving the light on will not hurt anything.
I applaud you for your concern and assistance to him. Unfortunately, there is little more you can do, except what you are and have been doing already. But there is a chance if you can stay close to him until he is around 8 or 9 years old--that's about when a boy can start thinking abstractly--that you can encourage him to be a gentleman. Use a gentlemanly 'hero' of some kind that he admires--if you can find one.
God bless you for caring what happens to him. He surely needs someone who cares what kind of man he grows up to be. Oh, and pray for him. It really does change things. Just try it and see.
Good luck.
if he has the ability to calm down with you and behave differently with you then it shows that he is choosing to behave badly with his parents. however the problem comes in when his parents are not using strategies to help. the only thing that will help this child is to change the environment with his parents.
they all need counseling in order to learn how to deal with him and themselves. I really believe this child can control most of his behaviors but the parents are letting it escalate and not only that but it seems like they turn the other way and when it gets out control they get angry and it escalates even further from there.
yep, they all need help for this to change but your desire to help is courageous.
I think the behavior of his father could have done damage to his mind. You should try to get complete custody of him, because his question of ';is it going to hurt?'; suggests that his father may have been abusing him. It seems that his father is not fit to have control of this child even for a weekend.
The problem isn't the fault of the child. Obviously the child's father obviously has never disciplined the child other than scream and yell and shout obscenities at the boy. A child's most important teachers of their lives are their parents and the child is simply behaving in a manner that he was taught. And obviously this child's father has no desire to change his ways so the child isn't going to change. You need to talk to the father and get him to STOP enabling the problem, otherwise this will just escalate and considering that you are of no relation to the boy you really have no right disciplining him anyway. (You are not a parent of this child or even step parent you are as you said simply a Housemate of his father's)
Sounds like the father is the problem, The child may also have some issues such as bipolar his actions may also be for attention even if it is negative attention. It's evident that the father doesn't do much with him but, it sounds like you don't have to much trouble calming him down. I wonder how he is at home with his mother as far as the lights go most kids are scared of the dark. Is this someone that you are with or is it a roommate. If you are with this guy I think you need to get away from him you might want to consider talking to someone in social services confidential of course they don't even have to know whom you are talking about, I'm sure they could steer you in the right direction and give you some good advice on the situation After all it sounds like you have this boys best interest at heart. Good Luck
DAMN...
WELL I THINK U SHOULD SET UP SUM FUN RULES MY MOM CALLS THEM EX: EVERYTIME HE DOES SUMTHIN GOOD HE GETS A STAR AND IF HE DOES SUMTHIN BAD TAKE ONE AWAY... ITS BEST TO TRY AND KEEP HIM BUSY LIKE COLORING WATCHIN MOVIES OR JUS PLAYIN FUN GAMES..
THE DAD SHOULD TRY TO STOP THE SWEARIN AROUND HIM... IT MIGHT BE HARD AT FIRST BUT IF U EXPLAIN TO HIM THAT HE REPECTS WHAT HE HEAR THEN IT MIGHT HELP... ALSO IF HE DOES SUMTHIN BAD TRY TIMEOUT FOR 7-10MINS..
MAKE FUN SNACKS WITH HIM HE MIGHT LIKE THAT... AND AS FAR AS THE DARK THING GOES IT BEST TO GET LIKE 2 OR 3 NITE LIGHTS FOR HE'S ROOM...
TRY TALKING TO HIS FATHER ABOUT BUYIN SO MANY THINGS IF HIS DAD SPEND MORE TIME DOIN THINGS WITH HIM HE WILL SAVE MONEY..
IT GOOD THAT HE TRUST YOU BECAUSE IT SHOULD BE MUCH EASIER TO TRY THESE THINGS...
HOPED I HELPI need some advice on a very bad behaved %26amp; disturbed child?
Take him to a psychiatrist. He may be suffering from a mood disorder(Bipolar). Have him evaluated.
this kid needs to see a therapist, thats all i have to say. your doing a great job but honestly i think only a professional can solve this problem
There is nothing you can do unless you can get new parents for the kid. Where is the mother? What is she doing to help?
The kid needs STRONG discipline (which can't come from you because you're not authorized to make rules and enforce them) and he also needs STRUCTURE where he knows what will happen at what time. He needs CONSISTENCY and parents who work together to make RULES and ENFORCE them as a united front.
This kid sounds like he is going to grow up with very little self discipline, very little coping skills, and once puberty hits and hormones come, he will be ill equiped to delay gratification and do the things he should, like focus on studies and say no to temptations, etc. Drugs may be a problem too. This kid needs to be consistently disciplined NOW before it gets so bad that he is taken to a psychiatrist, gets put on meds, and gets used to external chemicals in order to function. Sad start, I see a lot of kids like this, and 95% of the time it's the parents being selfish and focusing on themselves instead of the best interest of the child. Bringing up children is HARD and it takes sacrifice from the parents and consistent discipline... kids will be wild otherwise if there is no strong force that is more powerful.
The problem is his daddy. This boy needs more attention and love from him. Tantrums are the ultimate attention seeker and if they only happened occasionally, telling him to be quiet and go to his room is fine, but if it is every weekend, then dad needs to start spending time with his son. Special events, reading to him, and playing with all those toys together. I think that will get to the root of his problem. I do not think that the movies and toys are affecting him nearly as much as being ignored by his father.
Being afraid of the dark is somewhat common. A nightlight in the room on the kids side of the bed should solve the screaming issue.
this all happens because the father allows it. As the non parent there is not a whole lot you can do. As he is well behaved with you it shows he can control himself. He knows he can get away with his bad behaviour , so does. Ignore the tantrums, walk away and pay no attention.
The child probably does NOT need a therapist because he CAN and DOES control himself when he is with you.
What the boy needs is consistent discipline and two parents who are setting good examples for him. He needs the violence taken out of his world: We do what we see done. We say what we hear spoken. (There's no big mystery about that. Think of how a baby learns to do things.)
As far as his being afraid of the dark, it's quite understandable, considering what he is seeing on TV, videos, etc. And it is not unusual for a child that age to be afraid of the dark anyway. Leaving the light on will not hurt anything.
I applaud you for your concern and assistance to him. Unfortunately, there is little more you can do, except what you are and have been doing already. But there is a chance if you can stay close to him until he is around 8 or 9 years old--that's about when a boy can start thinking abstractly--that you can encourage him to be a gentleman. Use a gentlemanly 'hero' of some kind that he admires--if you can find one.
God bless you for caring what happens to him. He surely needs someone who cares what kind of man he grows up to be. Oh, and pray for him. It really does change things. Just try it and see.
Good luck.
if he has the ability to calm down with you and behave differently with you then it shows that he is choosing to behave badly with his parents. however the problem comes in when his parents are not using strategies to help. the only thing that will help this child is to change the environment with his parents.
they all need counseling in order to learn how to deal with him and themselves. I really believe this child can control most of his behaviors but the parents are letting it escalate and not only that but it seems like they turn the other way and when it gets out control they get angry and it escalates even further from there.
yep, they all need help for this to change but your desire to help is courageous.
I think the behavior of his father could have done damage to his mind. You should try to get complete custody of him, because his question of ';is it going to hurt?'; suggests that his father may have been abusing him. It seems that his father is not fit to have control of this child even for a weekend.
The problem isn't the fault of the child. Obviously the child's father obviously has never disciplined the child other than scream and yell and shout obscenities at the boy. A child's most important teachers of their lives are their parents and the child is simply behaving in a manner that he was taught. And obviously this child's father has no desire to change his ways so the child isn't going to change. You need to talk to the father and get him to STOP enabling the problem, otherwise this will just escalate and considering that you are of no relation to the boy you really have no right disciplining him anyway. (You are not a parent of this child or even step parent you are as you said simply a Housemate of his father's)
Sounds like the father is the problem, The child may also have some issues such as bipolar his actions may also be for attention even if it is negative attention. It's evident that the father doesn't do much with him but, it sounds like you don't have to much trouble calming him down. I wonder how he is at home with his mother as far as the lights go most kids are scared of the dark. Is this someone that you are with or is it a roommate. If you are with this guy I think you need to get away from him you might want to consider talking to someone in social services confidential of course they don't even have to know whom you are talking about, I'm sure they could steer you in the right direction and give you some good advice on the situation After all it sounds like you have this boys best interest at heart. Good Luck
I need some advice, i messed up bad?
im female and i have a girlfriend, and i love to please her sexually day and night, i love to hear her sexually. icant get enough of her in that matter so its all good, it turns me on for her to be a little controlling towards me, anyway she had a business trip and i went with her, i dont work , she doesnt want me too. anyway we had a fight one morning of the trip. and when she went to work , i went to the bar and just started drinking and this woman started flirting with me and one thing led to another but i did not go down on her, and i feel so bad because my woman is out making us money and look what i did,, i cant loose my woman, i am infatuated with her, i mean in love. and i cant tell her, that other woman did not mean a thing to me, i just had to much to drink and look what happened,, my girlfriend would never find out. but i dont want to take the chance of another big fight and loosing her, but i feel guilt, i love her so much, it was just the alcohol.. but would she understand that, i dont think so. what would you do iff you were her or me,, man i messed upI need some advice, i messed up bad?
You did wrong. You need to confess and take the consequences.I need some advice, i messed up bad?
Well, I would stop going to bars and getting so drunk that you cheat on your gf. Buy her something nice that she would like and tell her how much you love her. That will help to clear your conscience. Resolve to never let it happen again. I would not tell your gf about it if I were you. I would be mad if I found out my gf cuddled with someone else.
own up to it. Tell her that after the fight you felt bad and went to a bar and met someone. Tell her what you did. Things will be rough for awhile, but it could still turn around.
Don't tell her.
No matter how many other people here are telling you to face the consequences, don't.
If you tell her, she will leave you and that'll be the end of that. So how will that help you?
I DONT GET WHEN PPL SAY ALCOHOL CAN ';MAKE'; PPL DO SOMETHING,
you need to tell her and assure her that no amount of alcohol could make you do that again
You did wrong. You need to confess and take the consequences.I need some advice, i messed up bad?
Well, I would stop going to bars and getting so drunk that you cheat on your gf. Buy her something nice that she would like and tell her how much you love her. That will help to clear your conscience. Resolve to never let it happen again. I would not tell your gf about it if I were you. I would be mad if I found out my gf cuddled with someone else.
own up to it. Tell her that after the fight you felt bad and went to a bar and met someone. Tell her what you did. Things will be rough for awhile, but it could still turn around.
Don't tell her.
No matter how many other people here are telling you to face the consequences, don't.
If you tell her, she will leave you and that'll be the end of that. So how will that help you?
I DONT GET WHEN PPL SAY ALCOHOL CAN ';MAKE'; PPL DO SOMETHING,
you need to tell her and assure her that no amount of alcohol could make you do that again
I sweat really bad in my armpits help. please give advice.?
i mean its not like it smells but i sweat alot and its gross. and now my wordrob is mainly white and black cause you cant really see the sweat.
and its not like im doing any thing ill just bee in class writing or something and start to sweat and im not even hot. and im not nervous eather .
what should i do?
any products give advice.I sweat really bad in my armpits help. please give advice.?
I agree with the clinical strength. I just read in a magazine yesterday that you have to make sure your underarms are completely dry when you apply deodorant. If you do not make sure you're completely dry the active ingredient can not plug the sweat glands. That is one reason the clinical strength usually says to apply the night before.I sweat really bad in my armpits help. please give advice.?
If you have already tried the stuff that you can get over-the-counter, then go to the Doctor and a get a prescription deodorant. These are stronger and work better than the ones you can get in the store and if this does not work either then they will probably recommend botox injections into the armpits every once in awhile, which seems to work well for those that use that method.
Try SECRET antiperspirant - any scent, and they have a clinical strength, too.
I had the same problem. One year my mother-in-law-to-be gave me a 'Christmas Gift pack' of SECRET.
I opened it in front of everyone and was so embarrassed, I cried.
Turns out she gave only gifts that were considered 'smart'. My husband got socks and under ware.
I will never forget that, but I use the product to this day.
That has been many, many years ago - and it still works.
Good luck!
Find An Antiperspirant That Works For You. Degree Works Wonders For Me
DEODERENT. [*sp]
Arm and Hammer deodorant brands works great against that. Also, don't put so much.
Wearing a t shirt under your shirts will help the arm pit stains. I think it looks cool too.
prescription strength deodorant or botox in the armpits
you should try certain-dri
it's a roll on kind of medicine deoderant but you don't need a prescription
Hammer or Arm deoderant
use clinical strength
cut your arms off past the arms pits
and its not like im doing any thing ill just bee in class writing or something and start to sweat and im not even hot. and im not nervous eather .
what should i do?
any products give advice.I sweat really bad in my armpits help. please give advice.?
I agree with the clinical strength. I just read in a magazine yesterday that you have to make sure your underarms are completely dry when you apply deodorant. If you do not make sure you're completely dry the active ingredient can not plug the sweat glands. That is one reason the clinical strength usually says to apply the night before.I sweat really bad in my armpits help. please give advice.?
If you have already tried the stuff that you can get over-the-counter, then go to the Doctor and a get a prescription deodorant. These are stronger and work better than the ones you can get in the store and if this does not work either then they will probably recommend botox injections into the armpits every once in awhile, which seems to work well for those that use that method.
Try SECRET antiperspirant - any scent, and they have a clinical strength, too.
I had the same problem. One year my mother-in-law-to-be gave me a 'Christmas Gift pack' of SECRET.
I opened it in front of everyone and was so embarrassed, I cried.
Turns out she gave only gifts that were considered 'smart'. My husband got socks and under ware.
I will never forget that, but I use the product to this day.
That has been many, many years ago - and it still works.
Good luck!
Find An Antiperspirant That Works For You. Degree Works Wonders For Me
DEODERENT. [*sp]
Arm and Hammer deodorant brands works great against that. Also, don't put so much.
Wearing a t shirt under your shirts will help the arm pit stains. I think it looks cool too.
prescription strength deodorant or botox in the armpits
you should try certain-dri
it's a roll on kind of medicine deoderant but you don't need a prescription
Hammer or Arm deoderant
use clinical strength
cut your arms off past the arms pits
Mother wishing their children ills - Give them the worst advice.?
Does it seem that your mother give you the worst advice, so bad that sometimes you wonder whether her underlying motive is against you, that she is wishing me the worst.Mother wishing their children ills - Give them the worst advice.?
Yes I can relate, totally. I got a job a while ago and I told my mom all about it and I would have thought that she would be really happy for me but it was the complete opposite. She made me feel so bad that I ended up not taking the job. This was not the first time that this has happened. Yes I believe that my mom has underlying motive against me sometimes. It's her way or the highway and not to mention she would have me suffer the whole way there and back.Mother wishing their children ills - Give them the worst advice.?
Maybe she's not your bilogical mother. where's your dad anyway
yes.
but then, my mother tried to throw a vase at my head last week. =]
and a butterknife the week before that.make up
Yes I can relate, totally. I got a job a while ago and I told my mom all about it and I would have thought that she would be really happy for me but it was the complete opposite. She made me feel so bad that I ended up not taking the job. This was not the first time that this has happened. Yes I believe that my mom has underlying motive against me sometimes. It's her way or the highway and not to mention she would have me suffer the whole way there and back.Mother wishing their children ills - Give them the worst advice.?
Maybe she's not your bilogical mother. where's your dad anyway
yes.
but then, my mother tried to throw a vase at my head last week. =]
and a butterknife the week before that.
7 days late, negative HPT, clear fluid from breast, bad back ache, can't sleep , normal 28 day cycle, advice !
7 days late, negative HPT, clear fluid from breast, bad back ache, can't sleep , normal 28 day cycle, I haven't been trying. I have been under alot of stress. advice PLEASE!7 days late, negative HPT, clear fluid from breast, bad back ache, can't sleep , normal 28 day cycle, advice !
calm down, do your usual stuffs as if nothing is bothering you, then after say...3 days, do another pt.
trust me, you'll be fine...7 days late, negative HPT, clear fluid from breast, bad back ache, can't sleep , normal 28 day cycle, advice !
try a better test
calm down, do your usual stuffs as if nothing is bothering you, then after say...3 days, do another pt.
trust me, you'll be fine...7 days late, negative HPT, clear fluid from breast, bad back ache, can't sleep , normal 28 day cycle, advice !
try a better test
Tongue ring advice? Good Idea or bad?
I am rlly intrested in getting a tongue ring, though i have heard some bad reviews and good ones, so i am not sure if i want to get one or not. i heard u can loose teeth rlly easy with one in, but i think thats only if u click it against ur teeth, which i wouldnt do. i also heard that u can loose ur sense of taste if the peircers do something wrong. but i think they look rlly cool, expecially the colorful balls, and the ones that look like there glittery. i would rlly like ur adivce and thoughts about tongue rings, and any good or bad stories. thanks ^.^Tongue ring advice? Good Idea or bad?
Tongue rings are cool and not harmful if you take care of it. you can loose teeth if your a sloppy eater and bite your tongue. and the taste bud stuff is rare. just have a mirror there so you can see were they are going to place the piercing. so yeah. if you get it, its cool and fun for a while. but then over the years you will get sick of it and take it out.
Good luck ^_^Tongue ring advice? Good Idea or bad?
BAD!
Very good possibility of infection.
And while a girl MIGHT look a little sexier with one, that feeling is lost once you kiss her.
Tongue rings are cool and not harmful if you take care of it. you can loose teeth if your a sloppy eater and bite your tongue. and the taste bud stuff is rare. just have a mirror there so you can see were they are going to place the piercing. so yeah. if you get it, its cool and fun for a while. but then over the years you will get sick of it and take it out.
Good luck ^_^Tongue ring advice? Good Idea or bad?
BAD!
Very good possibility of infection.
And while a girl MIGHT look a little sexier with one, that feeling is lost once you kiss her.
I need advice and help really bad.?
Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a year and four months or should i say were. i screwed up really bad but she wont seem to forgive me. i have said sorry so many times i have tryed just about everything. the thing is that i said somthing i didnt really mean, i said it out of frustration. because there were rumors going around that really didnt help the cause. so i said to her in gym class one day '; i dont know anymore i might be done with this.'; ever since i said that it was the worst mistake of my life i regret every word i said. ive said sorry so many times but it doesnt seem to work. and she keeps telling me that we need a brake but we have been on a break for about a week now. she said that we will be going back out before christmas ends. what i need is advice really bad on if theres anything i can do to speed up the process or anything that would make my chances better. also everytime she does somthing wrong she has a hard time saying that she didnt do anything but i always admit to the things i do wrong. and this has happend ever since she has spent the night at her friends house who she said she hated at the begining of the school year please help thank you.I need advice and help really bad.?
The best thing you can do is back off.
But before you do, show her you care. Since she isn't willing to take your words, write her a letter. It'll make you feel better and will get her thinking about you. Put a little flower or something. I know how hard this may be, but you have to give her some time. Give her a bit of space and just let her be to herself for a while. She's already said you guys would be back together by Christmas break, just say ';ok'; before she gets agitated and just calls it off. If she's calling for a break, she needs some time to breath. just trust that she'll be back and trust that she's yours. And we girls don't usually like being wrong. Just admit when you are wrong and let her be the way she is. After all, she's your girl, applaud the things you fell in love with her for and accept the flaws...Just give her some room, she'll be back.
I hope I helped
Good Luck
P.S. Trust her when she says she'll be back with you
';If you love something, let it go. If it comes back it was meant to be, if it doesn't then it wasn't meant to be';I need advice and help really bad.?
give her time to recover from the hurt. email/write her and explain your feelings without being over dramatic. and tell her that you will work on your issues, whether or not shes in the picture. you will become a better person though this process... promise!
The best thing you can do is back off.
But before you do, show her you care. Since she isn't willing to take your words, write her a letter. It'll make you feel better and will get her thinking about you. Put a little flower or something. I know how hard this may be, but you have to give her some time. Give her a bit of space and just let her be to herself for a while. She's already said you guys would be back together by Christmas break, just say ';ok'; before she gets agitated and just calls it off. If she's calling for a break, she needs some time to breath. just trust that she'll be back and trust that she's yours. And we girls don't usually like being wrong. Just admit when you are wrong and let her be the way she is. After all, she's your girl, applaud the things you fell in love with her for and accept the flaws...Just give her some room, she'll be back.
I hope I helped
Good Luck
P.S. Trust her when she says she'll be back with you
';If you love something, let it go. If it comes back it was meant to be, if it doesn't then it wasn't meant to be';I need advice and help really bad.?
give her time to recover from the hurt. email/write her and explain your feelings without being over dramatic. and tell her that you will work on your issues, whether or not shes in the picture. you will become a better person though this process... promise!
I feel depressed. Lately I have a very bad self-image, please, any advice?
Lately I've been feeling down and insecure about why a guy would like me.
It all started when my ex (which I broke up with.. and then later wanted back but he said no) got a new gf. She's 20..while both me and him are 27. She cute, latina, no education, not sure what job she has (nor do I care).
I'm pretty tall, thin, fit, with long blonde hair and usually pretty upbeat and happy with what God gave me. Thank God I am healthy and I have family and friends, that's what counts.
But lately I feel very, very down. I feel ugly and unpretty and insecure and I notice and magnify all my physical faults (I don't like my skin...too pale, too sensitive to makeup... my eyes with dark circles and puffy etc..some fine lines).
All these make me kind of want to hide. Why would a guy want me, physically speaking? I mean they go for the 20 year olds with tanned skin...while I'm blonde with light skin.
I feel depressed, I need some advice. This is not vanity, it's just sadness:(I feel depressed. Lately I have a very bad self-image, please, any advice?
hey girl u just answered ur question urself.what counts isnt what u appear to be but who you are.the people you love, ur family ur friends are with u.Gods with u if u believe in Him.u r the queen of ur world.dont let anyone take that throne from u.and tel u wat.im indian and i think blonde is cute ;)I feel depressed. Lately I have a very bad self-image, please, any advice?
are you bipolar you just said your happy with what you have and now you trying to find out why guys like you(sounding depressed) a guy likes a woman becuz she meets his standards, and i wouldnt care what anyone thinks about me because at the end of the day i deal with my problems as longs as i look fine thats what count.
Do not let anyone or anything bring you down. God has a plan for you and you just have to wait and let him show you the way. There will be someone to come along who will sweep you off your feet. Enjoy today. do not live in the past you are a smart beautiful girl. enjoy yourself. Some men want a woman their own age because there is less drama. just keep an open mind to what is out there and just date for a little while.
Everyone is unique. Beauty is defined differently in everyone's eyes. Make may be considered unattractive to you may be found very attractive to someone else. Do not judge yourself because your ex left you for a 20 year old tanned girl, its his lost that he lost you, not yours. I am sure you were better off with him as you both were the same age and stuff. He is just being irreasonable, and just going after ice candy which will eventually end but when he realises that it will be too late. Just dont loose your confidence because of him because I am sure you are beautiful, because everyone is beautiful in their own unique way.
You are unique and NOTHING can change that, you are beautiful exactly the way you are! (I'm not saying this out of sympathy just for your satisfaction btw)
There are plenty of fish in the sea and it's not because you aren't pretty or anything like that! He has just moved on is all.
You can't be perfect, because nobody is! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and you will be able to find someone who ''beholds'; you to be as beautiful inside as out if you just move on.
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It sounds like the ex-boyfriend problem was a trigger. It looks like you were comparing yourself to her. Comparing yourself to others will only make you feel worse. Believe me- I used to compare myself to others all the time. But you are a beautiful person, so what if you have light skin? Light skin can be beautiful. If you are a great person within, that will show to all those men out there. Not all men are shallow and go for younger girls. There are actually good guys out there. You need to just go out there and find them. Waiting will not work. Also, a guy is not needed to feel good about yourself. You gotta change something. Something is not right for you to be feeling this way. Listen to your innerself. What is really wrong? Why do you feel this way? If you listen, you will find a way to recover. Good luck, you will be okay. Just believe in yourself.
It all started when my ex (which I broke up with.. and then later wanted back but he said no) got a new gf. She's 20..while both me and him are 27. She cute, latina, no education, not sure what job she has (nor do I care).
I'm pretty tall, thin, fit, with long blonde hair and usually pretty upbeat and happy with what God gave me. Thank God I am healthy and I have family and friends, that's what counts.
But lately I feel very, very down. I feel ugly and unpretty and insecure and I notice and magnify all my physical faults (I don't like my skin...too pale, too sensitive to makeup... my eyes with dark circles and puffy etc..some fine lines).
All these make me kind of want to hide. Why would a guy want me, physically speaking? I mean they go for the 20 year olds with tanned skin...while I'm blonde with light skin.
I feel depressed, I need some advice. This is not vanity, it's just sadness:(I feel depressed. Lately I have a very bad self-image, please, any advice?
hey girl u just answered ur question urself.what counts isnt what u appear to be but who you are.the people you love, ur family ur friends are with u.Gods with u if u believe in Him.u r the queen of ur world.dont let anyone take that throne from u.and tel u wat.im indian and i think blonde is cute ;)I feel depressed. Lately I have a very bad self-image, please, any advice?
are you bipolar you just said your happy with what you have and now you trying to find out why guys like you(sounding depressed) a guy likes a woman becuz she meets his standards, and i wouldnt care what anyone thinks about me because at the end of the day i deal with my problems as longs as i look fine thats what count.
Do not let anyone or anything bring you down. God has a plan for you and you just have to wait and let him show you the way. There will be someone to come along who will sweep you off your feet. Enjoy today. do not live in the past you are a smart beautiful girl. enjoy yourself. Some men want a woman their own age because there is less drama. just keep an open mind to what is out there and just date for a little while.
Everyone is unique. Beauty is defined differently in everyone's eyes. Make may be considered unattractive to you may be found very attractive to someone else. Do not judge yourself because your ex left you for a 20 year old tanned girl, its his lost that he lost you, not yours. I am sure you were better off with him as you both were the same age and stuff. He is just being irreasonable, and just going after ice candy which will eventually end but when he realises that it will be too late. Just dont loose your confidence because of him because I am sure you are beautiful, because everyone is beautiful in their own unique way.
You are unique and NOTHING can change that, you are beautiful exactly the way you are! (I'm not saying this out of sympathy just for your satisfaction btw)
There are plenty of fish in the sea and it's not because you aren't pretty or anything like that! He has just moved on is all.
You can't be perfect, because nobody is! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and you will be able to find someone who ''beholds'; you to be as beautiful inside as out if you just move on.
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It sounds like the ex-boyfriend problem was a trigger. It looks like you were comparing yourself to her. Comparing yourself to others will only make you feel worse. Believe me- I used to compare myself to others all the time. But you are a beautiful person, so what if you have light skin? Light skin can be beautiful. If you are a great person within, that will show to all those men out there. Not all men are shallow and go for younger girls. There are actually good guys out there. You need to just go out there and find them. Waiting will not work. Also, a guy is not needed to feel good about yourself. You gotta change something. Something is not right for you to be feeling this way. Listen to your innerself. What is really wrong? Why do you feel this way? If you listen, you will find a way to recover. Good luck, you will be okay. Just believe in yourself.
I need advice! I think my dog has a bad case of rubies...?
Oooohh, that sounds fabulo......er, terrible! Bring me the sweet dog Jack, and I'll take excellent care of it. ;)I need advice! I think my dog has a bad case of rubies...?
I do not understand the question. What is rubies? If you mean rabies, you should look for signs of aggression and frothing at the mouth. Check with your vet to make sure that your dog is up to date on his rabies shot. If not, get him to the vet ASAP.
Hope this helped.I need advice! I think my dog has a bad case of rubies...?
Jack, your girl friend would NEVER let you get rid of that dog! Mum's the word..otherwise, you'll have stalkers collecting his poo
Uh-oh..that just gave me an idea. I'll put the word out that MY dogs have rubies ( contagious, you know) and I won't ever have to pick IT up or step in IT again..
okay- if you mean RABIES- you need care ASAP- rabies can't be cured!! This is a human health concern, in that a bite can transmit rabies to humans- and that can be fatal if left untreated.
If he has a case of RUBIES- I'd like one as least a carat big!
Rubies? The gem?
Do you mean rabies?
If your dog was vaccinated, then no, that's not the case.
What are the symptoms? Did a wild animal bite him?
More details are needed, but the obvious answer is to see a veterinarian.
Hey!!! that is great, my dog has a bad case of emeralds, maybe we could breed them together, and get a litter of puppies with bad cases of diamonds.
We would never have to pick up dog poop again.
rubies huh. wow....genius...you should NOT sell the dog. potentially you could be sitting on a rubie crapping dog. could be worth millions if not more. i'd pay to see live. the dog crap a rubie!!!
Feed him some 24 karat gold or sterling silver jeweler's wire.
Within 24 hours, he'll be crapping ruby tennis bracelets, and you'll be rich.
www.rabies.com. Call 24 hour emergency vet hospital. Keep dog isolated. Warn vet before bringing him in about symptoms.
If it is I am so sorry. If it not, keep him vaccinated
If you are talking about rabies, your dog has 10 days to live. If he has rubies, take that dog to Ripley's!
Then give him some emeralds, some diamonds, and some sapphires and ask him to whip up a ring for me!
Can you take the rubies and sell them to a jewelry store? Or maybe a pawn shop?
Take him to the vet and tell the vet that the dog swallowed rubies!
Feed it some saphires, they counteract rubies
My dog just got over a case of the opals
Well send your dog MY WAY!!
momma needs a new pair of earrings!
You think but you don't know Jack!
answer is to see a veterinarian
STOP ASKING STUPID QUESTIONS .....YOU KNOW IF HE DOES HAVE RABIES BECAUSE He will be dead soon ..
SO GO TO VET OR POSSIBLY GET RABIES YOURSELF %26gt;%26gt; AND EVEN IF HE HAS IT HE WILL DIE SO PROTECT YOUR SELF .. IF YOU TELL THE VET YOUR DOG HAS RABIES AND HAS NEVER GOTTEN HIS /OR HER VACCINES ANIMAL CARE AND CONTROL MAY HAVE TO QUARANTINE YOU PET FOR 30 DAYS ...
I do not understand the question. What is rubies? If you mean rabies, you should look for signs of aggression and frothing at the mouth. Check with your vet to make sure that your dog is up to date on his rabies shot. If not, get him to the vet ASAP.
Hope this helped.I need advice! I think my dog has a bad case of rubies...?
Jack, your girl friend would NEVER let you get rid of that dog! Mum's the word..otherwise, you'll have stalkers collecting his poo
Uh-oh..that just gave me an idea. I'll put the word out that MY dogs have rubies ( contagious, you know) and I won't ever have to pick IT up or step in IT again..
okay- if you mean RABIES- you need care ASAP- rabies can't be cured!! This is a human health concern, in that a bite can transmit rabies to humans- and that can be fatal if left untreated.
If he has a case of RUBIES- I'd like one as least a carat big!
Rubies? The gem?
Do you mean rabies?
If your dog was vaccinated, then no, that's not the case.
What are the symptoms? Did a wild animal bite him?
More details are needed, but the obvious answer is to see a veterinarian.
Hey!!! that is great, my dog has a bad case of emeralds, maybe we could breed them together, and get a litter of puppies with bad cases of diamonds.
We would never have to pick up dog poop again.
rubies huh. wow....genius...you should NOT sell the dog. potentially you could be sitting on a rubie crapping dog. could be worth millions if not more. i'd pay to see live. the dog crap a rubie!!!
Feed him some 24 karat gold or sterling silver jeweler's wire.
Within 24 hours, he'll be crapping ruby tennis bracelets, and you'll be rich.
www.rabies.com. Call 24 hour emergency vet hospital. Keep dog isolated. Warn vet before bringing him in about symptoms.
If it is I am so sorry. If it not, keep him vaccinated
If you are talking about rabies, your dog has 10 days to live. If he has rubies, take that dog to Ripley's!
Then give him some emeralds, some diamonds, and some sapphires and ask him to whip up a ring for me!
Can you take the rubies and sell them to a jewelry store? Or maybe a pawn shop?
Take him to the vet and tell the vet that the dog swallowed rubies!
Feed it some saphires, they counteract rubies
My dog just got over a case of the opals
Well send your dog MY WAY!!
momma needs a new pair of earrings!
You think but you don't know Jack!
answer is to see a veterinarian
STOP ASKING STUPID QUESTIONS .....YOU KNOW IF HE DOES HAVE RABIES BECAUSE He will be dead soon ..
SO GO TO VET OR POSSIBLY GET RABIES YOURSELF %26gt;%26gt; AND EVEN IF HE HAS IT HE WILL DIE SO PROTECT YOUR SELF .. IF YOU TELL THE VET YOUR DOG HAS RABIES AND HAS NEVER GOTTEN HIS /OR HER VACCINES ANIMAL CARE AND CONTROL MAY HAVE TO QUARANTINE YOU PET FOR 30 DAYS ...
What's The Worst Advice You Ever Heard?
If you hop up and down on one foot backwards, you won't get pregnant.
%26lt;---Mother of 4What's The Worst Advice You Ever Heard?
';I'll never say never...'; It means never. They are telling you NEVER. And they are confirming it by saying this to you. They are just trying to keep you from reaching into their chest and tearing out their heart. What's The Worst Advice You Ever Heard?
Don't worry, in 10 years you'll look back on this and laugh.
That's great for 10 years from now, but what about now?
pretty much just to kiss *** and the person will give you what you want.
i kiss no one's ***, especially if they act like a jerk.
';Don't worry about it'; Umm, I kinda have to worry about it! lol..xD
Oh,
and when people say,
';That sucks.';
Geez,
so much support!
What you don't know can't hurt you.
Eventually, it does.
';If you can't beat them, join them'; is the stupidest advice ever.
its safe to practice playing soccer during a freakin a category 3 hurricane
from my soccer coach, he is one of those people that makes us practice no mater what
god it was awful
You should support Arsenal FC
Go ahead...everyone's doing it!!!
';yes you should go out with him';
';Hey Will give Psychology a try';
its ok if i cumm inside youmake up
%26lt;---Mother of 4What's The Worst Advice You Ever Heard?
';I'll never say never...'; It means never. They are telling you NEVER. And they are confirming it by saying this to you. They are just trying to keep you from reaching into their chest and tearing out their heart. What's The Worst Advice You Ever Heard?
Don't worry, in 10 years you'll look back on this and laugh.
That's great for 10 years from now, but what about now?
pretty much just to kiss *** and the person will give you what you want.
i kiss no one's ***, especially if they act like a jerk.
';Don't worry about it'; Umm, I kinda have to worry about it! lol..xD
Oh,
and when people say,
';That sucks.';
Geez,
so much support!
What you don't know can't hurt you.
Eventually, it does.
';If you can't beat them, join them'; is the stupidest advice ever.
its safe to practice playing soccer during a freakin a category 3 hurricane
from my soccer coach, he is one of those people that makes us practice no mater what
god it was awful
You should support Arsenal FC
Go ahead...everyone's doing it!!!
';yes you should go out with him';
';Hey Will give Psychology a try';
its ok if i cumm inside you
Hi ladies and gentleman i have really bad anxiety and need some advice on how to help overcome it?
i need to learn how to deal with my panic attack and its gotten to the point where i can only go in a certain area around my house because im am fearing the ';unknown'; or in other words what might happend if i have an anxiety attack or when im in large groups of people or whenever i workout sometimes and my heart races i start to hypervenulate(AM I THE ONLY ONE?). i dunno whats happening to me because i never used to be like this and thats the most upsetting i just wish i could over come this fear and move on with my life and not feel like im trapped in this house all the time does anybody have any advice i am on medication and have gone to consueling so i dunno what else to do other than i guess face my fears but its alot harder said than done. let me know if u have any suggestions thanks so much guys!Hi ladies and gentleman i have really bad anxiety and need some advice on how to help overcome it?
Hello,
Panic attacks can be caused by stress, drastic weight loss and many other reasons. Years ago, I did not have a clue what it was. When those panic attacks came around I went to the emergency room about 3 times in one week and thought I was having a heart attack. No doctors explained to me what was going on. I was sent home with medications.
Now that I am better educated about this issue I learned how to control it. I go outside and take easy breaths. Place your hand over your heart and feel your heart race, then after relaxing and clearing your mind you'll see that it's all Psychological. There is a good web site called ';webmd';, look up panic attacks and doctors can tell you in details what it is and other medical conditions. It helped me answer my problem.Hi ladies and gentleman i have really bad anxiety and need some advice on how to help overcome it?
Anxiety attacks are usually our bodies way of letting out something we are keeping in. Figure out what's eating at you emotionally/ mentally and DEAL WITH IT. Suppressing things works for only so long. Our bodies have to have an outlet. Something is stressing you that you're trying to ignore. Seek professional help to find out what it is if you don't know. Your mental health will only get worse and progress if you don't. I wish you peace and happiness.
Facing your fears is hard to do. There is a right way to do and and a wrong way to do it. For example, if someone is petrified of snakes you don't throw them in a snake pit. That would traumatize them even more and actually INCREASE their fear of snakes exponentially. You start with rubber snakes, at the zoo from safely behind the glass. Baby steps. Not all at once. I can research the Internet or Amazon.com to see if there is a book entitled ';Face Your Fears'; which I can locate and come back to update.
Got 1,800 hits. Can't link it though. The one the author is Shmuley Boteach.
Hello,
Panic attacks can be caused by stress, drastic weight loss and many other reasons. Years ago, I did not have a clue what it was. When those panic attacks came around I went to the emergency room about 3 times in one week and thought I was having a heart attack. No doctors explained to me what was going on. I was sent home with medications.
Now that I am better educated about this issue I learned how to control it. I go outside and take easy breaths. Place your hand over your heart and feel your heart race, then after relaxing and clearing your mind you'll see that it's all Psychological. There is a good web site called ';webmd';, look up panic attacks and doctors can tell you in details what it is and other medical conditions. It helped me answer my problem.Hi ladies and gentleman i have really bad anxiety and need some advice on how to help overcome it?
Anxiety attacks are usually our bodies way of letting out something we are keeping in. Figure out what's eating at you emotionally/ mentally and DEAL WITH IT. Suppressing things works for only so long. Our bodies have to have an outlet. Something is stressing you that you're trying to ignore. Seek professional help to find out what it is if you don't know. Your mental health will only get worse and progress if you don't. I wish you peace and happiness.
Facing your fears is hard to do. There is a right way to do and and a wrong way to do it. For example, if someone is petrified of snakes you don't throw them in a snake pit. That would traumatize them even more and actually INCREASE their fear of snakes exponentially. You start with rubber snakes, at the zoo from safely behind the glass. Baby steps. Not all at once. I can research the Internet or Amazon.com to see if there is a book entitled ';Face Your Fears'; which I can locate and come back to update.
Got 1,800 hits. Can't link it though. The one the author is Shmuley Boteach.
Please help me :( i got a really bad hair cut and need advice?
so i had long hair but i needed to get it shortened for school, %26amp; the guy pretty much messed up my hair really bad!!!
now i need to do something to it cause it looks horrible :( help.
this is my old hair :'(
http://s278.photobucket.com/albums/kk118/gian_carlos/?action=view%26amp;current=HPIM5039.jpg
http://s278.photobucket.com/albums/kk118/gian_carlos/?action=view%26amp;current=HPIM5234.jpg
this is what it looks like now :'(
http://s278.photobucket.com/albums/kk118/gian_carlos/?action=view%26amp;current=HPIM5272.jpgPlease help me :( i got a really bad hair cut and need advice?
To be honest I wouldn't even have noticed if you hadn't told.Please help me :( i got a really bad hair cut and need advice?
I think you should use some hair wax and style your hair a bit and you should be fine, you are a very good looking guy, believe me when I tell you that girls don't exactly go by how your hair looks!
Good luck to you! ;)
awww, you look hot with long hair! Anyways, there are a few things you can do... #1: get a wig, #2: get extentions, #3: wear a hat, #4: just don't be ashamed, it doesn't look that bad! ; )
Hey man what you talking about?? I think that hairstyle is good, try putting some gel to stick it a bit up and make it look a bit funky, i think it would look good on you :)
I think it looks fine. Just let it grow out for a few months and it should look the same.
Besides, now people can see your pretty eyes better.
:D
Well I think you're gorgeous with any hair.
;D
Just go 2 the hair cutters place and tell them to make it look betta
now i need to do something to it cause it looks horrible :( help.
this is my old hair :'(
http://s278.photobucket.com/albums/kk118/gian_carlos/?action=view%26amp;current=HPIM5039.jpg
http://s278.photobucket.com/albums/kk118/gian_carlos/?action=view%26amp;current=HPIM5234.jpg
this is what it looks like now :'(
http://s278.photobucket.com/albums/kk118/gian_carlos/?action=view%26amp;current=HPIM5272.jpgPlease help me :( i got a really bad hair cut and need advice?
To be honest I wouldn't even have noticed if you hadn't told.Please help me :( i got a really bad hair cut and need advice?
I think you should use some hair wax and style your hair a bit and you should be fine, you are a very good looking guy, believe me when I tell you that girls don't exactly go by how your hair looks!
Good luck to you! ;)
awww, you look hot with long hair! Anyways, there are a few things you can do... #1: get a wig, #2: get extentions, #3: wear a hat, #4: just don't be ashamed, it doesn't look that bad! ; )
Hey man what you talking about?? I think that hairstyle is good, try putting some gel to stick it a bit up and make it look a bit funky, i think it would look good on you :)
I think it looks fine. Just let it grow out for a few months and it should look the same.
Besides, now people can see your pretty eyes better.
:D
Well I think you're gorgeous with any hair.
;D
Just go 2 the hair cutters place and tell them to make it look betta
Okay, seriously, would I be making a bad decision here, I need advice...?
Okay, I posted this question in the Mental Health section and all I got was a spammer about colon cleansing, seriously, I need some advice here...
I've been trying to secure a second job since my current job is only seasonal. My field is in Graphic Design and Animation. Where I work at right now is closely related to my field. I have a college degree. I've haven't had much luck finding work in my field and it's really been causing lots of arguments with my boyfriend and parents. Now my boyfriend and parents don't argue with me because I don't have a better job yet; they argue with me because I don't let them help me and I shoot down any suggestions they have...now the reason I have a hard time letting people help me is because of my age, I'm a recent college grad at the ripe old age of 26, I should have figured myself out already when I was 22. In order to solve all the arguing that's been going on, I've been settling for less by applying to restaurants and fast food places and jobs at the mall.
I had an interview at Waffle House restaurant tonight and the manager said if I was still interested there would be an orientation at 5:00pm on Thursday. If I get this job, it would probably only pay minimum wage plus tips, and I would also be working overnight which can put even more stress on me and possibly lose my motivation to find better opportunities, but I must settle for something I don't like to satisfy my personal relationships. I'm going to sleep on it and see if I feel the same way the next day. So, does anyone think I would be making a bad decision since the job will most likely be very stressful with bad hours?Okay, seriously, would I be making a bad decision here, I need advice...?
One thing you will learn in the working world is that accepting others opinions and teamwork generally get the job done more quickly and more efficiently than on your own.
Why not let the people that love you most offer their insight and help?
Don't beat yourself up for not having it figured out at ';26';. Life is big!
If you don't need to take this job and have support to go looking for the job of your choice and dreams why are you denying yourself this?
You are sabotaging your own goal. Go after what you've worked so hard for and be grateful people who love you want to help.
Good luck!Okay, seriously, would I be making a bad decision here, I need advice...?
If you need the money, take it if you can get it.
Your boyfriend and his family is trying to help you, so dont shoot down their suggestions. I am 32 and just now am getting my associate's degree. I am changing careers, and was also in the military. There is no shame in starting a new career or starting late..
Dont let anyone berate you for your decisions. It is still your life, and you are the best person for that job!!!
I've been trying to secure a second job since my current job is only seasonal. My field is in Graphic Design and Animation. Where I work at right now is closely related to my field. I have a college degree. I've haven't had much luck finding work in my field and it's really been causing lots of arguments with my boyfriend and parents. Now my boyfriend and parents don't argue with me because I don't have a better job yet; they argue with me because I don't let them help me and I shoot down any suggestions they have...now the reason I have a hard time letting people help me is because of my age, I'm a recent college grad at the ripe old age of 26, I should have figured myself out already when I was 22. In order to solve all the arguing that's been going on, I've been settling for less by applying to restaurants and fast food places and jobs at the mall.
I had an interview at Waffle House restaurant tonight and the manager said if I was still interested there would be an orientation at 5:00pm on Thursday. If I get this job, it would probably only pay minimum wage plus tips, and I would also be working overnight which can put even more stress on me and possibly lose my motivation to find better opportunities, but I must settle for something I don't like to satisfy my personal relationships. I'm going to sleep on it and see if I feel the same way the next day. So, does anyone think I would be making a bad decision since the job will most likely be very stressful with bad hours?Okay, seriously, would I be making a bad decision here, I need advice...?
One thing you will learn in the working world is that accepting others opinions and teamwork generally get the job done more quickly and more efficiently than on your own.
Why not let the people that love you most offer their insight and help?
Don't beat yourself up for not having it figured out at ';26';. Life is big!
If you don't need to take this job and have support to go looking for the job of your choice and dreams why are you denying yourself this?
You are sabotaging your own goal. Go after what you've worked so hard for and be grateful people who love you want to help.
Good luck!Okay, seriously, would I be making a bad decision here, I need advice...?
If you need the money, take it if you can get it.
Your boyfriend and his family is trying to help you, so dont shoot down their suggestions. I am 32 and just now am getting my associate's degree. I am changing careers, and was also in the military. There is no shame in starting a new career or starting late..
Dont let anyone berate you for your decisions. It is still your life, and you are the best person for that job!!!
What is the worst advice you can give me?
There is a girl I would like to date. She doesn't even know I exist. What's the worst advice you could give me?What is the worst advice you can give me?
To not grow some balls and ask her out. DO NOT DO THIS!!! IT MAY CHANGE YOUR LIFE AND EVEN IF YOU ARE REJECTED YOU WOULD GROW SOME COURAGE! DON'T DO IT MAN!What is the worst advice you can give me?
Buy a diamond and propose to her.
The worst? Whip out your dick in front of her and say something clever.
Hang out with her as much as possible, but never ask her out. For the rest of your life, continue to be her supporting friend while other guys use her and treat her bad, but never tell her how you truly feel.
Then, when she finally meets a great guy, offer to help with the wedding, get them settled in a new home, and even help them with their marital problems in the first year.
Babysit their children, help them with their homework. Take them camping. Help her husband get a job at your company. With some good luck he can even become your boss.
Continue this way until you are dead. When they bury you, have it in your will that you want your epitaph to say, ';I just want to be your friend, [Insert her name here]';.
Dress up like an old lady, get a rocking chair, sit next to her and knit.
LOL- Jk, if you do that she'll think you're funny
Anyway- BAD ADVICE: STAB HER!!! MWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!!!!!!!!!!
Don't try to date her and end up regreting it.
Punch her in the face and tell her she is 'STUPID, UGLY, FROG-LEGGED, MONKEY-EARED, ANTEATER-HEADED, DUMB, LOSER-ISH, FREAK SHOW-LIKE!!!!!!' and then say she stuffs her bra.
stalk her and then suddenly
propose to her in a random
place, like school or the office.
if she says no, rape her.
lol obviously DON'T do that.
kidnap her, then rape her. and then kill her.
ahha
obviously don't do this !
To not grow some balls and ask her out. DO NOT DO THIS!!! IT MAY CHANGE YOUR LIFE AND EVEN IF YOU ARE REJECTED YOU WOULD GROW SOME COURAGE! DON'T DO IT MAN!What is the worst advice you can give me?
Buy a diamond and propose to her.
The worst? Whip out your dick in front of her and say something clever.
Hang out with her as much as possible, but never ask her out. For the rest of your life, continue to be her supporting friend while other guys use her and treat her bad, but never tell her how you truly feel.
Then, when she finally meets a great guy, offer to help with the wedding, get them settled in a new home, and even help them with their marital problems in the first year.
Babysit their children, help them with their homework. Take them camping. Help her husband get a job at your company. With some good luck he can even become your boss.
Continue this way until you are dead. When they bury you, have it in your will that you want your epitaph to say, ';I just want to be your friend, [Insert her name here]';.
Dress up like an old lady, get a rocking chair, sit next to her and knit.
LOL- Jk, if you do that she'll think you're funny
Anyway- BAD ADVICE: STAB HER!!! MWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!!!!!!!!!!
Don't try to date her and end up regreting it.
Punch her in the face and tell her she is 'STUPID, UGLY, FROG-LEGGED, MONKEY-EARED, ANTEATER-HEADED, DUMB, LOSER-ISH, FREAK SHOW-LIKE!!!!!!' and then say she stuffs her bra.
stalk her and then suddenly
propose to her in a random
place, like school or the office.
if she says no, rape her.
lol obviously DON'T do that.
kidnap her, then rape her. and then kill her.
ahha
obviously don't do this !
Please help My hair falling out real bad and I need some advice I heard this is a good product?
http://www.nioxin.com/en/products/scalp-鈥?/a> a hairdress told me that it works.
I heard this also work from the same hairdresser but she doesnt no anyone that uses it she just heard:http://www.aphogee.com/ I was going to use this one first.
Im wondering do the stuff they sell at sally beauty supply stores and other hair supply store dont work. I think my hair fell out due to stress. or do you think or know about any other products?Please help My hair falling out real bad and I need some advice I heard this is a good product?
I think before you self medicate your hair, see a doctor first. Sometimes hair products can aggravate the situation. You should see a doctor to rule out possible illnesses, or allergies. Time is of essence so please make an appointment quickly. I wish you well.
I heard this also work from the same hairdresser but she doesnt no anyone that uses it she just heard:http://www.aphogee.com/ I was going to use this one first.
Im wondering do the stuff they sell at sally beauty supply stores and other hair supply store dont work. I think my hair fell out due to stress. or do you think or know about any other products?Please help My hair falling out real bad and I need some advice I heard this is a good product?
I think before you self medicate your hair, see a doctor first. Sometimes hair products can aggravate the situation. You should see a doctor to rule out possible illnesses, or allergies. Time is of essence so please make an appointment quickly. I wish you well.
Giving an immature sibling silent treatment. Bad or good and what advice can you offer?
I am at my wit's end with my brother. I am 21, going to college, and he is going on 26, and still going to college. I believe he has problems. I have my own as well. Anxiety is a big one with me, and he is one of the contributor to that. I've let him know that behavior, mainly immature, hyper behavior, that he displays, makes me anxious. I've made it known to him very much. I think he is selfish though, and the reason he does it is to take his mind off of his problems, how he is feeling, and the like.
Therefore, I've decided to ignore him, as I don't see him changing anytime soon. I've been ignoring him for over three weeks now, but he seems to be really trying to get a response out of me by rapidly trying to open the door to my room when it's locked, knocking on it, and talking to me, asking me the same question five or more times, in a matter of half an hour, and it's getting old.
I don't like him, and believe he is selfish, irritable, and he is very over-critical.Giving an immature sibling silent treatment. Bad or good and what advice can you offer?
You have every right to be angry but you should stop with the silent treatment because that is not you. I know this is difficult! I have given silent treatment to people in the past and it has gone no where. Only leads to more anxiety and anger. I know you have probably done this before but let him know that the silent treatment you have been giving him results from how he treats you and it hurts you. You love him very much and want to be able to talk to him but he must treat you with respect.
Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.” BuddhaGiving an immature sibling silent treatment. Bad or good and what advice can you offer?
I think it is time to fly the coop and find your own place instead of staying home with mom, dad, and your sibling. Although 26 is a very late age to be living at home, maybe you moving will make your parents force him to move as well. Siblings tend to get along better when they don't live together anyways.
well yes and no it makes them feel really bad some times yes because they tend to stop bugging you and you can get along the top longest you need to do it is 2 to 4 weeks!
I am so sorry. Your brother sounds like he has an emotional problem that he cannot control. It is called borderline personality disorder. Look it up %26amp; you will get more insight on this illness.
What i would do is do the same thing back to him. Show it how it feels to be treated like that and he will have to realize what he is doing his harming you.make up
Therefore, I've decided to ignore him, as I don't see him changing anytime soon. I've been ignoring him for over three weeks now, but he seems to be really trying to get a response out of me by rapidly trying to open the door to my room when it's locked, knocking on it, and talking to me, asking me the same question five or more times, in a matter of half an hour, and it's getting old.
I don't like him, and believe he is selfish, irritable, and he is very over-critical.Giving an immature sibling silent treatment. Bad or good and what advice can you offer?
You have every right to be angry but you should stop with the silent treatment because that is not you. I know this is difficult! I have given silent treatment to people in the past and it has gone no where. Only leads to more anxiety and anger. I know you have probably done this before but let him know that the silent treatment you have been giving him results from how he treats you and it hurts you. You love him very much and want to be able to talk to him but he must treat you with respect.
Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.” BuddhaGiving an immature sibling silent treatment. Bad or good and what advice can you offer?
I think it is time to fly the coop and find your own place instead of staying home with mom, dad, and your sibling. Although 26 is a very late age to be living at home, maybe you moving will make your parents force him to move as well. Siblings tend to get along better when they don't live together anyways.
well yes and no it makes them feel really bad some times yes because they tend to stop bugging you and you can get along the top longest you need to do it is 2 to 4 weeks!
I am so sorry. Your brother sounds like he has an emotional problem that he cannot control. It is called borderline personality disorder. Look it up %26amp; you will get more insight on this illness.
What i would do is do the same thing back to him. Show it how it feels to be treated like that and he will have to realize what he is doing his harming you.
Really Need advice bad! Pissed off parents and Aunt at me?
Last night I went to a surprise party for my Grandparents 40th wedding anniversary. All my cousins and aunts were there. It was about 50 ppl after a while it got boring I wanted to have some fun. Look I urinated in soap dispenser in the bathroom so when ppl wash there hands there washing with my piss lol. I took my younger cousin he鈥檚 about 10 I think. we took some salt and pepper and put some in our hands we were walking around putting some in ppl drinks and food with out them knowing about it. Just for fun. We would watch them when they took a drink or a bite and see there reactions .This man took a bite of his food he wasn鈥檛 a relative he was just friend of the family. He started to gag my dad caught me told my mom what I did. Then my cousin ratted me out about the soap in the bathroom to my aunt Theresa (who I thought was a cool aunt) She told my mom about the bathroom as well. Everyone is yelling at me. My dad wants to take me home my aunt Theresa is calling me a 4 year old and tells me I鈥檓 so lucky I wasn鈥檛 her son she would of have taken me home in just a diaper and t shirt on. My mom is not defending me. She鈥檚 just standing there agreeing with her. When we got home my mom slapped me and I got punished. There is no way of knowing that this man was allergic to pepper. How would I know that it鈥檚 Impossible to know? I can鈥檛 attend no after school events, she not allowing me to take drivers ed I鈥檓 way to Immature to drive, she took away my cell phone, I pod, xbox, she told me when my friends cant get hold of me because she has my phone and when they call the house phone looking for me. She鈥檚 going to tell them I can鈥檛 talk now I鈥檓 waiting to get my diaper change or I鈥檓 taking a nap some stupid stuff like that. (What she鈥檚 doing is messed up big time). I don鈥檛 really care that much about the other things but the drivers ed I really need to do that. Do you guys think I should just wait it out until she calms down? I鈥檓 going to email my friends and tell them not to call the house that I lost my cell phone that they can email me instead. My mom can鈥檛 take away my computer because I need it for school. What do you think?......thanks DarinReally Need advice bad! Pissed off parents and Aunt at me?
What you did was not remotely funny, it was mean. You were wrong.Really Need advice bad! Pissed off parents and Aunt at me?
I think you should apologize profusely. You should volunteer to do the laundry, take out the trash, clean the cat box, wash the car. etc. In your case I wouldn't blame your folks for unplugging your computer. and grounding you until they can kick you out of THEIR house.
Well Darin - I think you got what you deserve. What a stupid decision that was!!
Grow up.
The very idea of giving a drivers license to someone who acts this way is very scary. I believe your parents are doing the responsible thing.
I think you ARE to immature to drive if you think peeing in soap is funny. You need some help. If you were my kid, you'd be in a lot more trouble.
you are disgusting. you peed in a soap dispenser and let people rub it on their hands? you are a thoughtless little pig.
your dumb! HOW DARE YOU RUIN YOUR GRANDPARENTS PARTY!!!!
I think your mom is totally right! I wouldnt let you take drivers ed either as if you were to drive a car who knows what stupid thing you would do. You apparently do not have good judgement as to what is right and wrong and getting behind the wheel of a 3,000 pound vehicle which could potentially kill someone if you have another lapse in judgement.
You are going to have to work really hard at gaining people's trust. I suggest working on apologizing to everyone for ruining their evening.
Not only should she take away your computer -- you don't NEED it -- lots of kids don't have one -- she should make you write letters of apology to everyone at the party -- with a pen and paper NOT on a word processor. If you are 15 years old and think that people should wash with your urine and you should destroy people's meal at a wonderful special occasion, you need some help. Little boy be happy you don't live at my house-- your whole summer would suck big time if not the rest of the time you lived at home -- you would spend the time learning just what boredom can be -- the only real relief of boredom is good hard physical labor -- you would be cutting my whole lawn with nail scissors not to mention planting and caring for a huge garden and being loaned out to neighbors to pick rocks out of their fields. You would soon be too tired to be bored.
they are right, you are wrong, you acted like a little brat and should be treated like one, it wasnt up to you to know the guy was allergic to pepper, it was up to you to leave his food and drink alone, that was just plain STUPID if you were my kid youd get alot worse then slapped and grounded for a couple weeks, youd do well to see the light of day for the rest of the summer. thats just plain pathetic and childish. and yes she can take your computer away and she should, you can do homework the old fashion way like everyone else used to, or she can lock it down so you can only be on certain sites. personally id pull the plug and make you do the work manually, if it meant driving you to the library and making you do the research myself.
I think you are immature and your mother is doing the right thing. Maybe next time you'll think before you act...after all that is what maturity is all about. Driving is not something you ';NEED'; to do...it is something you want to do...a privilege that your mother RIGHTLY took away because you couldn't control yourself. How is she going to trust you in a car with your LIFE if she can't trust you to sit still and behave at a simple family function. I SAY GO MOM! There need to be more out there willing to take action and we'd have less little monsters roaming the streets looking for trouble.
everyone is right. that was childish and if that is what you do when you get bored you should not be driving. be glad you are not my kid i would have you digging holes just to fill them back up and dig another one
When people organize such a party, it takes lots of time, energy and money. They put a lot of efforts for everything to be perfect -the way they pictured it. So I guess, if you think about it that way, you can understand why they are furious? You didn't know he was allergic to pepper, but why did you think you had the right to spoil this moment for everyone? You really need to think about what you've done and apologize to everyone.Your momprobably ain't really saying that you're getting your diaper changed. Probably just wanted to scare you. And make you feel ashamed. So you'll know how she felt about your behavior : ashamed. You should wait, definetly, cause she has the right to be mad and you seem like a lucky kid (You even have an Ipod or a Xbox -- those are privileges!She is the one giving those to you and when you misbehave she has the right to take them away). You don't NEED to drive --I never had a car until I was 20, I took the bus and walked and used my bike... It's a privilege! I think you should take this time to think about how spoiled you are, and apreciate all that your mother gives to you on a normal babsis. Wait it out, you deserved it.
Your mother owes you no backing whatsoever for dangerous and immature actions like this.
The very fact that you even think what you did is defensible shows a serious lack of maturity and judgement!!
To allow others to come in contact with human waste products (your urine) is not only sickening but dangerous. You could have an infection or some latent disease that may harm another, not to mention the serious gross factor.
And as for the pepper and salt issues, not only allergies to pepper are of concern, but for those with high blood pressure, the additional salt could have cause someone to have a stroke. The pepper allergy could have indeed KILLED this man without intervention. What you did was tantamount to attempted murder!
You should not only wait until YOU calm down, but until YOU SEE REASON!!
Your selfish and immature acts ruined what was supposed to be a beautiful and special time for your Grandparents to celebrate their anniversary and instead, you brought shame upon the entire family!
You need to apologize to your grandparents, your parents, your aunts and uncles and all those in attendance at this event for your selfish, rude and boorish behavior. This wasn't a frat party, it was an anniversary dinner and as such should have been spared your feeble attempt at humor.
While you can and eventually will be forgiven, this event will follow you for years to come at every family event. NO ONE will trust you now. You will have to EARN that trust back which you so carelessly threw away for a thrill seeking moment.
Your mother is justified in removing any and all privelege from your life since your letter doesn't indicate any shame, remorse or sorrow for your actions. Instead, you are seeking to justify yourself and have people cover for you.
Sorry, boy, you acted like a baby not a man.
What you did was not remotely funny, it was mean. You were wrong.Really Need advice bad! Pissed off parents and Aunt at me?
I think you should apologize profusely. You should volunteer to do the laundry, take out the trash, clean the cat box, wash the car. etc. In your case I wouldn't blame your folks for unplugging your computer. and grounding you until they can kick you out of THEIR house.
Well Darin - I think you got what you deserve. What a stupid decision that was!!
Grow up.
The very idea of giving a drivers license to someone who acts this way is very scary. I believe your parents are doing the responsible thing.
I think you ARE to immature to drive if you think peeing in soap is funny. You need some help. If you were my kid, you'd be in a lot more trouble.
you are disgusting. you peed in a soap dispenser and let people rub it on their hands? you are a thoughtless little pig.
your dumb! HOW DARE YOU RUIN YOUR GRANDPARENTS PARTY!!!!
I think your mom is totally right! I wouldnt let you take drivers ed either as if you were to drive a car who knows what stupid thing you would do. You apparently do not have good judgement as to what is right and wrong and getting behind the wheel of a 3,000 pound vehicle which could potentially kill someone if you have another lapse in judgement.
You are going to have to work really hard at gaining people's trust. I suggest working on apologizing to everyone for ruining their evening.
Not only should she take away your computer -- you don't NEED it -- lots of kids don't have one -- she should make you write letters of apology to everyone at the party -- with a pen and paper NOT on a word processor. If you are 15 years old and think that people should wash with your urine and you should destroy people's meal at a wonderful special occasion, you need some help. Little boy be happy you don't live at my house-- your whole summer would suck big time if not the rest of the time you lived at home -- you would spend the time learning just what boredom can be -- the only real relief of boredom is good hard physical labor -- you would be cutting my whole lawn with nail scissors not to mention planting and caring for a huge garden and being loaned out to neighbors to pick rocks out of their fields. You would soon be too tired to be bored.
they are right, you are wrong, you acted like a little brat and should be treated like one, it wasnt up to you to know the guy was allergic to pepper, it was up to you to leave his food and drink alone, that was just plain STUPID if you were my kid youd get alot worse then slapped and grounded for a couple weeks, youd do well to see the light of day for the rest of the summer. thats just plain pathetic and childish. and yes she can take your computer away and she should, you can do homework the old fashion way like everyone else used to, or she can lock it down so you can only be on certain sites. personally id pull the plug and make you do the work manually, if it meant driving you to the library and making you do the research myself.
I think you are immature and your mother is doing the right thing. Maybe next time you'll think before you act...after all that is what maturity is all about. Driving is not something you ';NEED'; to do...it is something you want to do...a privilege that your mother RIGHTLY took away because you couldn't control yourself. How is she going to trust you in a car with your LIFE if she can't trust you to sit still and behave at a simple family function. I SAY GO MOM! There need to be more out there willing to take action and we'd have less little monsters roaming the streets looking for trouble.
everyone is right. that was childish and if that is what you do when you get bored you should not be driving. be glad you are not my kid i would have you digging holes just to fill them back up and dig another one
When people organize such a party, it takes lots of time, energy and money. They put a lot of efforts for everything to be perfect -the way they pictured it. So I guess, if you think about it that way, you can understand why they are furious? You didn't know he was allergic to pepper, but why did you think you had the right to spoil this moment for everyone? You really need to think about what you've done and apologize to everyone.Your momprobably ain't really saying that you're getting your diaper changed. Probably just wanted to scare you. And make you feel ashamed. So you'll know how she felt about your behavior : ashamed. You should wait, definetly, cause she has the right to be mad and you seem like a lucky kid (You even have an Ipod or a Xbox -- those are privileges!She is the one giving those to you and when you misbehave she has the right to take them away). You don't NEED to drive --I never had a car until I was 20, I took the bus and walked and used my bike... It's a privilege! I think you should take this time to think about how spoiled you are, and apreciate all that your mother gives to you on a normal babsis. Wait it out, you deserved it.
Your mother owes you no backing whatsoever for dangerous and immature actions like this.
The very fact that you even think what you did is defensible shows a serious lack of maturity and judgement!!
To allow others to come in contact with human waste products (your urine) is not only sickening but dangerous. You could have an infection or some latent disease that may harm another, not to mention the serious gross factor.
And as for the pepper and salt issues, not only allergies to pepper are of concern, but for those with high blood pressure, the additional salt could have cause someone to have a stroke. The pepper allergy could have indeed KILLED this man without intervention. What you did was tantamount to attempted murder!
You should not only wait until YOU calm down, but until YOU SEE REASON!!
Your selfish and immature acts ruined what was supposed to be a beautiful and special time for your Grandparents to celebrate their anniversary and instead, you brought shame upon the entire family!
You need to apologize to your grandparents, your parents, your aunts and uncles and all those in attendance at this event for your selfish, rude and boorish behavior. This wasn't a frat party, it was an anniversary dinner and as such should have been spared your feeble attempt at humor.
While you can and eventually will be forgiven, this event will follow you for years to come at every family event. NO ONE will trust you now. You will have to EARN that trust back which you so carelessly threw away for a thrill seeking moment.
Your mother is justified in removing any and all privelege from your life since your letter doesn't indicate any shame, remorse or sorrow for your actions. Instead, you are seeking to justify yourself and have people cover for you.
Sorry, boy, you acted like a baby not a man.
What's the worst advice anyones ever given you and what were the consequences?
ALL the details pleaseWhat's the worst advice anyones ever given you and what were the consequences?
';Be honest with everything with each other everything in your relationship';
- Seven words that prove that is a crock of sh*t: Do I look fat in these jeans?What's the worst advice anyones ever given you and what were the consequences?
A professional addiction counselor told me I'm not an alcoholic or an addict and that I only had psychological problems. I took his diagnosis to heart and ended up in the hospital a week later. It took me ten years to get back to recovery.
let me see..sum gurl telling me dat a certain guy liked me when he didn't and his ex girlfriend ended crying like hell over him...i tried cheering her up but she kept running away from me!!!!!!!!!!
i once had a male best friend who i was very close to and we talk alot, he met this girl and they liked each other which is fine by me cuz she is also my friend and any way they got close what realy hurt me that she toke him away of me i could not ask for his advice any more or go to places with him as we used to in fear for her feelings so i got away
i talked to afriend of me ,not realy close friend, about the situation and she said that i should go and talk to my friend's girlfriend and ask her if it was ok to hang around with him, i do not know why i found that a good idea at the time but i went to ask her and it was a complete damage
i lost her friendship cuz she thoght that i want to take him from her , knowing that i brought them together th first time, and i lost his friendship cuz i did not go and talk to him instade og her and the two of them at last broke up cuz it turned out after all that they did not gree totally in anything
now i dont see neither of them much , thanks god
The worst advice I ever recieved was ';take my advice.....';.
I wish I hadn't.
One time people talked me into believe that riding in the back of trucks is safe and legal (which it isn't)...unfortunatley I belived them and we went for a ride...hit a tree ,shattered my spine, cracked three ribs, and I almost died..luckily I can still walk.
';Be honest with everything with each other everything in your relationship';
- Seven words that prove that is a crock of sh*t: Do I look fat in these jeans?What's the worst advice anyones ever given you and what were the consequences?
A professional addiction counselor told me I'm not an alcoholic or an addict and that I only had psychological problems. I took his diagnosis to heart and ended up in the hospital a week later. It took me ten years to get back to recovery.
let me see..sum gurl telling me dat a certain guy liked me when he didn't and his ex girlfriend ended crying like hell over him...i tried cheering her up but she kept running away from me!!!!!!!!!!
i once had a male best friend who i was very close to and we talk alot, he met this girl and they liked each other which is fine by me cuz she is also my friend and any way they got close what realy hurt me that she toke him away of me i could not ask for his advice any more or go to places with him as we used to in fear for her feelings so i got away
i talked to afriend of me ,not realy close friend, about the situation and she said that i should go and talk to my friend's girlfriend and ask her if it was ok to hang around with him, i do not know why i found that a good idea at the time but i went to ask her and it was a complete damage
i lost her friendship cuz she thoght that i want to take him from her , knowing that i brought them together th first time, and i lost his friendship cuz i did not go and talk to him instade og her and the two of them at last broke up cuz it turned out after all that they did not gree totally in anything
now i dont see neither of them much , thanks god
The worst advice I ever recieved was ';take my advice.....';.
I wish I hadn't.
One time people talked me into believe that riding in the back of trucks is safe and legal (which it isn't)...unfortunatley I belived them and we went for a ride...hit a tree ,shattered my spine, cracked three ribs, and I almost died..luckily I can still walk.
Need advice since I feel bad.... what should i do? HELP?????????
tomorrow is my bf's baseball game for lil kids but in a different city which he was gonna go to with some friends since I cant go cuz I work. but his friend called sayin that today they are going to head out over there and stay the night which sucks cuz he works tonight. i dont even know what time the game starts tomorrow and i dont get out til 1 or 2 depending. if it starts later should i just go ahead and go with him over there but come back home later night since i work the next day as well. or just leave it the way it is since we dont really have n e money to spend.... i feel bad that he cant go and i want him to go.. what should i do i need helpNeed advice since I feel bad.... what should i do? HELP?????????
you could get him a sorry card and invite him over to yours for maybe a weekend and spend more time with him
and remember ( talk about his game he played!!!!!!!!!!)
you could get him a sorry card and invite him over to yours for maybe a weekend and spend more time with him
and remember ( talk about his game he played!!!!!!!!!!)
Need Advice... stressing out pretty bad here!?
Ok, so for the last 48 or so hours ive had the most chronic heartburn which has steadily been getting worse, ive tried the heartburn stuff, mylanta and all that, but nothing is working, not even coming close to easing the pain. Ive even tried taking some pain killers to stop it, but nothing is working. I had slight cramps last nite (not hormonal as i do not get that time of the month) which have turned extremely bad tonite to the point where my stomach is actually hot. Yet again pain killers dont help and when i threw up before, there was some blood in it, not much, but it was noticable, and it turns out i havent digested any of my dinner, which was eaten like, 8 hours ago. Its almost 4am here and i wont be able to get to the docs till the morning, and i wouldnt be in any state to drive myself anywhere right now, but i know im not going to be able to sleep coz of the pain, so im just wondering if anyone has any idea whats wrong with me?
Ive lost a fair bit of weight the last few weeks, and ive been heaps tired, but the blood tests the doc did a few weeks back just said thats coz im low in iron... I have also had extremely sensitive and itchy skin the last few days, i know thats prolly not related, but yeah... im freaking. thanks for ur time, i know its long, i just dont know whats going on hey.Need Advice... stressing out pretty bad here!?
idk, consult a specialist or a physistNeed Advice... stressing out pretty bad here!?
i really dont know what might be wrong with you, sorry! but i think you should call someone and get yourself to a doctor ASAP. maybe the ER if thats the only one available to you right now. this isn't just low iron. i know that much for sure.
Ive lost a fair bit of weight the last few weeks, and ive been heaps tired, but the blood tests the doc did a few weeks back just said thats coz im low in iron... I have also had extremely sensitive and itchy skin the last few days, i know thats prolly not related, but yeah... im freaking. thanks for ur time, i know its long, i just dont know whats going on hey.Need Advice... stressing out pretty bad here!?
idk, consult a specialist or a physistNeed Advice... stressing out pretty bad here!?
i really dont know what might be wrong with you, sorry! but i think you should call someone and get yourself to a doctor ASAP. maybe the ER if thats the only one available to you right now. this isn't just low iron. i know that much for sure.
Any advice on dealing with bad times in life?
My immediate family has always been extremely close. ';Just the four of us'; sometimes. All holidays together, frequent visits to each others' houses, etc. We don't have relatives that live nearby, so we stuck together. Within the past 6 months, a lot has happened. My sister got married and moved 6 hours away with her army husband. My mom hit rock bottom with a secretive drug problem none of us were aware of, left my dad and moved to 10 hours away to Florida. My dad is now moving 10+ hours away to Ohio where his mom lives. After my sister left and before my mom took off, I had left a 4-year physically abusive relationship with my son's father and moved my son and I into our own home. Since then, my ex's family (who I was extremely close with) now hates me for hurting their 'baby' (my ex) and does not try to hide that fact. They look disgusted at me whenever I drop my son off with his dad (who lives with his grandmother, the 'God Mother' of the entire family). I lost my 'friends' that I had after the breakup b/c they were ';his friends first'; and they didn't want to cause any tension. I have my son, and I love him with everything I am, but at the same time, I've never been so hurt and lonely... and I really just need some advice on how to deal with things right now. I don't really know any effective coping skills, so any advice would be greatly appreciated.Any advice on dealing with bad times in life?
Humm, well why don't you go to church and join some of the activities, go online and try and meet people in your area, maybe start talking to some of your son's friends parents? Just try and get out and meet people, make your own friends.Any advice on dealing with bad times in life?
learn indifference to ur ex's family and trust in your decisions, they are his family not yours, stop looking at yourself and weighing their reactions to what you know is the correct course of action for your well being and your sons growth.
F*** EM!!! if they don't like it, who cares, it's not their child to raise.
Look for things which interest you. A cooking class, stained glass, painting, sports. Whatever you fancy and where you get to meet other people. This way you are doing something you want to do, you learn what you want to learn and at the same time you have social contact. Not only will it keep you busy and away from thinking all the time about your situation, you will also make new friends.
Good luck to you
Yes, in the end we are all alone. And there are a lot of lonely people in this world. So, what can you do about it? Join an organization whose goals are of interest to you. This is where you can make friends.
when you fall down you can:
1. stay there and let time heal you
2. you can pick up yourself, brush of the dirt, and keep moving. Time will still heal you as you move.
3. Time is our best friend and worst enemy:
Best friend: Time heals all wounds.
Worst enemy: Time waits for no one
Life is full of bumps. but how you rise from a fall is what defines you.
I left my mom 6000 miles away to move to another continent.
It took me 11 more years before i saw her again.
it took my brother 18 more years before he saw our mom.
Its been 20 years since i saw my sister who lives in another continent.
It is funny how life seems to kick you sometimes while you are already down. I'm sorry you are going through these things. It would help a lot if you could find some people to be around that are positive...maybe call up a few old friends. Don't worry about your ex's family...they just need someone to blame but I'm sure deep down they know that you did the right thing and that he was a ';bad apple';. I hope that everything gets better it is sad that good people have to go through these things but it will get better.
Humm, well why don't you go to church and join some of the activities, go online and try and meet people in your area, maybe start talking to some of your son's friends parents? Just try and get out and meet people, make your own friends.Any advice on dealing with bad times in life?
learn indifference to ur ex's family and trust in your decisions, they are his family not yours, stop looking at yourself and weighing their reactions to what you know is the correct course of action for your well being and your sons growth.
F*** EM!!! if they don't like it, who cares, it's not their child to raise.
Look for things which interest you. A cooking class, stained glass, painting, sports. Whatever you fancy and where you get to meet other people. This way you are doing something you want to do, you learn what you want to learn and at the same time you have social contact. Not only will it keep you busy and away from thinking all the time about your situation, you will also make new friends.
Good luck to you
Yes, in the end we are all alone. And there are a lot of lonely people in this world. So, what can you do about it? Join an organization whose goals are of interest to you. This is where you can make friends.
when you fall down you can:
1. stay there and let time heal you
2. you can pick up yourself, brush of the dirt, and keep moving. Time will still heal you as you move.
3. Time is our best friend and worst enemy:
Best friend: Time heals all wounds.
Worst enemy: Time waits for no one
Life is full of bumps. but how you rise from a fall is what defines you.
I left my mom 6000 miles away to move to another continent.
It took me 11 more years before i saw her again.
it took my brother 18 more years before he saw our mom.
Its been 20 years since i saw my sister who lives in another continent.
It is funny how life seems to kick you sometimes while you are already down. I'm sorry you are going through these things. It would help a lot if you could find some people to be around that are positive...maybe call up a few old friends. Don't worry about your ex's family...they just need someone to blame but I'm sure deep down they know that you did the right thing and that he was a ';bad apple';. I hope that everything gets better it is sad that good people have to go through these things but it will get better.
Any advice? Is this a bad thing?
Sometimes bad feelings resurface and I have trouble knowing how to deal with them.
When I was younger I was bullied by other guys in school throughout my school life actually and because of it I always have trouble viewing myself as good as others just because I used to be bullied and I sort of started believing things the bullies said. The guy that started never liked me from the start and would always pick on me by calling me ugly and a girl. Then other guys soon followed and even after he moved they still continued it. I have black hair and hazel eyes even though they think I'm ugly; I like how I look. But I'm glad it happened because I now that I will never be like them and it made me feel more compassionate with others as well caring about other's opinions; which is why I'm here.
Sometimes I like the way I look but then there's times I feel ugly just because I remember what the bullies always said. It feels like no matter how nice I am to others that people just hate me and maybe even think I'm ugly for being bullied.
So does anyone think that being bullied makes you a ugly/bad person? I'd like to be a nice guy. Please be honest and if you think like them then it's okay...I'm used to it. :(Any advice? Is this a bad thing?
well, sorry about the past, you can't change that. I'm pretty sure you're handsome, so that's good. you have these flash backs of the bullies because it's something that's made you who you are. think of the flash backs as a mental scar. but, you know your compassionate %26amp; handsome %26amp; nice, those flash backs remind you not to change your ways. keep your head upAny advice? Is this a bad thing?
Bullies usually just pick on who looks weaker than them.
Usually it has nothing to do with looks. Just once they've picked a target they'll say anything. Just try and shrug it off as best you can.
I think everyone has things they would like to change about the way they look...the key is being happy with yourself. As long as you like yourself it doesn't really matters what others feel. You sound like you are a very compassionate person and that is a great personality trait. Try not to let the memories of bullies cloud who you are. Bullies are the ones to be pitied because they are the ones that don't feel good about theirself.make up
When I was younger I was bullied by other guys in school throughout my school life actually and because of it I always have trouble viewing myself as good as others just because I used to be bullied and I sort of started believing things the bullies said. The guy that started never liked me from the start and would always pick on me by calling me ugly and a girl. Then other guys soon followed and even after he moved they still continued it. I have black hair and hazel eyes even though they think I'm ugly; I like how I look. But I'm glad it happened because I now that I will never be like them and it made me feel more compassionate with others as well caring about other's opinions; which is why I'm here.
Sometimes I like the way I look but then there's times I feel ugly just because I remember what the bullies always said. It feels like no matter how nice I am to others that people just hate me and maybe even think I'm ugly for being bullied.
So does anyone think that being bullied makes you a ugly/bad person? I'd like to be a nice guy. Please be honest and if you think like them then it's okay...I'm used to it. :(Any advice? Is this a bad thing?
well, sorry about the past, you can't change that. I'm pretty sure you're handsome, so that's good. you have these flash backs of the bullies because it's something that's made you who you are. think of the flash backs as a mental scar. but, you know your compassionate %26amp; handsome %26amp; nice, those flash backs remind you not to change your ways. keep your head upAny advice? Is this a bad thing?
Bullies usually just pick on who looks weaker than them.
Usually it has nothing to do with looks. Just once they've picked a target they'll say anything. Just try and shrug it off as best you can.
I think everyone has things they would like to change about the way they look...the key is being happy with yourself. As long as you like yourself it doesn't really matters what others feel. You sound like you are a very compassionate person and that is a great personality trait. Try not to let the memories of bullies cloud who you are. Bullies are the ones to be pitied because they are the ones that don't feel good about theirself.
I'm considering changing from ATT&T to Vonage any advice, has anyone had good or bad dealings with vonage?
yes...its now one of the largest VoIP Service Provider...
To benefit from its features though, try to keep connected to a really high speed internet access
The good thing about it is that you can subscribe and pay in one country, and use the phone in another country...so, if you are in Canada and you subscribe with Vonage, then you move for a vacation to any other country, you can take the phone with you, connect it to a high speed internet, and get it running with the same number...COOL!!!I'm considering changing from ATT%26amp;T to Vonage any advice, has anyone had good or bad dealings with vonage?
The pros of changing to vonage are
1)money savings
2)Calling anywere you like unlimited(some countries extra flat fee)
3)ability to take your number were ever theres an internet connection
4)ability to add a local number were friends and family from overeasea can reach at no extra cost to them
the cons are:
1)Occasional choppy voice(normaly when your internet is being used by other programs)
2)Small delay of abou 1 second between when a person speaks and when you hear em. not realy an issue for a regualr conversation but when your asking somebody a question and it takes +1 sec for them to awnswer it might sound liek there making something up.
3)no 911 service, unless you plan on staying at same spot with your phone
4)High speed internet required, wich eats at profit maring of saving if you ahve to upgrade
5)will not work when the power is out, unless u have a generator for your modem, the router and the phone.
Hope this helps, this list appies to all VOIP comapanys, however Vonage dosnt seem to ever get choppy so dont worry to much about that oneI'm considering changing from ATT%26amp;T to Vonage any advice, has anyone had good or bad dealings with vonage?
I have had Vonage for about 4 months. AT%26amp;T cracked me and I was willing to switch to, two tin cans on a string! Well at times I now think, be careful what you wish for.
PROBLEMS___________________
You still need a phone line, more than likely thru AT%26amp;T :(
You MUST ALWAYS have a good connection, ain鈥檛 going to happen with AT%26amp;T (well at least with me).
611, is always happy to let you know all the problems are in your head, because all their tests showed how wonderful their lines are!
Vonage states they do not have ALL the hidden costs that all the other companies have, but at the end.............You must stay 2 years or you pay them $40.00.
You talk to the Philippines or India almost all of the time, English is an issue!
( Am I back at AT%26amp;T )
All the techs. are in India, English is an issue!
When they don't know what to do, because they read you all the pages they had they___________ Tell you they will call you right back, they don't. They just hang up, or they say_____ we are aware of the problems our Engineers are working on them and they should be fixed in a few hours. This is after they have spent about twenty-five mins. reading their pages to you.
Most of the billing issues go thru the Philippines, English is an issue! When you try to pin them to an answer, I have been put on an indefinite hold! I never received the invoices I was told that they were e-mailing as we were speaking?
Funny, I got all of their, tell a friend and extra offers?
Don't FORGET those free calls to The Five Free European Countries ONLY APPLY TO LANDLINES!
Cell phones and Europeans are of one.
The funny thing is when I spoke to them about the charges that was never an issue. I even made comments about the pricing of International calls was in some ways opposite to ours (landlines vs. cell)
In Northern Calif. the clarity is not so good. The delay that someone else wrote about is really a problem. Most people think I am talking on a cell phone. I am guessing other areas do not have a lot of the problems I do, such as weather. There are times that the lines works OK鈥︹€︹€︹€︹€︹€?
Most places do not have Vonage phone numbers.
The sad thing is, I think all big business is the same:
HURRAY FOR ME, SCREW YOU!
New company,old problems, modern day way of doing business!
PS鈥︹€︹€︹€︹€heck your accounting every month!
It may be, it will work better for you,I hope so if you change.
Prime service ever since I switched! Not to mention that my bill was more than halved... You can access and alter account features online as well...
Check out the below website for the latest savings offer that Vonage has...
To benefit from its features though, try to keep connected to a really high speed internet access
The good thing about it is that you can subscribe and pay in one country, and use the phone in another country...so, if you are in Canada and you subscribe with Vonage, then you move for a vacation to any other country, you can take the phone with you, connect it to a high speed internet, and get it running with the same number...COOL!!!I'm considering changing from ATT%26amp;T to Vonage any advice, has anyone had good or bad dealings with vonage?
The pros of changing to vonage are
1)money savings
2)Calling anywere you like unlimited(some countries extra flat fee)
3)ability to take your number were ever theres an internet connection
4)ability to add a local number were friends and family from overeasea can reach at no extra cost to them
the cons are:
1)Occasional choppy voice(normaly when your internet is being used by other programs)
2)Small delay of abou 1 second between when a person speaks and when you hear em. not realy an issue for a regualr conversation but when your asking somebody a question and it takes +1 sec for them to awnswer it might sound liek there making something up.
3)no 911 service, unless you plan on staying at same spot with your phone
4)High speed internet required, wich eats at profit maring of saving if you ahve to upgrade
5)will not work when the power is out, unless u have a generator for your modem, the router and the phone.
Hope this helps, this list appies to all VOIP comapanys, however Vonage dosnt seem to ever get choppy so dont worry to much about that oneI'm considering changing from ATT%26amp;T to Vonage any advice, has anyone had good or bad dealings with vonage?
I have had Vonage for about 4 months. AT%26amp;T cracked me and I was willing to switch to, two tin cans on a string! Well at times I now think, be careful what you wish for.
PROBLEMS___________________
You still need a phone line, more than likely thru AT%26amp;T :(
You MUST ALWAYS have a good connection, ain鈥檛 going to happen with AT%26amp;T (well at least with me).
611, is always happy to let you know all the problems are in your head, because all their tests showed how wonderful their lines are!
Vonage states they do not have ALL the hidden costs that all the other companies have, but at the end.............You must stay 2 years or you pay them $40.00.
You talk to the Philippines or India almost all of the time, English is an issue!
( Am I back at AT%26amp;T )
All the techs. are in India, English is an issue!
When they don't know what to do, because they read you all the pages they had they___________ Tell you they will call you right back, they don't. They just hang up, or they say_____ we are aware of the problems our Engineers are working on them and they should be fixed in a few hours. This is after they have spent about twenty-five mins. reading their pages to you.
Most of the billing issues go thru the Philippines, English is an issue! When you try to pin them to an answer, I have been put on an indefinite hold! I never received the invoices I was told that they were e-mailing as we were speaking?
Funny, I got all of their, tell a friend and extra offers?
Don't FORGET those free calls to The Five Free European Countries ONLY APPLY TO LANDLINES!
Cell phones and Europeans are of one.
The funny thing is when I spoke to them about the charges that was never an issue. I even made comments about the pricing of International calls was in some ways opposite to ours (landlines vs. cell)
In Northern Calif. the clarity is not so good. The delay that someone else wrote about is really a problem. Most people think I am talking on a cell phone. I am guessing other areas do not have a lot of the problems I do, such as weather. There are times that the lines works OK鈥︹€︹€︹€︹€︹€?
Most places do not have Vonage phone numbers.
The sad thing is, I think all big business is the same:
HURRAY FOR ME, SCREW YOU!
New company,old problems, modern day way of doing business!
PS鈥︹€︹€︹€︹€heck your accounting every month!
It may be, it will work better for you,I hope so if you change.
Prime service ever since I switched! Not to mention that my bill was more than halved... You can access and alter account features online as well...
Check out the below website for the latest savings offer that Vonage has...
What's the worst advice anyones ever given you and what were the consequences?
ALL the details please.What's the worst advice anyones ever given you and what were the consequences?
It wasn't advice for me but for one of my exes. His friend told him the way to french kiss was to lick the other person's mouth's roof and he tried it on me. It freaked me out at first when he was trying to lick the roof of my mouth lol but then he explained and I showed him the right way to do it.What's the worst advice anyones ever given you and what were the consequences?
my friends all told me to marry my first husband...I did...he was gay....
my uncle conrad told me to gett a job at the rub and tug on route 7. i didunt know what i wuld have to clene up. yuk
It wasn't advice for me but for one of my exes. His friend told him the way to french kiss was to lick the other person's mouth's roof and he tried it on me. It freaked me out at first when he was trying to lick the roof of my mouth lol but then he explained and I showed him the right way to do it.What's the worst advice anyones ever given you and what were the consequences?
my friends all told me to marry my first husband...I did...he was gay....
my uncle conrad told me to gett a job at the rub and tug on route 7. i didunt know what i wuld have to clene up. yuk
Fashion Advice for someone with bad judgement: Which color of this jacket do y'all like best?
go here and check out the colors, i just thought this would get a wide range of opinions. Thanks!
i like the green and saddle, but i my judgment is verifiable as awful
http://www.llbean.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/CategoryDisplay?page=sherpa-fleece-lined-quarry-jacket%26amp;categoryId=51587%26amp;storeId=1%26amp;catalogId=1%26amp;langId=-1%26amp;parentCategory=502794%26amp;cat4=502785%26amp;shop_method=pp%26amp;feat=502794-tnFashion Advice for someone with bad judgement: Which color of this jacket do y'all like best?
I like the Cinder one best! I don't know I like shades like those these days. But really, you should go buy the color you like the most because you'll be wearing it! :)Fashion Advice for someone with bad judgement: Which color of this jacket do y'all like best?
I say go with the cinder.
i like the saddle best because it will probably go allot better with what clothes you already have
it's such a basic jacket that you can't really choose a wrong color here. all of the colors they offer are nice.
Both are good choices. I prefer the green!
After viewing each jacket on a model, I think Saddle is the best choice.
What color is your hair? Are you fair-skinned? Darker toned? What color are your eyes? When you answer I'll edit.
Saddle is good. I also like Cinder =)
the blue's okay(:
the cinder
i like the cinder and the green one. they seem as if they would suit you (from your description) the best. but im no expert =D
Fashion Advice? Be you don't try to be like someone else to make other people happy.
I suggest Saddle !!!
I like saddle too, green comes in 2nd, so you didn't do too bad.
the green and the saddle is also my two choice
but if i have to pick
i would pick the saddle coloured coat..
it will also go well with any kind of shirts and jeans..
good luck..
Nice jacket. I like the Kelp Green or the brown.
I like the saddle. Seems like it would go with almost anything. There both nice colors.
Personally, I like the blue and cinder.
My order of preference:
Rangeley Blue
Saddle
Kelp Green
Cinder
What a great buy at either $59 or $69 !
And LL Bean stands by their products, so make a choice before they're all sold out !
(Yikes ! I'm beginning to sound like someone from those late night shopping channels !)
(:0)(++++
the green's nasty, the saddle's nice though.
I'm guessing you have brown eyes. If you had blue eyes, I'd suggest the gray or blue, but for brown eyes I'd suggest the green or brown. Both of them are very nice shades and I don't think you could go wrong with either. If I had to choose one, I'd choose the green because it will be more versatile through the winter than the caramel brown (a chocolate brown would be a different issue) and green will carry you through the spring. It'll be in season 9 months out of the year.
That's a nice jacket and at a good price too. I might have to do some Christmas shopping--thanks for sharing the link.
greens pretty good
i like the green and saddle, but i my judgment is verifiable as awful
http://www.llbean.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/CategoryDisplay?page=sherpa-fleece-lined-quarry-jacket%26amp;categoryId=51587%26amp;storeId=1%26amp;catalogId=1%26amp;langId=-1%26amp;parentCategory=502794%26amp;cat4=502785%26amp;shop_method=pp%26amp;feat=502794-tnFashion Advice for someone with bad judgement: Which color of this jacket do y'all like best?
I like the Cinder one best! I don't know I like shades like those these days. But really, you should go buy the color you like the most because you'll be wearing it! :)Fashion Advice for someone with bad judgement: Which color of this jacket do y'all like best?
I say go with the cinder.
i like the saddle best because it will probably go allot better with what clothes you already have
it's such a basic jacket that you can't really choose a wrong color here. all of the colors they offer are nice.
Both are good choices. I prefer the green!
After viewing each jacket on a model, I think Saddle is the best choice.
What color is your hair? Are you fair-skinned? Darker toned? What color are your eyes? When you answer I'll edit.
Saddle is good. I also like Cinder =)
the blue's okay(:
the cinder
i like the cinder and the green one. they seem as if they would suit you (from your description) the best. but im no expert =D
Fashion Advice? Be you don't try to be like someone else to make other people happy.
I suggest Saddle !!!
I like saddle too, green comes in 2nd, so you didn't do too bad.
the green and the saddle is also my two choice
but if i have to pick
i would pick the saddle coloured coat..
it will also go well with any kind of shirts and jeans..
good luck..
Nice jacket. I like the Kelp Green or the brown.
I like the saddle. Seems like it would go with almost anything. There both nice colors.
Personally, I like the blue and cinder.
My order of preference:
Rangeley Blue
Saddle
Kelp Green
Cinder
What a great buy at either $59 or $69 !
And LL Bean stands by their products, so make a choice before they're all sold out !
(Yikes ! I'm beginning to sound like someone from those late night shopping channels !)
(:0)(++++
the green's nasty, the saddle's nice though.
I'm guessing you have brown eyes. If you had blue eyes, I'd suggest the gray or blue, but for brown eyes I'd suggest the green or brown. Both of them are very nice shades and I don't think you could go wrong with either. If I had to choose one, I'd choose the green because it will be more versatile through the winter than the caramel brown (a chocolate brown would be a different issue) and green will carry you through the spring. It'll be in season 9 months out of the year.
That's a nice jacket and at a good price too. I might have to do some Christmas shopping--thanks for sharing the link.
greens pretty good
I have a bad odor problem don't no what to do need your advice it ruining my life i am 24?
need adviceI have a bad odor problem don't no what to do need your advice it ruining my life i am 24?
yeah, your question needs more additional details, body odor? mouth odor?
hmmm... going to the doctor would be best, or your gynecologist
edit- Not having it for check would make it more scary, doctors wants to help you and not harm you, keep in mind that it might get worst if your not going to check on it. dont worry, doctors understand that this situation is very sensitive and understands privacy.I have a bad odor problem don't no what to do need your advice it ruining my life i am 24?
Well i am 20 n had da same problem.U HAVE to watch wat u eat. wat u eat flows through ur body. Garlic and onions do not help. Eat plenty of fruit n veggies. they clean they system on keeps da odor down. Also the vagina is suppose 2 hav a musky smell 2 it n dats how u kno it is healthy. bu as women we dont like it so use Vagisil powder wen u get out the shower.It keeps odor down,helps prevent moisture which can cause yeast infections and give u back that confidence u need. I hope my info can help alot.
You need to see a doctor. You may have a yeast infection (most likely) but it needs to be diagnosed by a doctor or nurse.
You have to have an exam.
Also it could be another infection and again a doctor needs to check you out. And have lab work done.
Make an appointment today with someone.
Visit www.plannedparenthood.com if you dont have a doctor.
Be sure to wash regularly with a non scented soap, change and wash your clothes frequently. Unfortunately nasty vag odors are normal.
If you are experiencing any itchiness, unusual discharge, or ';really bad rotten egg smell'; you should see a doctor.
Odor where? Underarms? down there? breath?
You definitely need to see your OB/ GYN. You could have an underlying health issue causing the odor.
Watch what you eat. Drink a lot of water. They do have prescription strength deoderant at Wal-mart.
douche
yeah, your question needs more additional details, body odor? mouth odor?
hmmm... going to the doctor would be best, or your gynecologist
edit- Not having it for check would make it more scary, doctors wants to help you and not harm you, keep in mind that it might get worst if your not going to check on it. dont worry, doctors understand that this situation is very sensitive and understands privacy.I have a bad odor problem don't no what to do need your advice it ruining my life i am 24?
Well i am 20 n had da same problem.U HAVE to watch wat u eat. wat u eat flows through ur body. Garlic and onions do not help. Eat plenty of fruit n veggies. they clean they system on keeps da odor down. Also the vagina is suppose 2 hav a musky smell 2 it n dats how u kno it is healthy. bu as women we dont like it so use Vagisil powder wen u get out the shower.It keeps odor down,helps prevent moisture which can cause yeast infections and give u back that confidence u need. I hope my info can help alot.
You need to see a doctor. You may have a yeast infection (most likely) but it needs to be diagnosed by a doctor or nurse.
You have to have an exam.
Also it could be another infection and again a doctor needs to check you out. And have lab work done.
Make an appointment today with someone.
Visit www.plannedparenthood.com if you dont have a doctor.
Be sure to wash regularly with a non scented soap, change and wash your clothes frequently. Unfortunately nasty vag odors are normal.
If you are experiencing any itchiness, unusual discharge, or ';really bad rotten egg smell'; you should see a doctor.
Odor where? Underarms? down there? breath?
You definitely need to see your OB/ GYN. You could have an underlying health issue causing the odor.
Watch what you eat. Drink a lot of water. They do have prescription strength deoderant at Wal-mart.
douche
Need Advice after a Really Bad Breakup?
Ok you guys....I need some seriouse advice and encouragement on how to ';get over'; a bad break up. My ex(also my baby's dad) and I are no longer together...we've had several problems for past 3 years...and i just really got sick of it. So we seperated and I refused to take him back..But if i know im doing the right thing...why does is hurt so bad? How can i cope with knowing that he and i will never be together again after several DESPERATE attempts to salvage the relationship?? I know that if i didnt have my daughter, i wouldnt feel like this...so what can i do? Im soul tied! Falling in love with someone who is not in love with you is a horrible, terrible, torturistic feeling :(Need Advice after a Really Bad Breakup?
Hey Muffin! Hope you're not too devastated. At least now you're out of the torment. It's a time of adjustment to life without him for you now. Changes will always be tough in the beginning. Do talk to good counselors, reliable friends,pastors and get your mind busy with some meaningful activities %26amp; people .Get into support groups. Cry to feel better and allow time to heal the deep pain within.Remember you still have a child to invest your love in. Stay strong for her sake.This sorrow will not be forever.
Take care..Need Advice after a Really Bad Breakup?
Muffin, you mentioned that if you didn't have a child it be different. How so? You both have to set the same goals for the relationship. You both knew what it took to make it not work. Now, stop feeling guilty about the relationship not working, or being a victim and start living for the future. Make sure he does his part in taking care of your daughter and you start taking care of you.
Dont be codependent. Stay strong and move forward. If he doesn't love you it will NOT work. The relationship will be one sided and that is not fair to you or him. You don't want him to feel obligated to stay with you and then he'll cheat it will be more devasting to you. Us women always want to work it out....not sure what is wrong with some of these men.
So stay strong, stay focused, stay healthy for your childs sake.
Take care.
1. Calm down
2. Wash my car
3. Shine my shoes.
There. Isn't that better?
Hey Muffin! Hope you're not too devastated. At least now you're out of the torment. It's a time of adjustment to life without him for you now. Changes will always be tough in the beginning. Do talk to good counselors, reliable friends,pastors and get your mind busy with some meaningful activities %26amp; people .Get into support groups. Cry to feel better and allow time to heal the deep pain within.Remember you still have a child to invest your love in. Stay strong for her sake.This sorrow will not be forever.
Take care..Need Advice after a Really Bad Breakup?
Muffin, you mentioned that if you didn't have a child it be different. How so? You both have to set the same goals for the relationship. You both knew what it took to make it not work. Now, stop feeling guilty about the relationship not working, or being a victim and start living for the future. Make sure he does his part in taking care of your daughter and you start taking care of you.
Dont be codependent. Stay strong and move forward. If he doesn't love you it will NOT work. The relationship will be one sided and that is not fair to you or him. You don't want him to feel obligated to stay with you and then he'll cheat it will be more devasting to you. Us women always want to work it out....not sure what is wrong with some of these men.
So stay strong, stay focused, stay healthy for your childs sake.
Take care.
1. Calm down
2. Wash my car
3. Shine my shoes.
There. Isn't that better?
Advice on dating the bad boys?
I can't help it, I just love the bad guys. and nice guys never like me anyways, its always the rocker/band/potsmoking/player/waytooflir鈥?types that are all over me. I don't know why though, b/c I really dont do a lot of that stuff %26amp; i think im pretty honest in relationships. i guess i am kinda a flirt though. anyways, what is some advice on dating bad boys? Like Justin Bobby from the Hills type bad boys. the kind that all the girls want %26amp; that even when you're the one with him you feel like he's not all yours. and if there are any bad boys out there i'd especially appreciate your advice since you know best! haha. but i'd love anyone's helpAdvice on dating the bad boys?
just have lots of gothic/bondage sex with them. that's what they want anyway.Advice on dating the bad boys?
flirt and act like you dont want them.
i dont think it'll
work thats the same for me
the bad boys always go after me as well
but it wouldnt work for me because
you just feel like another girl on there list ya know?
but it doesnt hurt to flirt ha
I think if u like them try giving it ur best shot..
But they are the ';bad'; type so u gotta be careful so u never no what they'll do and they can also get U into lots of trouble if their too bad!
wow, ive seen some stupid questions but this might top the list. why would you want to be with a
';bad boy'; thats just stupid. people that see that are gonna think that your trashy and if that relationship actually goes through it won't do nothin for you except get you in a lot of trouble. after you and bad boy break up cause he's gotten all he wants from you ain't nobody thats halfway deceint gonna want you no more cause what you've been with.
girls who like bad boys are the reason why nice guys win... when they realize what douches they thought they were attracted to then they realize the truth
Here's a tip....DON'T
2 possible outcomes- Honestly this is what wil happen raped or killed.
itll all end in disastermake up
just have lots of gothic/bondage sex with them. that's what they want anyway.Advice on dating the bad boys?
flirt and act like you dont want them.
i dont think it'll
work thats the same for me
the bad boys always go after me as well
but it wouldnt work for me because
you just feel like another girl on there list ya know?
but it doesnt hurt to flirt ha
I think if u like them try giving it ur best shot..
But they are the ';bad'; type so u gotta be careful so u never no what they'll do and they can also get U into lots of trouble if their too bad!
wow, ive seen some stupid questions but this might top the list. why would you want to be with a
';bad boy'; thats just stupid. people that see that are gonna think that your trashy and if that relationship actually goes through it won't do nothin for you except get you in a lot of trouble. after you and bad boy break up cause he's gotten all he wants from you ain't nobody thats halfway deceint gonna want you no more cause what you've been with.
girls who like bad boys are the reason why nice guys win... when they realize what douches they thought they were attracted to then they realize the truth
Here's a tip....DON'T
2 possible outcomes- Honestly this is what wil happen raped or killed.
itll all end in disaster
Advice for really, really bad sleep problems for a 6-month-old?
My daughter is almost 6 months old, and we discovered a few weeks ago that she has multiple food allergies and a general problem digesting protein. We now have the allergies under control (we think), and she's much happier overall. Her constant, painful gas is gone. But it's been two weeks, and she still wakes up several times an hour, all night long. It's hard to be sure, but we don't think she's in any pain at this point. She still wakes up thrashing around even if she's right next to me in bed, and she not only thrashes but also screams frantically when I put her in her crib, car seat, swing, or bouncer. She learned how to roll over in swaddling months ago, so that's a safety hazard. We've tried all the sleep training methods that everyone always recommends, and nothing makes a bit of difference. She will literally scream for hours and hours if we try to let her ';cry it out';, and she's never once fallen asleep by herself, despite weeks of consistently putting her to bed drowsy but awake, etc. If I rock her to sleep, she wakes up screaming after 20-40 minutes. The only way she'll sleep at all is on my chest, but even that's not an option anymore - she's so strong and thrashes so much that she gave me a bloody lip last night. She's on medication for reflux to see if that would help, but it hasn't (we didn't really think she had reflux anyway). Our pediatrician and a neurologist both say it's rough but she should grow out of it soon...but it's been six months and it's getting worse and worse, not better. None of the sleep books even begin to address this extreme of a sleep problem. Has anyone else experienced this, and what ended up finally happening? I love my baby so much, but I'm about to go crazy from sleep deprivation. My family has been helping as much as they can, but they're worn out too. I need to see the light at the end of the tunnel!Advice for really, really bad sleep problems for a 6-month-old?
Well, I do not have any real advice for you. I can tell you that what you are experiencing is not ';within the norm'; Meaning that a baby that wakes up from a sound sleep crying and thrashing is in my humble opinion experiencing some some of pain or discomfort. This is something that no Doctor should ignore of dismiss.
I would take your daughter in for further evaluation.
of course there is always the benadryl route. that usually knocks them right out. and can be used as part of the ';drowsy'; but not sleeping method.Advice for really, really bad sleep problems for a 6-month-old?
You have mention that your baby doesn't sleep at night ? How about in the days ? Does she sleeps in the day ? Try preventing her to sleep in day time therefore she will be tired in the night. My mother will always do the water sipping sound to calm 2 of my babies last time.
You could try it, its very miracle and I have no scientific explanation to it.
Get a glass of water, take a sip, don't drink it, keep it in your mouth and start to suck in airs, your will make this weird *wosh wosh* sound. Don't touch the baby, leave her in the bed, never carry a baby to sleep. This miracle sound will calm your baby and make them smile and dose off. Don't ask me why, this only works on new born to 12 months.
Good luck
It sounds like your daughter might have colic. I have a nephew who does the same thing and he has colic. Has that been ruled out yet? Don't let this go, it's not normal and it's not ok. Keep going to different docs until you have an answer. Then you'll both feel better.
As long as she's not in pain and all of her medical issues have been taken care of from what you can ascertain, she will be fine.... don't worry, this too shall pass. Put it in your mindset that she will not be waking up every hour when she is 10. It's just a phase. In the meantime, do whatever you have to do to get through each night... it's torture, but it's a part of motherhood. Colic babies are like this too (my son had colic), and I was up every hour or so rocking him, singing to him, rubbing his back trying to lull him back to sleep. But it won't last forever, and she is definitely worth it!
Your child is doing what mine child did when it was like 3 weeks old. It lasted for about two weeks and we finally did some research and found out that he had ';silent Reflux';. The doctor kept telling us that it was colic, but we knew better. SO we asked him to put him on reflux medicine. He prescribed a liquid generic Zantac. This solved the problem the first time out. However, I know people who have tried the Zantac and it didn't help, so they had to go to another reflux medicine and that worked.
Also my son is lactose intolerant and has multiple food allergies, so we have him on Nutramigen and that also helps a whole lot. It is not cheap, but it helps him.
Well, I do not have any real advice for you. I can tell you that what you are experiencing is not ';within the norm'; Meaning that a baby that wakes up from a sound sleep crying and thrashing is in my humble opinion experiencing some some of pain or discomfort. This is something that no Doctor should ignore of dismiss.
I would take your daughter in for further evaluation.
of course there is always the benadryl route. that usually knocks them right out. and can be used as part of the ';drowsy'; but not sleeping method.Advice for really, really bad sleep problems for a 6-month-old?
You have mention that your baby doesn't sleep at night ? How about in the days ? Does she sleeps in the day ? Try preventing her to sleep in day time therefore she will be tired in the night. My mother will always do the water sipping sound to calm 2 of my babies last time.
You could try it, its very miracle and I have no scientific explanation to it.
Get a glass of water, take a sip, don't drink it, keep it in your mouth and start to suck in airs, your will make this weird *wosh wosh* sound. Don't touch the baby, leave her in the bed, never carry a baby to sleep. This miracle sound will calm your baby and make them smile and dose off. Don't ask me why, this only works on new born to 12 months.
Good luck
It sounds like your daughter might have colic. I have a nephew who does the same thing and he has colic. Has that been ruled out yet? Don't let this go, it's not normal and it's not ok. Keep going to different docs until you have an answer. Then you'll both feel better.
As long as she's not in pain and all of her medical issues have been taken care of from what you can ascertain, she will be fine.... don't worry, this too shall pass. Put it in your mindset that she will not be waking up every hour when she is 10. It's just a phase. In the meantime, do whatever you have to do to get through each night... it's torture, but it's a part of motherhood. Colic babies are like this too (my son had colic), and I was up every hour or so rocking him, singing to him, rubbing his back trying to lull him back to sleep. But it won't last forever, and she is definitely worth it!
Your child is doing what mine child did when it was like 3 weeks old. It lasted for about two weeks and we finally did some research and found out that he had ';silent Reflux';. The doctor kept telling us that it was colic, but we knew better. SO we asked him to put him on reflux medicine. He prescribed a liquid generic Zantac. This solved the problem the first time out. However, I know people who have tried the Zantac and it didn't help, so they had to go to another reflux medicine and that worked.
Also my son is lactose intolerant and has multiple food allergies, so we have him on Nutramigen and that also helps a whole lot. It is not cheap, but it helps him.
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