Okay.. i've really screwed up bad, i need some advice?

ok.. well I Really like this girl, and i know that she liked me about 2-3weeks ago, but im not so sure if she still does anymore... im dont know what i've done, but i really wanna be with her. She'll look at me every once in a while at school, but she wont wave and say hi like she used to. And i dont wave or saying hi either. Also, to top it off i havent talked to her in about a week AND i've tried to phone like 3 times and she never answered. But thats not really a problem b/c i overheard one of her friends talking to someone saying ';oh,susan never answers her phone.. u phone her';. I THINK that she may still be interested in me, and i really really wanna be with her (i've just had soooo much going on this week i cant even describe it all in this question) i just dont know what to do, or say and i dont know if i can ask her out again, cause well i dunno its hard.. cause we dated before, in the summer but only for about a month and a half, and broke up b/c she wasnt allowed datingOkay.. i've really screwed up bad, i need some advice?
take it slowly. first learn to be her friend. Girls are shy sometimes so u be then bigger person and go up to say hi. talk about something she is instered in and she will talk back. when time is ready then u make ur move. you are still young take ur time. u can never push things like this. Best of LuckOkay.. i've really screwed up bad, i need some advice?
She Likes You
so you like her and you think she likes you?? why are you asking us questions and not her?!!!





time is running out go now and pick up the phone!!! :)
You said you guys broke up before because she wasn't allowed to date. Do you know if she's allowed to date now? If not, maybe she still likes you but is hanging back because she's not allowed to date. Or maybe her parents told her not to hang around with you. To tell you the truth, there could be a million reasons why she isn't talking to you. The only way to find out for sure what's going on is to talk to her. When you see her at school, walk up to her and talk to her. You could just say that you haven't talked to her lately and wonder how she's doing, and then ask if there's some reason why she hasn't been very friendly to you lately. Just make sure you say everything nicely (maybe write down stuff earlier that you want to say and practice saying it before you see her). Good luck!
okay well maby you should wave hi to her and try to hint to her that you still like her.
ok mr.cool guy, here it is, something is going on here, she either does not like you anymore and has her eye on someone else, or you have upset her and she is pissed off with you. I suggest you write a note and either give it to her or put it through her letterbox, dont say too much on it other than you both need to talk, tell her a time on the note that you will call for a chat. If she does not respond i am afraid you just need to move on, dont make excuses for her ie; perhaps she didnt get the note or maybe she didnt answer the phone cos she was out, any normal polite person would ring back or text out of courtesy. Plenty more fish and all that.Wish you luck.........
If she wants to be with you, she will come to you. You have made all the advances in letting her know you are interested
i don't think that it is really sweating over, find someonelse
I had that happen to me before and here's exactly what I did to fix that problem...You ready for this??? I grabbed the microphone to the school's PA system and I announced her name (AND mine) and told her that I really cared about her and I want to start over with a brand new friendship.


Now young man, you think about it before you try that one because that was a long time ago where my punishment was only two days suspension from school. Today you'd probably get arrested....





Good luck Sport...
Please stop playing all these mind games with yourself and talk with her!!!


women like men who communicate, in fact, that's one of their biggest complaints about us guys.


TALK TO HER!!!!
I say go for it man. the worst case is she says no, your not gonna loose your life over her. right???





believe me we've all been in that situation. luckily I had the courage to just ask her out and we've been together for a year. so as I said before, go for it and good luck man
You need to see her maybe in school and communicate.


You can't read her mind and if she won't answer her phone, then you need to go to her and ask whazzzzzzzzzz up.


Rev. TomCat
if you really like this person.. you have to take a few steps.. from your description of events.. you are waiting for her to respond to you.. and she probably is doing the same... buy her a bunch of flowers.. this will break the ice.. hand her the flowers. and tell her what is in your heart.. then wait about two or three days .. she may respond the way you want.. and again she might not.. but by buying her some flowers.. about 12 dollars.. you save yourself a lot of wondering why.. and if it does not go your way.. you know that she is not for you. and then move on and find someone else.. but dont be pushy that is demamding she act the way you are thinking she should act.. but let the flowers be the last .. dont get in the habit of buying gifts.. wait until you are married.. that way you wont have to worry if she loved you or the gifts.. and felt obligated.. thats all i can say..
well is she allowed to date now???





maybe she's still not allowed to date and that is why she is not answering your calls. ?





i think you should just say HI to her when you see her and try to start a conversation and stuff. Then you might get more of an idea as to what's going on and if she's into you or not.





best of luck to you! :)
3 words ask her out
well if she isn't allowed just leave her alone and get a goods night sleep
I think maybe she wants to play hard to get to see if you are going to work for her love or just expect her to give it to you. Us girls are very difficult, but its obvious she likes you. Good luck
I was in the same predicament as of last week. But now were going out and were together as a couple. I found that although its more risky and hurts more than over the phone, the upfront approach works amazingly well. The best thing to do is to get her to the side when you have alot of time to talk and tell her about the things that make you attracted to her. this works well even on women you've already dated. Women also love when men are caring, thoughtful, and chivalrous. My suggestion is to ask her for a second chance, BUT NEVER SAY YOU CAN CHANGE, this is a complete and flat out NO. This makes it seem as though you are incredibly desperate. So good luck.
sounds like ya need to talk try texting her
I don't think you screwed up.


If she doesn't answer her phone... maybe there's something really depressing going on in her life.


Try talking to one of her friends... if you can't talk to her. Figure out what's wrong. Then use your comforting skills... if you comfort her, she'll probably trust you. And when she does, DON'T break that trust!
well in my point of view because im a girl, you should talk to here face to face and ask her whats up and tell her how you feel. if you get shot down its okay dont worry about it you tried and thats a good thing. then girls will see you a different way instead of a scardey cat. get the courage to do it if you really and truly want to be with her:] and another tip...girls love it when you do something absolutley sweet. good luck!
Ask her out, she might like it.


Hope for the best!!!
what makes u think that if shes not allowed to date she will date NOW?? also maube she thinks youre not interested in HER? suprise with something special like dinner or a picnic or something to show her how much you like her....ur a really big drama queen btw
Ask her out. She likes you, but is afraid you don't like her, and that she will appear desperate or pushy.
Keep it chilled, back away a little, but don't be offhand with her. Try and concentrate on having your own fun. If she likes you she will make it clear once you have backed off a bit. Us girls are funny like that.





Good luck
SIMPLE - JUST GO UP TO HER AND TELL HER - HEY I LIKE YOU - DO YOU LIKE ME - WOULD YOU LIKE TO GO OUT AGAIN - problem today - everyone make everything a bigger problem than it is - SHE CAN ONLY SAY ONE OF TWO THINGS - YES - NO - i bet you there's a bunch of nice girls in your school you could go out with if she say no - that you will probably be happy with if she said no
Well i think YOU should say ';hi';, YOU should wave to her and YOU should let her know your interested in her. Hang out with her, converse with her and always keep up to date. Talk to her on instant messenger and don't stop phoning. Good luck buddy
You might not like this answer but, I really think the best way to get close to a girl is to become freinds first. And then if she likes you, you will soon know. It will really give both of you a chance to see if you click. And if she is not interested in dating you, you will atleast have another freind. Life is to short to put a lot of effort in to something that is not meant to be. Good luck and may you find happiness.
Dump her! There will be someone far nicer who will treat you with a bit of respect!
i think you answered your own question with your last line... if shes not allowed to date, how do you expect to date her? id say quit bein a wuss and talk to her. get to be friends with her because friends are not outlawed, are they? and the best relationships grow from friendships :D at least in my experience.
Go take your face for the call of nature!!!!