I'm a 17 & I've Been BAD! Please Give Me Some Advice On How to Tell My MOM all the BAD News- I have a LIST?

I'm 17- usually have a and b grades....except this Senior year





list( i have hidden these facts for about a month)


1. Owe 120 for Fundraising to school


2. Got a no Seat Belt Ticket %26amp; have2 go2 court Jan 20,of this year


3. Failing Graduation Requirement class- A.P Gov


4. Have Been absent so many times can't count, but i really was in school, but wrong classes


5. Got a upper lip Piercing MONROE yesterday (she hates piercings)





Yes i Know its all my fault


BUT PLEASE JUST GIVE ME ADVICE ON HOW TO TELL HER ALL THIS TOMORROW AND HER NOT TO BE SO MAD!!! I CANT HIDE IT ANYMORE BECAUSE SHE HAS TO GO TO SCHOOL TOMORROW TO TALK TO MY PRINCIPAL!I'm a 17 %26amp; I've Been BAD! Please Give Me Some Advice On How to Tell My MOM all the BAD News- I have a LIST?
All right lets see.


#1. I would suggest getting a job asap so that you can pay for it if you can put paying it off for a week or two if not then when you sit your mom down to tell her about the ticket also tell her about that and you'll be able to pay her back after you get a paycheck from the job you should get. (plus your probably going to need money for your ticket too) You could also maybe talk to an aunt or an uncle to see if they can lend you the money and you can pay them back and see if they can keep it on the downlow so your mom doesnt know.


#2.The most important one to tell her about is your ticket and court hearing becuase if you dont tell and you miss it you'll be in even bigger trouble not only that but she'll eventually find out because if you miss it she'll recieve a call or some kind of notice. So sit her down and say mom i really need to talk to then explain what happened.


#3. You might not have to tell her about that depending upon how long you have left in this class. See if you can raise your grade even just a little even if its to a D so at least you'll pass. Ask for extra credit or try to get a tutor.


#4.You need to talk to you guidence counselor about this not your mom and explain to them the situation. They probably have you go around and get a paper signed by the teachers of the casses you were in to show proof you were there.


#5. You cant hide that and dont try to. Just go about your day as normal she'll eventually see it. But if your worried about it and how shes going to react with everything else you tell her then i suggest you just take it out and leave it out. You can always get it redone when their isnt so much tension between you too. (you can always redo it yourself its not very hard my sister does all her piering herself.)


I dont how well this helps but i hope it helped a littleI'm a 17 %26amp; I've Been BAD! Please Give Me Some Advice On How to Tell My MOM all the BAD News- I have a LIST?
Oh, SHITTT!





Dude, you can't freaking tell her ALL of this all at once! She'll have a heart attack! :/ Good luck, you is gunna need it!
You should've thought about the consequences of this a long time ago kid..sorry.





Your mom is going to kill you





Good luck =)
You are so done. Consider getting a GED??
Go to her right now and look her in the eye and tell her Mom we need to talk. Then tell her that you have done some things that you are ashamed of but you can't keep them hidden from her any longer. Then tell her. There will probably be some yelling, and tears, but keep talking. Once you have finished let her know that you realize you are not as grown up as you thought and that you feel these were bad judgment calls on your part. Tell her that the principal will probably be discussing some of this with her tomorrow. And you'd like her help in getting things cleared up. Tell her you need her advice.





With hat in hand, telling her everything, being honest with your feelings in admitting you screwed up, and asking her for help, is the most mature thing you can do. You've learned a hard lesson here. But more importantly you went to your Mom for help.