Advice please, what a bad day ive had :( need sum help?

right what a day, where do i begin. im a 19 yr old lad, The girl i really like has told me we shud just be friends even tho she likes me so much she cant say how much. i dont understand that for a start, yeah shes not ready to take it further but come on! IS there a chance for us in the future you rekon?


and secondly, my best friend since we were 13 has told me shes been in love with me since then, and actually wants to spend the rest of her life with me because im the only thing she thinks of even tho shes been with her boyfriend for 4 years. so my best friend of all time has only been there because she loves me. That makes everything so unreal between us.





Im fed up with doing the chasing. WHY IS IT THE GUY THAT HAS TO CHASE THE GIRL???! if i stop doing the chasing, will a girl chase me? preferably not another one of my mates





and, is there ever a chance for ex's to get back together even when split up for months n months?Advice please, what a bad day ive had :( need sum help?
Some girls want a guy that is willing to fight for her. Don't give up so easily. keep asking her but know when to stop and wait until the next day. wow. aren't you the drama queen.Advice please, what a bad day ive had :( need sum help?
wow thats a lot! First things first..men don't want to be chased they want to chase..If the girl likes you so much she just can't say it's because she is not attracted to you and doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Your best friend should be there for you if she loves you and there is nothing unreal about that. you just didn't see how she felt because you are not into her.


Stop chasing and let it happen. When you see the one that makes your heart beat faster you will be in the mood for a run.


Why would you want to get back together with an ex that wasn't good enough the first time around?
wow, what a day....





first off, the girl who wants to be friends doesn't really like you, sorry to say. she probably thinks ur an awesome guy (friends type).





Ur besfriend....just be honest with her and tell her how u feel.





....yes girls chase, but I wouldn't hold my brealth...it ur tired of chasing, then don't for a while.





...about the ex--- leave the past in the past..move on!





best of luck!
Um maybe some chance but go with some one that really loves you. Ur going to spend ur whole life with tem so make teh right choice. Also it si best you go after te girl cause for some reason they like it more when you go after them. Not them after u
wow rough day! well keep your head up! usually i am good at giving advice, but i dont know what to say about your situation! i hope your day gets better thats all i can say! XOXO
Hmm. WELL for the girl you like, I think you should wait until she changes her mind about waiting. If you keep pushing and pushing her, she'll get frustrated and run away from you. Just try to be a real friend and let things escalate. If she says she likes you, then yes, there's a chance in the future. But be patient!! (I was patient with my crush for 2 years, and now we've been dating for 11 months!)


Secondly, your best friend needs to get her priorities straight. That's not right if she's telling you one thing and has a boyfriend of 4 years obviously. Tell her how you feel, if you don't, that will only give her hope that you like her in that way. Just because she says she loves you romantically DOESN'T mean that she's been there for you only because of that. She obviously cares about you no matter how you THOUGHT she felt. Either way, she's there for you and she cares, so things aren't necessarily ';unreal.'; Wouldn't you agree that, since you say you are ';best friends,'; she would still be there for you if she weren't ';in love.'; That's what best friends do, and there is no way she went 6 years being your best friend and you didn't find out she ';loved'; you. Sometime along the way of being your best friend, she fell in love with you.





The guy chasing the girl is just what a girl wants. If you find a girl and you feel like all you're doing is chasing and chasing and you don't get any response from her, then forget it. She doesn't need you in HER life, so don't waste your time!





Theeeen the case of the ex. It depends on the situation. Everyone usually says that if it didn't work out the first time, what makes you think it will the second? That's up for you to decide. Is it worth it? Is the reason you broke up the first time still an issue now?





Good luck and follow your heart!