GUYS! I feel REALLY bad and I NEED ADVICE?! GIRLS TOO?

There's this guy josh I've liked for almost 2 years. I used to think he liked me too, but I got majorly mixed signals. Sometimes he was so good to me, and other times (like when he tried to get me lost in a neighborhood at nite)...arghhhh. The final straw came Friday when invited him to this ball I had to go to (just to hang with me so I didn't be to dance), and he flat out said no. I figured if he liked me at all,he woulda gone. Instead I spent the evenig with guys who give me the creeps, holding their hands and touching my back and thinking of how he only hands I wanted touch me were josh's.


I've had to see josh all this week at church activity were helping at. I've ignored him if he tries to talk to me. He has told my 15 year old brother, who he's friends with, every nite just how I hate him. Last nite my bro told me to tell him sorry, and I said,';I have nothing to be sorry for'; and josh said,';are u mad at me?'; he asked twice. I wouldn't answer I just turned away. ';I'm not going anywher. When urready to talk you know where I'll be.'; I said wouldn't talk. And then as the nite progressed I just got meaner and meaner towards josh.


Now... I feel like crap. I feel like I took the only guy I ever cared bout and shoved him away. WHY? Because I conned myself into believing he liked me. I will see tonight. What should I do??We're 18. Also...why would he care if I was mad at him or not?GUYS! I feel REALLY bad and I NEED ADVICE?! GIRLS TOO?
u sound meanGUYS! I feel REALLY bad and I NEED ADVICE?! GIRLS TOO?
He likes you as a friend, and he doesn't understand why you're angry at him. Maybe you should just resign yourself to being friends with him, and forget about dating him. Then you can stop being passive-aggressive and have fun again.
omgeee that soundz like my friend josh!!!!!!!!





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sorry dudee!!!
well judging by what I have read, youre a bad speller and your grammar is horrible for an 18 year old. Other than that, Josh is still concerned about you because you two are friends, caring for someone doesn't mean you have to be in love with them. Josh might have feelings for you, guys are just more conservative when it comes to love. Balls may just not be his thing.
Sounds to me like you guys need to have a serious sit down conversation. Tell him that you've been getting mixed signals from him about what he wants. He needs to know how you feel and why you were ignoring him. Then you can both get everything straightened out and you'll either be able to go back to the way things were or if you should go your separate ways. The best thing you can do in this situation is be honest and be calm. Don't take anything personally and don't take offense to anything.





Hope that helps.